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Happy Monday Gents! Today I will get you ready to start your  week off with a little motivation!
Thank you very much for taking the time to listen today! I can't express my gratitude enough! Never hesitate to contact me at [email protected] or on Instagram @mygentsjourney if you need assistance with this or anything else I talk about. Also, please leave a review; it is really beneficial to the show!

"True mastery is found in the details. The way you handle the little things defines the way you handle everything."

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Thank you very much for taking the time to listen today! I can't express my gratitude enough! Never hesitate to contact me at [email protected] or on Instagram @mygentsjourney if you need assistance with this or anything else I talk about. Also, please leave a review; it is really beneficial to the show!

"True mastery is found in the details. The way you handle the little things defines the way you handle everything."

Let’s Chat!

Thank you very much for taking the time to listen today! I can't express my gratitude enough! Never hesitate to contact me at [email protected] or on Instagram @mygentsjourney if you need assistance with this or anything else I talk about. Also, please leave a review; it is really beneficial to the show!

"True mastery is found in the details. The way you handle the little things defines the way you handle everything."

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This is one of my favorite quotes from Marcus Aurelius. “Think of the life you have lived until now as over and, as a dead man, see what’s left as a bonus and live it according to Nature. Love the hand that fate deals you and play it as your own, for what could be more fitting?” 

Thank you very much for taking the time to listen today! I can't express my gratitude enough! Never hesitate to contact me at [email protected] or on Instagram @mygentsjourney if you need assistance with this or anything else I talk about. Also, please leave a review; it is really beneficial to the show!

"True mastery is found in the details. The way you handle the little things defines the way you handle everything."

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Happy Tuesday Gents! Today I will get you ready to start your  week off with a little motivation!
Thank you very much for taking the time to listen today! I can't express my gratitude enough! Never hesitate to contact me at [email protected] or on Instagram @mygentsjourney if you need assistance with this or anything else I talk about. Also, please leave a review; it is really beneficial to the show!

"True mastery is found in the details. The way you handle the little things defines the way you handle everything."

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A man finds himself locked in a walk in freezer. He is convinced he will die and begins writing letters. His letters end with a final passage where he is saying he can not write anymore because his fingers are beginning to freeze. When they find him dead, not only do they find the letters but they discover that the freezer’s temperature never dropped below 50 degrees. Thus, the man pretty much psyched himself to death.

[Van Ekeren, 1988]

The expression “worried to death” has more truth to it than you might think.

There is a story about Nick Sitzman, a strong, young bull-of-a-man, who worked on a train crew. It seemed Nick had everything: a strong healthy body, ambition, a wife and two children, and many friends. However, Nick had one fault. He was a notorious worrier. He worried about everything and usually feared the worst.

One midsummer day, the train crew were informed that they could quit an hour early in honor of the foreman’s birthday. Accidentally, Nick was locked in a refrigerator boxcar, and the rest of the workmen left the site. Nice panicked.

He banged and shouted until his fists were bloody and his voice was hoarse. No one heard him. “If I can’t get out, I’ll freeze to death in here,” he thought. Wanting to let his wife and family know exactly what had happened to him, Nick found a knife and began to etch words on the wooden floor. He wrote, “It’s so cold, my body is getting numb. If I could just go to sleep. These may be my last words.”

The next morning the crew slid open the heavy doors of the boxcar and found Nick dead. An autopsy revealed that every physical sign of his body indicated he had frozen to death. And yet the refrigeration unit of the car was inoperative, and the temperature inside indicated fifty-five degrees. Nick had killed himself by the power of worry.

Origins:   Can someone really think himself to death? That is the point of this legend: the mind is a powerful thing; so powerful that it can kill. This story has often been passed along by motivational speakers as an example of the power of one’s mind.

We’ve been hearing versions of this story for years, tales in which the details change but the theme remains that of an unfortunate man who dies after he is trapped in a situation which he presumes to be dangerous but is later revealed not to have posed any real threat to his well-being: The air-tight room he’s locked in turns out to have a vent to the outside which brings a steady supply of fresh air but the man suffocates because he believes he’s used up all the oxygen; the cooling unit on the refrigerated.

"True mastery is found in the details. The way you handle the little things defines the way you handle everything."

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This is such an important question to ask yourself when you are letting small things get in the way of your goals and focus. When I ask this question to my clients I always get a confused look. But when we really dig into this question you will realize how important and life changing this question is. So how can you figure out if you are using pleasure to distract you from purpose?

In this episode:

• How to set your day up
• Check in with yourself through out the day.
• Do I feel overwhelmed?
• Breath.
• How would I explain what I am doing to someone that I am living my purpose?
• Have an accountability partner
• How to end your day.

I appreciate you taking the time to listen today, and if you have any questions about this or anything else I talk about, please email me at [email protected] or find me on Instagram @mygentsjourney.

"True mastery is found in the details. The way you handle the little things defines the way you handle everything."

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When you're on the road to becoming a Gentleman or achieving Self Mastery, you realize there are two truths to consider. 

1. Your only limitations are those that you believe and impose on yourself. 

2. When you realize you are the Alpha and Omega, life becomes more enjoyable.

In this episode:

• What are the 3 things holding you back?
  • Fear
  • Values
  • Purpose

Once you truly realize this truth your whole life will change for the better.I appreciate you taking the time to listen today, and if you have any questions about this or anything else I talk about, please email me at [email protected] or find me on Instagram @mygentsjourney.

"True mastery is found in the details. The way you handle the little things defines the way you handle everything."

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In the middle of a beautiful city, there was a museum laid with beautiful marble tiles and with a huge marble statue as a part of the display. Many people from all over the world visited the museum every day and admired the beautifully crafted statue. One night, the marble tiles started talking to the marble statue.

Marble Tiles: Hey statue, Don’t you think that it is just not fair that everybody from all over the world come all the way here to admire you while ignoring and stepping on me.

Marble Statue: My dear brother, marble tile, Don’t you remember we are actually from the same cave.

Marble Tile: Yes! I do, that is why i feel it is even more unfair. Both of us were born from the same cave and yet the world treats us so differently now. This is so unfair!

Marble Statue: Yes you are right my brother. But, do you still remember the day when the sculptor tried to work on you but you resisted his tools.

Marble Tiles: Yes, I despise that guy. How could he use those nasty tools on me.

Marble Statue: Well, Since you resisted his tools he couldn’t work on you. When he decided to give up on you, he started working on me instead. I knew at once that i would be something different and unique after his efforts. I bore all the painful tools he used on me and allowed him craft me as he wanted.

Marble Tiles: But those tools were so painful.

Marble Statue: My brother, there is a price for everything in life. Since, you decided to resist and gave up half way, you can’t blame anybody who steps on you now.!

The marble tiles silently listened to his brothers words. and started to reflect on it.

Moral: The harder the knocks you go through in life, the more you learn and put them to use in the future! Do not be discouraged by setbacks and failures! Keep trying to be better.

"True mastery is found in the details. The way you handle the little things defines the way you handle everything."

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Thank you very much for taking the time to listen today! I can't express my gratitude enough! Never hesitate to contact me at [email protected] or on Instagram @mygentsjourney if you need assistance with this or anything else I talk about. Also, please leave a review; it is really beneficial to the show!

"True mastery is found in the details. The way you handle the little things defines the way you handle everything."