How do you break generational trauma, navigate motherhood, and still keep your sense of humor intact?

In this honest episode of the Collide Podcast, we sit down with Melanie Shankle to talk about halting generational trauma and the the realities of momming, and handling emotional ups and downs. She shares about her journey from blogger to New York Times bestselling author, offering insights on building strong connections with your kids, creating safe spaces for them to share, and surviving the rollercoaster of their emotions. Whether you’re navigating motherhood, parenting challenges, or the pressure to “get it right,” this episode will remind you that laughter, grace, and intentional connection are powerful tools in raising kids and breaking cycles.

Meet Melanie

Melanie Shankle—better known as “Big Mama”—is a New York Times bestselling author, blogger, and speaker. She started her blog in 2006 with funny and heartfelt reflections on motherhood, marriage, faith, and everyday life, and her storytelling quickly struck a chord with readers. Melanie is passionate about encouraging moms, fostering joy in everyday life, and helping families navigate the challenges of parenting with grace and humor. Her story is a powerful example of living intentionally, embracing imperfection, and creating meaningful connections with your children.

In This Episode, You’ll Learn

• Strategies for breaking generational trauma in your family
• Ways to strengthen emotional connections with your kids
• How to create safe spaces for your children to express themselves
• Tips for surviving the emotional ups and downs of motherhood

How This Episode Will Encourage You

If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by motherhood or unsure if you’re “doing it right,” this episode will offer practical guidance and heartfelt encouragement. You’ll be reminded that even in the messy, unpredictable moments, you can parent with intention, love, and humor—and that breaking cycles of pain is possible.

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