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In Ancient times men lived by a code. Samurais had a code called bushido. Gangsters had a code saying you never rat anyone out. When you have a code you live by it gives your life purpose and focus. So today we are going to go over how to make your own code to live a better life. 

In this Episode:

• What is a code?
• Why having a code is important
• Research codes.
• Ask yourself why.
• Repetition is key.
• Visualize.
• Teach your code.

I as always want to thank you so very much for your support and listening to the Podcast. If you ever have any questions on this or anything else, Please feel free to reach out [email protected]!

"True mastery is found in the details. The way you handle the little things defines the way you handle everything."

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When you are on your Journey to become a Gentleman alot of the times we are becoming a Gentleman to fulfill something inside of us. As we do that we forget that there are people out there that are looking for someone to show them the way. So what am I talking about today? I am talking Legacy.

In this Episode

• What is a Legacy?
• Immortality.
• Keeping to your word.
• Be passionate about something.
• Show and tell.

Legacy is such an important thing that we leave behind. So always pay attention to what you do and who you do it around. You never know what legacy you are creating for yourself.If you need help with this or have any questions never hesitate to reach out [email protected]! Thank you for listening.

"True mastery is found in the details. The way you handle the little things defines the way you handle everything."

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Here is a copy of the story if you want to read along.

There was a young man who wanted to make a lot of money, and so he went to a guru................................................
He told the guru, “I wanna be on the same level that you’re on.”And so the guru said, “If you wanna be on the same level that I’m on, I’ll meet you tomorrow at the beach at 4 am.”The man thought, The beach. I said I wanna make money, I don’t wanna swim.But the young man got there at 4 am, all ready to rock and roll.
The old guru grabbed his head. “How bad do you want to be successful?”“Real Bad.”So the guru said, “Walk on out in the water.”So he walks out into the water, about waist deep. He said to himself, This man’s crazy. I wanna make money, he’s got me out here swimming. I didn’t ask to be a lifeguard. I wanna make money.The guru said “Come out a little further.” So he did. He was up right about at the shoulder area.He thought, this old guru is crazy. He’s making money, but he’s crazy.The guru said, “Come out a little further”. He came out a little further. He was right at his mouth.The young man was like, “I’m about to go back in. This man’s out of his mind.”But the guru shouted, “I thought you wanted to be successful!”He said, “I do!”The guru said, “Walk a little further…”He came, and the guru dropped his head in the water. He Held him down, and was holding him under. The man was scratching, clawing, fighting to get up. The guru kept him down under water. And just before the young man was about to pass out the guru raised him up.
The Guru said, “I got a question for you. When you were under water, what was the only thing you wanted to do? More than anything?”
He said, “I wanted to breathe.”

The guru said “When you want to succeed as bad as you want to breathe, then you’ll be successful.

This story had such a big impact on my life and it changed my outlook on everything I do.

If you have questions on this or anything that we have gone over. Never hesitate to reach out [email protected]!

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When you are on your journey to become a gentleman or the journey to master yourself. You realize that most of the time that you have to go all the way. You have to give it your all to make things happen sometimes. But by doing that you know that you can do anything because you know that there is no limits to what you can do. So how can you go all the way, well I will show you how.

In this episode;

Dont play scared.
Stop listening to outside noise.
Be the example.
Know that Tomorrow is not promised.

Here is the Poem that inspired this podcast.

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Charles Bukowski,

"True mastery is found in the details. The way you handle the little things defines the way you handle everything."

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Today we are going to talk about something that in the beginning Is hard to do and will have you second and third guess yourself. But the more that you do this, not only will it be easier , it will change your life. It will also get you to where you want to be in your life. What is this I am talking about. Standing in your Authority!

In this Episode;

So what happens when we dont stand in our own authority?
So what happens when we do stand in our own authority?
 So how do I stand in my authority then?
Stop judging yourself on your past.
F.E.A.R 
Know who you are.
Focus.
Relax

I had such a good time with this episode. This is something that everyone I introduce this to changes their life. When you stand in your authority the world changes for you.

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In this episode we are going to talk about why no one is coming to save you, and why you must save yourself. In the Journey to become a Gentleman you figure out very quickly that you have to save yourself. We do that when we choose to become a gentleman or master ourselves.

In this Episode:

• So why is no one coming to save you?
• So how do I start to save myself from myself?
• The First step is take responsibility and accountability.
• Be the author of your story.
• Stand for something.
• Realize that you have the power to change the world.

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I have put the story below so you can read along if you like.


Three Feet From Gold

by Napoleon Hill

One of the most common causes of failure is the habit of quitting when one is overtaken by temporary defeat. Every person is guilty of this mistake at one time or another.

An uncle of R. U. Darby was caught by the gold fever in the gold-rush days, and went west to DIG AND GROW RICH. He had never heard that more gold has been mined from the brains of men than has ever been taken from the earth. He staked a claim and went to work with pick and shovel. The going was hard, but his lust for gold was definite.

After weeks of labor, he was rewarded by the discovery of the shining ore. He needed machinery to bring the ore to the surface. Quietly, he covered up the mine, retraced his footsteps to his home in Williamsburg, Maryland, told his relatives and a few neighbors of the “strike.” They got together money for the needed machinery, had it shipped. The uncle and Darby went back to work the mine.

The first car of ore was mined, and shipped to a smelter. The returns proved they had one of the richest mines in Colorado! A few more cars of that ore would clear the debts. Then would come the big killing in profits.

Down went the drills!  Up went the hopes of Darby and Uncle!  Then something happened!  The vein of gold ore disappeared!  They had come to the end of the rainbow, and the pot of gold was no longer there! They drilled on, desperately trying to pick up the vein again— all to no avail.

Finally, they decided to QUIT.

They sold the machinery to a junk man for a few hundred dollars, and took the train back home. Some “junk” men are dumb, but not this one! He called in a mining engineer to look at the mine and do a little calculating. The engineer advised that the project had failed, because the owners were not familiar with “fault lines.” His calculations showed that the vein would be found just three feet from where the Darbys had stopped drilling! That is exactly where it was found!

The “Junk” man took millions of dollars in ore from the mine, because he knew enough to seek expert counsel before giving up.

Most of the money which went into the machinery was procured through the efforts of R. U. Darby, who was then a very young man. The money came from his relatives and neighbors, because of their faith in him. He paid back every dollar of it, although he was years in doing so.

Long afterward, Mr. Darby recouped his loss many times over, when he made the discovery that desire can be transmuted into gold. The discovery came after he went into the business of selling life insurance.

Remembering that he lost a huge fortune, because he stopped three feet from gold, Darby profited by the experience in his chosen work, by the simple method of saying to himself, “I stopped three feet from gold, but I will never stop because men say ‘no’ when I ask them to buy insurance.”

Darby is one of a small group of fewer than fifty men who sell more than a million dollars in life insurance annually. He owes his stickability to the lesson he learned from his quitability in the gold mining business.

Before success comes in any man’s life, he is sure to meet with much temporary defeat, and, perhaps, some failure. When defeat overtakes a man, the easiest and most logical thing to do is to quit. That is exactly what the majority of men do. More than five hundred of the most successful men this country has ever known told the author their greatest success came just one step beyond the point at which defeat had overtaken them. Failure is a trickster with a keen sense of irony and cunning. It takes great delight in tripping one when success is almost within reach.

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I have Put the story below so you can read along if you like.

In ancient times, a King had a boulder placed on a roadway. He then hid himself and watched to see if anyone would move the boulder out of the way. Some of the king’s wealthiest merchants and courtiers came by and simply walked around it.

Many people loudly blamed the King for not keeping the roads clear, but none of them did anything about getting the stone out of the way.

A peasant then came along carrying a load of vegetables. Upon approaching the boulder, the peasant laid down his burden and tried to push the stone out of the road. After much pushing and straining, he finally succeeded.

After the peasant went back to pick up his vegetables, he noticed a purse lying in the road where the boulder had been.

The purse contained many gold coins and a note from the King explaining that the gold was for the person who removed the boulder from the roadway.

Every obstacle we come across in life gives us an opportunity to improve our circumstances, and whilst the lazy complain, Gentleman are creating opportunities through their kind hearts, generosity, and willingness to get things done.

"True mastery is found in the details. The way you handle the little things defines the way you handle everything."

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In this episode we are going to talk about why your time is now, and how to always have a sense of calmness once you understand this.

In this episode

• Tomorrow is not promised.
• Legacy.
• Do the things you want.
• Stop Caring what other people think.
• No more regrets.
• Being Present.

I want to thank you so much for listening to the show today. If you ever have any questions on this or anything. Please reach out [email protected]

"True mastery is found in the details. The way you handle the little things defines the way you handle everything."

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In this episode I read the story about a group of Frogs and what happens when you don't give up.

Here is a copy of the story.

As a group of frogs was traveling through the woods, two of them fell into a deep pit. When the other frogs crowded around the pit and saw how deep it was, they told the two frogs that there was no hope left for them.

However, the two frogs decided to ignore what the others were saying and they proceeded to try and jump out of the pit.

Despite their efforts, the group of frogs at the top of the pit were still saying that they should just give up. That they would never make it out.

Eventually, one of the frogs took heed to what the others were saying and he gave up, falling down to his death. The other frog continued to jump as hard as he could. Again, the crowd of frogs yelled at him to stop the pain and just die.

He jumped even harder and finally made it out. When he got out, the other frogs said, “Did you not hear us?”

The frog explained to them that he was deaf. He thought they were encouraging him the entire time.

"True mastery is found in the details. The way you handle the little things defines the way you handle everything."