Girl, Listen to This!

By Lotus

Lotus shares her unfiltered thoughts—Black woman to Black woman. For the grown, the wise, and the effortlessly refined. Timeless truths, poured like good wine. 🍷✨

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The podcast currently has 41 episodes available.

Girl, Listen to This! episodes:

January 27, 2026 Episode 2026.3: Reframing the Idea of Being the Bigger Person
The idea of being the "bigger person" has been weaponized to silence survivors. In this episode, Lotus describes how this concept can be reframed.
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14min
January 20, 2026 Episode 2026.2: Other People's Disappointment Does Not Define You
For some of us, knowing someone is disappointed in us or having someone harshly criticize us can color our sense of our own worth or ability. But we need not and should not define ourselves according to the people who have a low opinion of us.
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16min
January 13, 2026 Episode 2026.1: Balancing Wanting to Be Saved vs. Hyper-Independence
It can be challenging to walk the tightrope between wanting to be rescued from life's challenges and wanting to never depend on anyone ever again. But that is part of the work of being a well-adjusted adult.
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18min
November 25, 2025 Episode 2025.20: Reevaluating Gospel Music - I'll Fly Away
I grew up singing hymns like "I'll Fly Away" and feeling inspired by the promise of a better future after death. But while I still enjoy this song for the nostalgic feelings it stirs in me, I have reevaluated what role this hymn should play in my approach to life.
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16min
November 17, 2025 Episode 2025.19: Reevaluating Gospel Music
Gospel music was the soundtrack of Lotus' life well into adulthood. But as she has evolved in recent years she found herself reevaluating whether it could fit into her life at all.
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19min
October 13, 2025 Episode 2025.18: What You Do Matters
In the grand scheme of things, it may seem as though you don't matter much. But for the people in your life, what you do matters a great deal.

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14min
September 18, 2025 Episode 2025.17: Ground Yourself
The times when it feels like your world is on fire are when you most need to make time to stop, breathe, and ground yourself. That pause can help you get in touch with the hope you need to keep going.
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14min
September 02, 2025 Episode 2025.16: The Importance of Defining Yourself
When you have a strong sense of self, you are less likely to allow other people to project their lazy assumptions onto you.

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15min
July 22, 2025 Episode 2025.15: Find People Who Can Be With You in Your Pain
When we are grieving we need to surround ourselves with people who can hold space for us in our pain without rushing the process. Lotus discusses the importance of that in this episode.

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18min
June 16, 2025 Episode 2025.14: Private Crash Out, Public Poise
Lotus discusses the power in keeping her "crash outs" private.
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15min

FAQs about Girl, Listen to This!:

How many episodes does Girl, Listen to This! have?

The podcast currently has 41 episodes available.