Getting Real with Bossy: For Women Who Own Business

The salient point of this podcast episode revolves around the significance of human design as a transformative tool for entrepreneurs. We engage in a profound conversation with Mel McSherry, an international business and life guide, who elucidates how human design can assist individuals in understanding their unique energy types and decision-making strategies. This framework enables entrepreneurs to navigate their journeys with greater clarity and authenticity, fostering a sense of self-trust that is often undermined by conventional business practices. Throughout our dialogue, we emphasize the importance of recognizing that success is not a monolithic concept; rather, it is a deeply personal and individualized experience. Ultimately, this episode serves as an invitation to explore the intricate relationship between one's inherent design and the pursuit of genuine success in business and life.

The podcast episode delves into the profound intricacies of entrepreneurship, with a particular focus on the unique experiences of business owners navigating the tumultuous waters of self-employment. The conversation unfolds with the introduction of Mel McSherry, an international business and life guide, who elucidates the significance of employing human design as a tool for personal and professional development. The discourse emphasizes the importance of authentic self-awareness in entrepreneurship, challenging the pervasive myths surrounding success that often lead to burnout and dissatisfaction. Rather than adhering to conventional norms, Mel advocates for a personalized approach to success, which honors individual differences and energetic blueprints. This perspective encourages listeners to embrace their unique paths, fostering a profound trust in their own decision-making processes, thereby enabling them to architect their own definitions of success that resonate with their true selves.

Takeaways:

• The podcast delves into the realities of entrepreneurship, emphasizing the importance of authenticity in business ownership.
• Listeners are encouraged to embrace their unique entrepreneurial journeys rather than conform to societal expectations of success.
• Human design serves as a valuable tool for understanding one's individual energetic blueprint, aiding in the alignment of personal and professional goals.
• The discussion highlights the significance of self-trust and understanding one's unique attributes as essential for sustainable success in business.
• The hosts stress that success is subjective, and entrepreneurs must define it for themselves based on personal values and experiences.
• The episode underscores the transformative potential of human design in helping individuals create tailored strategies for their lives and businesses.

Links referenced in this episode:

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• virtualcoffeewithmel.com

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This podcast episode delves into the imperative concept of assuming the role of the CEO of one's own life. We engage in a thoughtful discussion about the necessity of taking control amidst the tumultuous external circumstances that can often feel overwhelming. During our conversation, we reflect on the importance of delegating tasks that do not align with our highest priorities, thereby allowing ourselves to focus on activities that yield the greatest impact. Additionally, we introduce an interactive exercise designed to help listeners categorize their responsibilities, distinguishing between tasks of varying significance and urgency. Ultimately, we emphasize that in recognizing and relinquishing lesser duties, we can reclaim our time and energy, fostering a more balanced and fulfilling existence.

Companies mentioned in this episode:

• UC Berkeley
• Bossy
• Dan Martell

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This episode covers the remarkable journey of Kathy Turiano, the Business Development and Marketing Director of Joe Bean Coffee, who has adeptly navigated the complexities of the coffee industry for over two decades. Kathy articulates her commitment to quality and sustainability, emphasizing the significance of ethical sourcing practices and the cultivation of meaningful connections with coffee producers. Her narrative encapsulates the challenges and triumphs inherent in entrepreneurship, serving as a testament to resilience and innovation in the face of adversity.

Links referenced in this episode:

• joebeancoffee.com
• bossyroc.com

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Ep. 54 Kelly Metras and Kelly Bush explore the inner narratives and doubts that small business owners face. They discuss the pressure of maintaining a positive facade, the loneliness of entrepreneurship, and the importance of acknowledging mental health struggles. The conversation covers overcoming impostor syndrome, managing customer reviews, and recognizing that not every venture can succeed. They emphasize the significance of self-care, seeking help when needed, and letting go of unattainable perfection. Listeners are encouraged to release their own self-limiting thoughts, embracing resilience and adaptability in their entrepreneurial journey.

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Chapters:

0:00 Lies Business Owners Tell Themselves

5:18 Balancing Customer Feedback and Business Identity in Hospitality

9:45 Illusion of Knowing Everything in Business Ownership

15:13 Mental Health Challenges of Business Ownership

21:26 Confronting Self-Deception and Embracing Personal Growth

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Ep. 53 What if the lens you see yourself through could transform the way the world sees you?

This Black History Month, we’re celebrating artistry and storytelling with photographer Jackie McGriff, who turned her personal journey of self-love into a mission to uplift others.

From capturing the soul of Rochester to redefining representation in media, Jackie shares how photography became her tool for healing, empowerment, and changing the narrative.

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About the Guest:

Jackie McGriff is a photographer, podcaster, and filmmaker dedicated to telling authentic, nuanced stories of Black, Brown, and Indigenous communities. As the founder of Our Voices Project, she challenges harmful stereotypes through storytelling that inspires action. Her journey into filmmaking began as an escape but evolved into a powerful tool for Black liberation, fueled by the realities of systemic racism and the need for change. Jackie’s work, including the Silent Screams photography project and In This Moment chapbook series, amplifies marginalized voices while pushing audiences toward meaningful activism. She also helps lead the Rochester chapter of Black Women Photographers, advocating for visibility and representation. Through art, activism, and storytelling, Jackie is shaping a world where diverse narratives are honored and empowered.

🎧 Tune in for an inspiring conversation on identity, creativity, and the power of seeing yourself in a new light. #BlackHistoryMonth #Photography #RepresentationMatters

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Ep. 52 How will Trump policies impact small businesses? On Inauguration Day Kelly Metras and Kelly Bush dive into the evolving political and economic landscape as of January 20, 2025. With a dash of humor and a glass of tequila in hand, they analyze how new policies might influence small businesses across the United States. The duo weighs in on tariffs, deportation, and other proposed changes, drawing from their rich business experience to provide critical, albeit candid, evaluations.

A major point of discussion is the impact of tariffs on the cost of imported goods such as tequila, avocados, and limes—staples that significantly affect the hospitality industry. They also critique recent immigration policies, contemplating the economic repercussions of deportations on local economies. Additionally, the Kellys express their frustrations regarding taxation on tips, unemployment charges, and the overlooked contributions of micro-businesses under current fiscal policies. Their reflections highlight a shared skepticism but also encompass hope for vocational training and positive shifts in consumer spending in the coming year.

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Chapters:

0:00 Impact of Tariffs on Small Businesses

4:17 Economic Impact of Immigration on Local Businesses

7:29 Small Business Owners Discuss Taxes, Inflation

11:29 Trump 2.0 Policy Speculations

14:32 Vocational Training, Affirmations, and Micro Business Advocacy

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Are you having a Dry January? Perhaps it's time to dry a new vice. In this episode of Getting Real with Bossy we spark up a conversation with Shelby Poole, founder of Betty Bloom, a mobile social club focused on empowering women to embrace the marijuana plant in lieu of alcohol. Shelby shares her journey from working in the restaurant industry to building a business that promotes education, destigmatization, and fun cannabis experiences.

#CBDMonth #WomeninCannabis #DryJanuary

🎯 Key Takeaways:

The rise of non-alcoholic and cannabis-based alternatives reflects a growing "sober curious" movement.

Shelby envisions a future where alcohol and cannabis coexist responsibly in social settings.

Stigmatization of cannabis use, particularly among women, needs to shift toward inclusivity and education.

Mismanagement of cannabis legalization in New York highlights issues around market control and public awareness.

✨ About the Guest: Shelby Poole

Shelby Poole is a trailblazing entrepreneur in the cannabis industry. As the founder of Betty Bloom Social Club, Shelby uses her hospitality background to create socially-driven and educational cannabis experiences. Shelby is also the Director of Marketing at Happy Days Dispensary and serves on the board of the NYS Restaurant Association, advocating for sustainable practices at the intersection of food, beverage, and cannabis.

📲 Follow Shelby:

Instagram: @‌bettybloomsocialclub

Chapters:

00:00:00 – Introduction to Shelby Poole and her work in the cannabis industry

00:03:29 – The concept of free-spirited cocktails

00:06:05 – Shelby shares her journey and insights into destigmatizing cannabis

00:08:11 – Historical stigma and the war on drugs

00:20:58 – The intersection of alcohol and cannabis in hospitality

00:27:49 – Launching Betty Bloom and empowering women through events

00:32:22 – Plans for the Mainstream Mary event to challenge stereotypes

00:41:00 – Addressing challenges in cannabis legalization and black market concerns

00:58:34 – Shifting perceptions of cannabis as a medicinal alternative

01:00:26 – Shelby’s future plans for Betty Bloom

🎵 Music Credits: "Do It" by Infraction

"Mellow Bop" by Prigida

"You Are the Best" by Cutesy Chamber Ensemble

🔗 Sponsors:

🥑 Salena’s Mexican Restaurant (Title Sponsor)

🍸 Marshall Street and Union Tavern

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This episode is packed with insights, personal stories, and actionable ideas for creating inclusive and educational cannabis experiences. Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe!

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Ep. 51 Hey Bossys! We’re kicking off 2025 with a vulnerable and unfiltered recap of the rollercoaster that was 2024. From the financial chaos of an election year to the pressures of the holiday season, we’re laying it all out—no sugarcoating, just the real, messy truth of being small business owners.

Kelly Bush shares how the unpredictable economy hit her businesses, Marshall Street and The Union Tavern, while Kelly Metras opens up about navigating huge financial risks of buying I-Square and the constant juggling act of work and family. We’re also diving into how AI is reshaping small businesses (spoiler alert: it’s here to stay!) and how we’re balancing efficiency with the all-important human touch.

Our top three wins of 2024? We’re not bankrupt, we’re not divorced, and our kids are healthy—sometimes, that’s what success looks like. 💪

If you’re ready for honest talk about the challenges, lessons, and little victories of the past year—and how we’re gearing up to crush it in 2025—this episode is for you. 💥

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Tune in to this revealing episode of "Getting Real with Bossy" to explore the real stories behind small business success and the personal growth journeys of our hosts. Join us for more engaging and enlightening discussions throughout 2025!

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Ep. 50 Is it possible to run a successful bar without serving alcohol? Meg Hartman of Alt Bar thinks so, and she’s changing the game in Rochester, NY. Find out how Meg's innovative non-alcoholic bottle shop and bar is creating a welcoming space for everyone.

Whether you’re a business owner, an advocate for inclusivity, or simply curious about the growing non-alcoholic space, this episode is packed with insights and inspiration.

Meg takes us on her inspiring journey from starting as a pop-up shop to launching a full-fledged brick-and-mortar space that’s redefining the social drinking experience.

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Ep. 49 Ever felt like you were at your breaking point? That moment when everything feels like it’s falling apart—but then, the people you’ve touched rally around you in ways you never imagined?

In this heartfelt and raw episode of Getting Real with Bossy, Rosa Marie, entrepreneur and childcare activist, returns to the podcast with a story of resilience, vulnerability, and triumph. Recently, Rosa sent out a public “cry for help” on social media as her business, Marvelous Mind Academy, faced a financial crisis. But instead of defeat, what followed was a powerful outpouring of community support that reinforced her mission to make childcare accessible to all.

With over a decade of experience in child development, Rosa shares how her vision for non-traditional childcare solutions has evolved, especially during the most trying times. From navigating post-pandemic economic shifts to redefining what success looks like, Rosa’s journey is a testament to perseverance and the strength of community.

🎧 How Rosa’s transparency about her struggles ignited a wave of community support

🎧 The innovative ways Marvelous Mind Academy is reshaping childcare with pop-up daycare services

🎧 The personal growth that comes with leading a mission-driven business

🎧 Insights into systemic challenges in childcare—and why change is long overdue

✨ This episode is a must-listen for anyone who believes in the power of showing up, speaking out, and rallying for a cause.

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Ep. 4 The Marvelous Mind of Rosa Marie: Creating Modern Childcare Solutions

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Resources:

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