Get Divorced Without Getting Screwed

Deciding whether to get divorced is one of the most difficult decisions that you will make in your life. It will have an impact on you, your spouse, and your children. So, should you get divorced? What are the signs to look out for? What do you need to know? 

In this episode of the Get Divorced Without Getting Screwed Podcast, we look at 12 signs that your marriage may be at its end. These include:

✔ Always having to win arguments

✔ Never fighting

✔ Having the need to provoke your spouse

✔ Your spouse and annoyance

✔ Hiding your "real self" from your spouse

✔ Exaggerating on social media

✔ Is your spouse your "go to" person?

✔ Putting things and people before your spouse

✔ No more "we"✔ The "exit strategy"

✔ Always thinking about divorce

If you have signs that your marriage is in trouble, do not despair. It is not the end of your life. Just take a deep breath and know that we are here for you.

Ready to take responsibility for your life? Visit www.MensDivorceNetwork.com and check out the several ways that we can help you navigate divorce and get a better result.

When going through a divorce, the marital home is often the largest asset—and the biggest source of stress. Should you sell it? Keep it? Buy out your spouse? The decisions you make now can impact your financial future for years to come.

In this episode, we're joined by Jeff Landers, a seasoned real estate, mortgage, and divorce expert with over 40 years of experience. Jeff has helped over 700 people nationwide navigate the financial complexities of divorce and has written extensively on the subject for Forbes, Huffington Post, and other major publications. Plus, he’s been through his own amicable divorce—finalized in just three months for less than $500—so he knows firsthand what works and what doesn’t.

Here’s what we cover in this episode:

🎙️ How Jeff achieved a fast, affordable, and amicable divorce

🎙️Why adopting an "I want to be fair" mindset can make the process easier for everyone

🎙️ The importance of thinking financially, not emotionally, when making divorce decisions

🎙️The different options for handling the marital home and which might be best for you

🎙️ What to know if you're selling your home immediately versus listing it after the divorce

🎙️ Essential protections to include in your divorce agreement when dealing with real estate

🎙️ What to consider if you want to keep the house and how to finance a buyout

🎙️ The role of a Certified Divorce Lending Professional (CDLP) and how they can help

🎙️ Why emotional attachment to the home can cloud your financial judgment

If you're facing decisions about your home in divorce, you don’t want to miss this episode. Jeff shares expert insights that will help you make the best financial choices for your future.

To learn more about Jeff and get expert guidance on keeping your home after divorce, check out his book, Divorce House Sense®: How To Keep Your Martial Home So You Can Move On, Not Out®. ⭐ Use code NOTSCREWED for a special discount! ⭐ Link here: https://divorcehousesense.com/

Find Jeff on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DivorceHouseSense

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Divorce is one of the most challenging transitions a man can go through—emotionally, financially, and legally. Yet, while resources for women navigating divorce are abundant, men often find themselves overlooked and under-supported. That’s where a divorce coach can make all the difference.

In this episode, I sit down with Eric Chilton, a retired Federal Special Agent turned Divorce Coach, to discuss why having a coach by your side during divorce isn’t just helpful—it’s essential. With decades of experience in investigations, mediation, and legal matters, Eric brings a wealth of insight into how men can protect their interests, manage the process wisely, and come out on the other side stronger than ever.

We dive into:
✅ Why men are an underserved community when it comes to divorce support – and how coaching fills the gap
✅ Eric’s own divorce story and what led him to help other men navigate the process
✅ How a divorce coach can help you find the right attorney and avoid costly mistakes
✅ The mindset shift you need to have a better divorce and start the process on the right foot
✅ Why you shouldn’t fear losing everything – your kids, your home, your finances – and how to take control instead
✅ Letting go of bitterness over alimony or child support and learning to focus on what truly matters
✅ How to ensure divorce doesn’t traumatize your kids – it’s not divorce itself that harms them, but how you handle it

Divorce doesn’t have to be a war, and it certainly doesn’t have to define you. If you or someone you know is going through a divorce, this episode is packed with practical strategies to help you move forward in the best possible way.

Learn more about Eric at PalmettoDivorceCoaching.com. and ChiltonSecurityPartners.com

Follow Eric on Instagram: @PalmettoDivorceCoaching https://www.instagram.com/palmettodivorcecoaching/

Find Eric on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/people/Palmetto-Divorce-Coaching/61554782011727/

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Choosing the right divorce attorney isn’t just about finding someone with a law degree—it’s about finding the right advocate for your unique situation. The person you hire will have a major impact on the outcome of your divorce, your finances, and even your stress levels throughout the process. So, how do you make sure you’re choosing wisely?

In this episode, we break down exactly what you need to consider before hiring a divorce attorney. From key questions to ask to red flags to watch out for, this is the guide you need before signing any retainer agreement.

Some of the essential points we cover:✅ Is litigation really necessary?
✅ Trust is everything
✅ Know who’s handling your case
✅ Honesty goes both ways
✅ Understanding the billing
✅ Hiring someone who understands your goals

Your divorce attorney is a major decision—one that can impact the next chapter of your life. Tune in to this episode to make sure you’re asking the right questions and setting yourself up for the best possible outcome. 🎧

Valentine’s Day isn’t just about romance—it’s about self-love, too.

If you're going through a divorce, this day might feel a little different than it used to. But what if, instead of focusing on what’s missing, you used this time to focus on you? Divorce takes a toll not just emotionally, but physically as well. Stress, anxiety, and uncertainty can wreak havoc on your body. But the good news? You can take control of your health—one step at a time.

In this episode, we're joined by Irslan Ali, fitness coach and creator of the FHIT Training Method, to talk about how to fuel your body, manage stress, and build habits that support your well-being—even in the toughest times. We dive into:

✅ Why learning to de-stress is the first step to getting healthy
✅ How to know if your body is stuck in “fight or flight” mode
✅ Techniques to calm your mind before building better habits
✅ Why accountability is king when it comes to staying on track
✅ The foods that can make—or break—your health when stress is high

This Valentine's Day, show yourself some love. Your well-being matters, and taking care of your body is one of the best ways to rebuild your life after divorce.

You can find out more about Irslan here: https://www.facebook.com/irslan.ali.7

Follow Irslan on Instagram: @irslanalifitness https://www.instagram.com/irslanalifitness/?hl=en

Tune in now and start putting yourself first. 🎧💪

Divorcing a narcissist isn’t like a typical breakup—it’s a psychological and legal minefield. The manipulation, the gaslighting, the endless need for control—it can leave you emotionally and financially drained if you’re not prepared. But you don’t have to fight this battle alone.

In this episode, we sit down with Tracy A. Malone, a dynamic author, speaker, and internationally recognized narcissistic abuse and divorce coach, to break down the reality of divorcing and co-parenting with a narcissist. Tracy shares her personal story, expert insights, and the strategies you need to protect yourself and your children during a high-conflict divorce.

We’ll cover:

✔️ What is narcissism? How to recognize the traits and tactics of a narcissist

✔️ Are you in a relationship with a covert narcissist? Signs you need to watch for

✔️ Can narcissism rub off on your kids? Understanding how growing up with a narcissistic parent can affect children

✔️ How to divorce a narcissist without losing everything – legally, financially, and emotionally

✔️ Why education is your best weapon – how fighting the wrong battles can cost you thousands

✔️ The power of documentation – why evidence is EVERYTHING in a divorce with a narcissist

✔️ Protecting your children – setting up therapy, crafting an airtight parenting plan, and minimizing harm

✔️ Finding the right attorney – key questions to ask to make sure they understand high-conflict divorces

✔️ The professionals you need on your team – therapists, financial advisors, and other experts who can support you

Divorcing a narcissist is not the time to “figure it out as you go.” You need a plan, and you need the right tools to navigate this process wisely. This episode is packed with essential advice to help you stay one step ahead, protect yourself, and move forward with clarity.

Learn more about Tracy and read her invaluable resources here: https://narcissistabusesupport.com/

Check out Tracy's book,"Divorcing Your Narcissist: You Can't Make This Shit Up!": https://www.amazon.com/Divorcing-Your-Narcissist-Cant-Make/dp/173650780X

🎧 Tune in now to get the insights you need to take back control!

Divorce doesn’t have to drain your bank account—or your sanity. If you think the only way to get divorced is by hiring expensive attorneys and battling it out in court, you’re not alone. We’ve been conditioned to believe that’s the norm. But what if there was a smarter, faster, and way more affordable option?

In this episode, we’re cutting through the noise and exposing the better way to divorce: mediation. Too many people overlook this solution, and it’s costing them thousands of dollars (not to mention unnecessary stress). If you and your spouse are both working, not fighting over the kids, and just want to move on, there is absolutely no reason to spend big money on litigation. Mediation lets you sit down, reach an agreement, and walk away with your finances intact.

In this episode, we discuss:
✔️ The biggest misconceptions about divorce that could be draining your wallet
✔️ What mediation is—and why most people don’t realize it’s an option
✔️ Why you don’t need an attorney to enter mediation
✔️ How mediation works, who it’s best for, and when it may not be the right fit
✔️ The emotional and financial toll of litigation (and how mediation spares you from both)
✔️ What to look for in a mediator to ensure you get the best guidance

If you’re thinking about divorce (or in the middle of one), don’t make it harder and more expensive than it needs to be. This episode will open your eyes to a solution that could save you money, time, and emotional energy.

🎧 Tune in now and take control of your divorce the smart way!

Divorce can feel like a storm that leaves you spinning, struggling to regain your footing. But what if this challenge could also be an opportunity to rebuild—not just your life, but yourself? In this episode, we sit down with Dr. Kristen Strom, an inspirational speaker and transformational coach, who shares her powerful story of reclaiming her health, happiness, and purpose after being trapped in the grind of daily life.

Dr. Strom’s journey from burnout to balance reminds us all of one essential truth: We are alive to thrive. She’s here to guide you through actionable steps to prioritize your mental, physical, and spiritual health—even when life feels overwhelming.

Here’s what you’ll discover in this uplifting conversation:

✅ Why it’s crucial to focus on your kids' well-being during divorce—without losing yourself in the process

✅ The truth about changing behaviors and building good habits: how long it takes, what works, and the small steps that lead to big results

✅ Why your physical health matters just as much as your mental wellness when it comes to turning your life around

✅ Simple strategies to beat exhaustion, manage stress, and start your day with purpose

✅ The power of a “brain dump” to clear mental clutter and stay focused

✅ Why sustainable goals are the secret to success—and how to integrate positive changes without overwhelming yourself

✅ The importance of being present in your relationships and how clear communication strengthens connections

✅ What to do when it feels like joy has been drained from your life—and how to rediscover it, one moment at a time

This episode is packed with motivational insights, practical tips, and powerful reminders that you can still find joy, even in the middle of life’s challenges. Tune in, take notes, and start building the life—and the version of yourself—you deserve.

To contact and learn more about Dr. Strom, visit her website: https://www.drkristenstrom.com

Follow Dr. Strom on Instagram:

Check out all of the helpful books mentioned by Dr. Strom:

Atomic Habits by James Clear: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0735211299/ref=cm_sw_r_as_gl_api_gl_i_V93YW0E03WK214F07KQN?linkCode=ml1&tag=1022495293270-20

The Happiness Project by Gretchen Rubin: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0062414852/ref=cm_sw_r_as_gl_api_gl_i_8YK32A2GSB2JAWGCNY7V?linkCode=ml1&tag=1022495293270-20

Think Like a Monk by Jay Shetty: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0008386420/ref=cm_sw_r_as_gl_api_gl_i_ECQHSSMVDKXJ71B7QYDZ?linkCode=ml1&tag=1022495293270-20

The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People by Stephen R. Covey: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1982137274/ref=cm_sw_r_as_gl_api_gl_i_JKP5XQJK4ZG69DAJQRXB?linkCode=ml1&tag=1022495293270-20

What happens when life throws you a curveball, and it’s time to reassess your support obligations? Whether it’s child support or alimony, understanding how to navigate a change in circumstances is essential in these situations. In this episode, we’re cutting through the confusion and giving you a straightforward guide to modifying support obligations.

Once a court sets child support or alimony, modifications aren’t automatic. They require proof of a substantial, permanent, and involuntary change in circumstances. But what does that mean, and how do you show it? Let's unpack these concepts and discuss what you need to know to ensure a fair and reasonable adjustment to your obligations.

Key Topics Covered:

✅ Defining what qualifies as a substantial, permanent, and involuntary change in circumstances

✅ How alimony agreements can include pre-negotiated terms for changes, such as anti-Lepis clauses, and how they work

✅ Why negotiating with your ex before heading to court can save time and money

✅ What is a Case Information Statement?

✅ Essential documentation you must disclose if you want to modify support

✅ What happens after a qualifying change in circumstances is proven?

✅ The common mistakes that can undermine your case and how to avoid getting blindsided

✅ Other non-income-related scenarios that may qualify as a change in circumstances

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Welcome to a milestone moment—our 100th episode! 🎉 Over the course of this podcast, we’ve brought you advice, stories, and strategies to help you navigate divorce and come out stronger. Today, we’re celebrating by diving into a topic that might hit closer to home than you’d think: what happens when you fall behind on your taxes. Whether it’s a forgotten filing or years of unpaid taxes catching up with you, this episode is packed with insights to help you take back control.

Our guest is Stephen A. Weisberg, founder and lead attorney of The W Tax Group, a nationwide tax defense firm. With over a decade of experience helping individuals and businesses resolve tax debt, audits, and IRS disputes, Stephen knows the ins and outs of what it takes to get out of a tax mess—and how to avoid making it worse. His client-focused approach ensures solutions that are tailored to your unique situation, making him the go-to expert in tax defense.

In this conversation, we break down everything you need to know about handling tax issues, including:

✅ What to expect during an IRS audit

✅ The cost of ignoring tax issues—all penalties explained

✅ Payment plans and options for negotiating debt with the IRS

✅ The reality behind tax debt commercials

✅ What happens when the IRS comes after you for a tax return filed during your marriage?

✅ What is innocent spouse relief, when can you file for it, and how hard is it to claim?

✅What you need to know about tax audits and fraud

✅ Debunking myths about tax debt

✅ Can unpaid taxes affect your credit score?

✅ And much more!

The biggest takeaway? Don’t ignore the problem. When the IRS comes knocking, the worst thing you can do is bury your head in the sand. Stephen’s advice is clear: seek professional help as soon as possible to understand your options and work toward a resolution.

To learn more about Stephen, go to weisberg.tax

Find Stephen on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/stephenaweisberg/

Email Stephen at [email protected]

You can also reach Stephen at (248) 971-0885.

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