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Ready to gather some gold nuggets to help your parenting in a stepfamily? Gil and Brenda interview Joel Hawbaker, a High School teacher, someone who lived in a stepfamily and is now in one. Joel offers some fresh perspective that can bring lively conversations to your marriage. After listening to this podcast, here are a few questions to discuss:

1. Are you acting like the adult you want your kids to become?

2. Are you in a harmonious relationship with your child’s other bio-parent? Are you

working together? How can this improve?

3. How can you develop mutual support in both homes?

4. Do you have a long-term perspective for your kids?

Check out this interview on our YouTube Channel! FREE SUBSCRIPTION https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCc6LPCo8ksYC0nJK2y2dSVg/videos?view_as=subscriber

Find Joel here:

www.reallifeleading.com

www.speakerjoel.com

https://twitter.com/RealLifeLeading

https://www.facebook.com/joel.w.hawbaker

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Do you feel protected in your relationship? Gil and Brenda define what that looks like to them and how it impacts their relationship. Although, what they share may affect your relationship too. Protection isn’t just about your physical well being. It involves the physical, emotional and spiritual dimension of your relationship.

Action step:

Have the conversation.

What does feeling protected look like:

Emotionally

Physically

Spiritually

in our relationship?

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3 Ways to Stop Relational Drift

You may be living parallel lives, on the same page and everything is going well. Yet we all have seasons where we drift from that. Careers, health, focus on our kids and a myriad of other things can pull us away from each other without us even realizing it. Gil and Brenda share 3 common ways drift can happen in a relationship. Luckily, they also offer ways to get back to the dock too!

They’ll be adding action steps at the end of the podcast. Here they are for this episode:

1. Sit down with your spouse/partner.

2. Dividing the page in half (long side) draw a horizontal line from one end to the other. This represents your marriage.

3. Draw a boat on either side of the line (one yours, the other your spouses’/partner) starting from the left.

4. Draw out where your path/direction through your relationship (from beginning to where you are now).

5. Talk about the times you drifted from the marriage line and times that you crossed over or intersected it.

6. These intersections are when you are sharing your worlds and how you compliment one another. How can this happen more? What gets in the

way?

7. How can you say something when you feel like the drift is happening? ie: My boat (the boat) is adrift. The boat has left the dock.

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Gil and Brenda are interviewed by Paul VanSickle with WAY-FM 104.5 (Vancouver, WA market). The upcoming Northwest Marriage Conference is coming next month. How do your past relationships affect the present? What happens in each stage of marriage? Honeymoon, ankle biters, teenagers, and empty nesting all have a special flair about them. Gather some wisdom and laughter as you listen in on this great conversation!

Register today for the NWMC on 2/9/19 in Vancouver, WA

https://wayfm.regfox.com/nwmarriageconference

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The Holiday season can be…crazy, right? Although, living in a stepfamily can be that way all the time! Gil and Brenda bring some perspective to the “Holidaze” with some old reminders (Holiday survival 101) and some new thoughts. Realistic expectations vs lower your expectations…which one? Don’t ask the kids too much about their other bio parent. This conversation is worthy of a podcast on its own!

Let this be a reminder of you to slow down the spin this holiday season. Although, this applies to most holidays. Be encouraged!

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Is there a friendship in your marriage? Friendship can get lost in the marriage. Will it always be fun? No. It is ok for friends to disagree/fight. It’s healthy in a marriage…as long as it is done correctly. It’s important that both “hearts” are heard. Gil and Brenda share 3 ways to build your friendship in your marriage. This vital part of your relationship needs to be intentionally nurtured, especially when THOSE PEOPLE (your children) try to derail it. A healthy marriage is the best gift you can give your children, no matter their age.

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The holidays are just about to begin. Do you know how to prepare for them? Is this new territory or is it time to up your game? And we’re not talking about the turkey…or the dinner!

Being in a stepfamily is hard enough, but you add in the stresses of the holidays and hard is at a new level! Gil and Brenda will share 5 tips to help stay sane during this emotionally charged season. As always, they will bring perspective and laughter into their podcast.

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Ready for some refreshing encouragement for your remarriage and stepfamily?  How is Velcro like your marriage? Gil and Brenda interview Jed, author of 12 books (with Jenny too!), a therapist, psychology professor, and a stepdad. So many nuggets of wisdom are shared here! 131 Conversations for Stepfamily Success is so helpful and his newest book, Happy Skills for Happy Kids is a must. It’ll help kids (and adults) learn how to manage stress and anger!

Find out more about Jed and Jenny Jurchenko:

www.coffeeshopconversations.com

Jen and Jed’s Coffee Shop Conversations (FACEBOOK)

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Want to be more in sync with each other? Ron Deal with Family Life Blended, shares vulnerably and offers a wealth of ideas and encouragement in his interview with Gil and Brenda. His latest book, Daily Encouragement for the Smart Stepfamily is a home run! You can shift your direction (thoughts) by just 1 degree and it can keep you on course and be in sync again. This very SIMPLE devo can be read in under a minute!!

Co-parenting, marriage, parenting, jealousy and more are topics are covered in this book. You can even share some of these devotions with your kids! Wow!

You can find Ron at www.familylifebelnded.com Order the book here

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Gil and Brenda are having some fun sharing stories of their fourth of July celebrations through the years. Thrown in are some interesting facts about our country’s birthday too. The Stuarts would love to hear some of your “war” stories of fireworks gone wrong, happy celebrations and that awful potatoe salad your aunt brought! Happy Happy to you…and the United States of America!

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