Get Divorced Without Getting Screwed

Divorce is one of life’s most challenging transitions, and it’s easy to feel overwhelmed by the process. Many men fall into the trap of thinking their attorney is in charge, directing every move—but that’s not how it has to be. In this episode, host John Nachlinger, Esq. shifts the perspective and helps you understand that you are the one in control. Your attorney is there to guide and support you, but ultimately, you’re the decision-maker, shaping the course of your future.

John draws from his experience as a seasoned divorce attorney and mediator to shed light on how clients can take charge of their divorce process. This empowering conversation is filled with actionable advice, practical strategies, and valuable insights that will help you see divorce not as a situation happening to you, but as a phase where you hold the power to create the best outcome for yourself.

In this episode, we explore:

This episode is a must-listen for anyone seeking to reclaim their power during a divorce. Whether you’re at the start of the process or in the middle of it, John’s insights will help you approach divorce with a sense of purpose and direction.

Tune in to learn how to embrace your role as the driver of your divorce and take the first steps toward creating a future that’s yours to shape. Your destiny is in your hands.

Divorce is often viewed as a difficult and painful chapter in life, but it doesn’t have to be all bad. In fact, for many men, divorce can lead to unexpected growth, new opportunities, and a chance to rebuild life on their own terms. In this episode, we sit down with James Bastian, who shares his personal divorce story and how the experience changed his life for the better.

James talks about his journey through the end of his marriage, his co-parenting relationship with his ex, and how he managed to move forward into a more fulfilling and positive life. He explains how the process of divorce, while challenging, can also open the door to self-discovery, personal growth, and a fresh perspective on what really matters.

In this powerful conversation, we discuss:

✅ Should you regret a marriage that didn’t work?

✅ Handling hurtful comments during a divorce and keeping your emotional balance

✅ The importance of being guided by a skilled attorney throughout the process

✅ Dual citizenship, marriage with children, and how to navigate the complexities

✅ Processing the overwhelming feeling of being told that the marriage is over

✅ Key red flags that signal the end of a marriage and preparing for the inevitable

✅ When divorce gets nasty: Handling heated moments with grace

✅ The high financial and emotional cost of fighting in divorce—and what it costs afterward

✅ Every day, you choose how to view the world and create a new post-divorce reality

✅ And much more!

James Bastian’s story is one of resilience, hope, and finding a brighter future after a life-altering event. His insights will inspire anyone who is facing divorce, as he shows that with the right mindset, a painful ending can lead to an exciting new beginning.

Learn more about James on his website: https://www.jamesbastian.com/more-about-me

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Divorce often brings a tidal wave of emotions—grief, anger, fear, and, sometimes, relief. But what happens after the storm settles? How can men rebuild their lives, find happiness, and step confidently into the next chapter?

In this empowering episode, we welcome Allyson Fusella, a board-certified life coach with a passion for guiding individuals through major life changes. Allyson is renowned for helping her clients uncover what’s holding them back and empowering them to live their best lives. With her intuitive approach and proven methods, she has helped countless men rediscover joy and create meaningful, fulfilling futures after divorce.

Here’s What We Cover in This Episode:

When a marriage ends, it’s not just the relationship that changes—it’s your entire world. Allyson dives into practical strategies for navigating this transformation, offering actionable advice to help you rediscover your purpose and joy. Whether you’re still grappling with the emotional aftermath or ready to chart a new path, this episode is packed with insights that will inspire you to take control of your happiness and thrive.

To learn more about Allyson, go to www.foundationscoach.com

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Divorce is often described as one of life’s most stressful experiences, but what if it didn’t have to be? In this episode, we discuss how to approach divorce thoughtfully and effectively from the very beginning. Whether you're initiating the process or have just been blindsided by the news, this conversation will empower you with expert insights and practical advice to navigate divorce with clarity and purpose.

The best way to start the divorce process

Why you should not rush to hire an attorney

The importance of setting clear goals and resisting the urge to compare your situation to others

Your attorney isn't your therapist

How keeping your emotions in check will save you money

What makes mediation such a powerful tool in divorce

Finding the right mediator, reaching agreements, and what happens afterward

Dealing with uncooperative attorneys and complicated dynamics with your spouse

How to avoid being driven by emotions or the need to “win”

And much more!

This episode isn’t just about legal advice—it’s about equipping you with the mindset and tools to make your divorce as painless as possible. Sarah and Jamie are honest, practical, and deeply committed to helping their clients avoid unnecessary conflict and expense. Whether you’re exploring mediation, working through a tough negotiation, or simply trying to figure out your first steps, their advice will leave you feeling more confident and prepared.

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Divorce is already complicated, but when you add taxes into the mix, things can get even trickier. In this episode, we’re diving into the essential tax considerations for anyone navigating a divorce. Whether you’re in the early stages, right in the middle, or finalizing the process, understanding how taxes factor into your divorce is critical to protecting your financial future.

Our special guest is Hubert Johnson, a seasoned tax attorney with 15 years of experience, founder of Guardian Tax Law, co-author of two influential books, and host of the TV show

In this conversation, Hubert shares invaluable advice, emphasizing the importance of getting informed, taking control of your finances, and working with professionals to

In this episode, we discuss:

✅ Hubert's personal experience with divorce

✅ Why ignoring your finances isn’t an option

✅ Is alimony taxable?

✅ Dealing with dependency deductions and child

✅ Refundable vs non-refundable tax credits

✅ Filing status changes

✅ Safeguarding yourself — What you should

✅ The importance of record-keeping and

✅ A glimpse into divorce and bankruptcy

✅ Things to know before legally changing your

✅ And much more!

This episode is packed with actionable advice to help you avoid tax pitfalls during divorce. Whether you’re wondering how to handle dependency deductions, unsure about filing

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Divorce doesn’t have to be a bitter battleground; it can be a transformative experience that opens doors to personal growth, clarity, and peace. In this eye-opening episode, we’re joined by Jen Mitchell, family law attorney, mediator, and Holistic Health & Wellness Intuitive Coach with over 18 years of experience. As the creator of Solace Divorce Mediation, Jen is dedicated to empowering individuals through divorce, helping them uncover the lessons and healing that this life change offers.

In this episode, we discuss:

✅ Jen’s journey to focusing exclusively on mediation

✅ The right steps to start a divorce

✅ How to shift your mindset and see divorce as a meaningful opportunity in your life

✅ Moving beyond blame and resentment to find inner peace and healing

✅ Why mediation aligns well with masculine energy

✅ Encouragement for men on the receiving end of divorce

✅ How internalizing emotions harms you

✅ Finding yourself after divorce

✅ How Jen combines coaching and mediation

✅ And so much more!

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Welcome to Season 5 of Get Divorced Without Getting Screwed! In our season premiere, we’re diving into a topic that’s both challenging and exciting: stepping back into the dating scene and creating the perfect dating profile. For newly single men, this episode is your roadmap to standing out online in a way that’s genuine, confident, and attractive to the right partner. Whether you’re ready to find a new relationship or just looking to test the waters, this conversation has you covered.

Our guest, James Newberry, author of Dating Profile Secrets for Men: Attract Your Dream Girl Through Storytelling and the founder of Dating Profile Secrets, joins us with his unique expertise in marketing and storytelling to help you create a dating profile that works. With a career in advertising and fundraising for top organizations, James knows how to help men put their best foot forward—especially when it comes to this uniquely personal ad. He offers insider knowledge on the most effective ways to present yourself, attract the right match, and confidently convey who you are.

In this episode, we discuss:

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As we wrap up season four, this finale episode brings together the best advice and insights from a variety of experts to support those navigating divorce. Whether you're in the midst of a separation or rebuilding your life after one, this compilation of powerful moments from some of our top interviews will provide the guidance you need.

In this episode, we revisit highlights from our conversations with Mediator and Family Law Attorney Kristin M. Lis, Coach Carrie Sackett, Entrepreneur and Fitness Advocate Cody Jones, and Divorce Coach and Attorney Kimberley Mansfield.

Together, they offer valuable perspectives on critical topics like:

✅ Mastering relational awareness

Tune in to learn how to move forward with confidence, wisdom, and clarity as you step into your new beginning after divorce!

In this episode, we’ve compiled some of the most impactful moments from our conversations with therapists who specialize in unique, transformative therapies. With insights from Niomi Hurley, Teresa Trieb, Bailey Heuser, and Jayden Aubryn, this compilation delves into a range of innovative therapies designed to support those navigating life during or after divorce and other challenging transitions.

From the power of Rapid Transformational Therapy (RTT) and its ability to unlock deep healing through hypnosis (Episode 76), to the life-changing benefits of Transformational Breathwork as an alternative to traditional talk therapy (Episode 79), this episode explores methods that go beyond conventional approaches. We also confront the difficult topic of addiction, identifying the signs that someone may need help and discussing how to break free from destructive cycles (Episode 82). Additionally, we highlight the profound ways in which movement, art, music, and play can foster deeper emotional and physical healing, allowing individuals to process trauma in new and powerful ways. (Episode 84)

If you're looking for new avenues to rebuild your life, break through barriers holding you back, or simply curious about alternative forms of therapy that can assist in your personal growth, this episode is packed with valuable insights. Tune in to hear from therapists who are leading the way in holistic and transformative approaches to healing, and discover how these methods can guide you toward the next chapter of your life with greater strength and clarity.

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In this special "Best of Season Four" episode, we dive into breakups, fresh starts, and the path to finding love again after divorce. Featuring highlights from our insightful conversations with Dr. Andrea Liner, Dale Valor, and Paige Dempsey, we explore the emotional journey of letting go, mastering the modern dating scene, and creating a future you’re excited about.

Some of the key topics covered include recognizing when it’s time to call it quits, navigating the stigma around divorce (Episode #74), using dating apps to present the best version of yourself (Episode #75), and why working on personal growth before entering a new relationship is crucial. (Episode #80)

Whether you’re ready to reenter the dating world or still healing, this episode offers the motivation and practical advice you need to break free from old patterns and embrace the next chapter with confidence and clarity.

Stay tuned for more empowering conversations!