Eroticism, pleasure, growth! Rae McDaniel, a non-binary gender and sex therapist-turned-coach, went from growing up in a conservative Christian community to embracing their queerness and finding erotic bliss in an unexpected place. They now support others on similar journeys.

A few more things you'll learn about:

Rae's journey through painful sex

Gender stereotypes that stand in the way of sexual pleasure

Ways to unlock your erotic mind

Common pleasure barriers folks in the LGBTQIA+ community face

Problems with talking about "feminine/masculine energy"

An exercise for feeling more connected with your intimate self

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Kristopher Lovestone grew up learning a lot about menstruation, later earned his "red wings" and now has strong feelings about period sex. Makenzie Mizell has had many ups and downs with her periods, including a form of sexual freedom and relationship (red and green) flags.

A few more things you'll learn about:

• How folks August surveyed about period sex feel about it
• Valid reasons folks avoid or embrace period sex
• Hematolagnia, or blood play
• Info for anyone concerned about going down on someone who's menstruating
• A few ways to make period sex more fun
• What conversations about period sex can tell you about a relationship
• Why Kristopher wrote his book, The Conscious Cock: The Empowered Sexuality Manual for Men
• Why Makenzie named her podcast network, Period, and why you should check out Tinsel Town Tea!

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Niba went on a creepy date that could have gone far worse. Erik recalls being sexually assaulted by a ghost, and knows a lot about spectrophilia: sexual encounters with ghosts.

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Guiding with excerpts from Girl Boners gone by (past interviews), August explores important facts, common myths and pervasive challenges involving the Big O.

A few things you'll learn about in the episode:

• An orgasm issue that's frequently discussed in sex therapy
• The fluidity of orgasms
• Orgasms as an active versus passive process
• Accessories that can bolster orgasmic bliss

Learn more about the featured guests:

Deborah Kagan:

Books, masterclass and more: https://www.deborah-kagan.com/

Shadeen Francis:

Live Q&A sessions: shadeenfrancis.doyoumined.com

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Vanessa Marin:

E-courses and more: https://vmtherapy.com

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Author Sarah Fader was perplexed about sex early on, but she now finds solace and confidence in her sexuality. She also manages multiple mental health conditions and writes books and articles aimed at helping others better thrive.

A few things you'll learn about in the episode:

• How sex can be nourishing when you're stressed, anxious or depressed (and not wanting sex is just fine and common, too!)
• How focusing on someone else's pleasure helps Sarah in the orgasm department
• 3 ways mental health can interplay with sex and sexuality
• Sarah's top sex tips
• Her advice for anyone struggling with their mental health
• Dr. Megan Fleming's Pleasure Pick for October!

Follow us on Twitter:

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Frances, aka "Captain Awkward," and content creator, Andrew Gurza, journeyed into careers involving sex and other stigmatized topics. Learn how Dripstick, which went viral on TikTok, came to be and what it's like to speak openly and perform in porn as a queer, disabled person.

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@awkwardessentials @andrewgurza_ @girlbonermedia

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Solo play, spicy bits, releasing! Renee Powers, Nora and Niba of The Feminist Book Club community, reveal unforgettable dating and sex experiences. August recommends a sexy product in honor of each story.

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Alicia Davon was studying psychology when she met Erwan, a man who was teaching workshops about the "extended orgasm." She's since become a relationship coach who teaches others all about this sensual practice.

A few things you'll learn about:

• Alicia's first experience with extended orgasm
• How extended orgasms differ from traditional orgasms
• How Alicia and Erwan became more than acquaintances
• The stages of sexual arousal, according to Masters and Johnson
• Tips for getting started with extended orgasms
• Alicia's biggest takeaway from the practice

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Intro to Extended Orgasm online class Oct 23rd: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/154293964401

Free Love Life Consultation:

Text 415 308 9580 or here!

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Follow along on Instagram, Facebook and Twitter.

A few things you'll learn about:

• How submission and powerfulness aren't mutually exclusive!
• The pitfalls and pleasures of hers-and-hers squirting
• What it was like for Liz to pass as straight
• Ways sexual self-discovery and embodiment can enhance your life

Learn more about Lee Noto:

https://www.leenoto.com

Becomethehighpriestess.com

Learn more about Liz Asch and Your Salt on My Lips: https://lizasch.com/salt-lips

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Check out With Pleasure: Managing Trauma Triggers for More Vibrant Sex and Relationships:

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A few things you'll learn about:

• How With Pleasure came together, and turned into a "very meta" experience
• How Jamila came up with the title that stuck
• Why pleasure practices are important during difficult times
• What "bodily divergence" means, in terms of sex and pleasure
• The importance of community while managing trauma
• Real pleasure practices, from several survivors featured in the book!

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Follow Jamila on Instagram: @jamila.thesextherapist

Learn about her therapy practice: fireandflowtherapy.com

Learn more about the featured interviewees' work:

Jazz: https://jazzgoldman.com

Taylor: https://www.taylorliannechandler.com

Kimleigh: http://kimleighsmith.com

Jean: https://www.seeksafely.org

Check out books that Robert and Hannah found helpful for healing:

The Courage to Heal, by Ellen Bass

The Dance of Anger, by Harriet Lerner

I Thought We'd Never Speak Again: The Road from Estrangement to Reconciliation, by Laura Davis

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