Girls Chase Podcast

Welcome back to Dating Mechanics on Girls Chase!

Today I feature Daniel Adebayo, one of our newer and younger authors on GirlsChase – and easily already one of the best night game and day game guys I’ve met and seen in action.

Still in college, Daniel has already mastered night game and day game using a combination of Gunwitch’s Seduction MMA – which we’ve featured in another podcast – and his emotional stimulation, social frame, and sexual frame techniques. He also utilizes a good amount of Alek Rolstad’s sex talk.

He’s easily one of the most innovative and consistent gamers I’ve seen, and I was lucky enough to witness him in action.

In this podcast, which we recorded together in Montreal, Quebec. We talk about how to get women in your bed using verbal game, and how Daniel’s unique style of verbal game can give any guy an edge in getting women’s attention in the modern age of overstimulation.

PODCAST HIGHLIGHTS:

Why Verbal Game?

2:55 – Daniel’s story so far

3:10 – Different things he’s tried before getting to this point

4:00 – Social trends of this current day and age

4:05 – How women are overstimulated

6:14 – How verbal game gives you an edge in this environment

Summary of Daniel’s Process for Seducing Women Verbally

7:16 – Start off casual

7:22 – Nudge towards fun/interesting topics

7:34 – Nudge towards emotionally stimulating topics

7:43 – Nudge towards sexual topics

7:48 – Repeat and fractionate

Starting off Casual

11:06 – Situational openers vs. direct openers

11:25 – Curiosity gambits

13:44 – Reality pace openers

Nudging Towards Fun/Interesting Topics

15:00 – How to do this casually

15:35 – Weasel Phrases

15:53 – Examples of topics

16:07 – The revamped golden question

Nudging Towards Emotionally Stimulating Topics

19:09 – How to do this

19:16 – Language and conversation tools you can to make any topic emotionally stimulating

23:03 – Memorized gambits vs. riffing

Nudging Towards Sexual Topics

25:04 – How to do this smoothly

27:34 – Topic turning points

29:46 – Conversational management tools

29:49 – Steer and control the direction of your conversations with women

Extra Verbal Techniques

32:18 – Opportunities & Challenges

32:48 – Contrasting

33:13 – Pacing and Leading

34:30 – Reality Pacing and combining these techniques for specific purposes, like

* Probing deeper

* Reframing resistance

* Extracting

* Plausible deniability

38:30 – Why this works

Hope you guys enjoyed this one with Daniel, who is one of the rising stars as far as the seduction and social arts go. Definitely check out his articles on Girls Chase, as well as his reports from the forum where he describes his journey.

We’ll be back with him soon where we talk about consistency and how to go about achieving that as you grow in the world of women, and also my experience in visiting Daniel and spending the weekend meeting women with him in Canada.

I’ll catch you soon on the next episode of Dating Mechanics!

Varoon

Welcome back to Dating Mechanics on Girls Chase! Today we feature a show in development for quite some time with my first female guest – Shari James – who runs a successful coaching practice based out of Los Angeles, CA called Architecture of Pleasure to help men resolve Erectile Dysfunction.

Podcast Highlights:

1:50 – Introduction to Shari James, her mission in treating Erectile Dysfunction.

4:15 – Shari explains how she started her business Architecture of Pleasure as a result of a history in stripping.

7:10 – Stripping and dancing was a freedom of expression for Shari – and it pulled guys into her

9:10 – Women don’t give men enough time to talk – and Shari trained herself to give men space to be emotional.

10:40 – Shari’s journey leads her into the erotic arts and tantric massage.

13:20 – Shari’s path takes her to offering sexual healing to men, women, and couples.

15:50 – Shari wants to take the suffering out of ED for men and to educate men on sexuality and healing, using her 26 years of experience with them.

17:40 – The five branches of the sexual system: the emotional/mental issues, the circulatory system, the nervous system, sexual energy, and being state. All five cause erectile dysfunction.

19:40 – Step #1: Release Heavy Emotions.

21:40 – Men have an inner hard-on. Men’s sexual center connects with the heart – and when men have inner pain, it blocks their inner hard-on, which blocks their outer hard-on.

23:40 – Men stop having sex to emotionally distance themselves from women in relationships, too, sometimes pre-breakup.

25:30 – Shari talks about men who need to have an emotional connection in order to have sexual desire and a hard-on for a woman.

28:00 – We talk about how to understand and deal with emotional issues that cause ED.

30:40 – Case study with a client who was in an abusive relationship with a woman.

32:50 – Step #2: Increase Circulation.

35:20 – We talk about nitric oxide and how it works towards a healthy sexual function.

37:50 – Shari shares her case study of helping a man in his 60s whose circulation was compromised by diabetes, which caused ED.

39:50 – Step #3: Decrease Stress and Retrain the Nervous System.

42:10 – Most men operate full time in a sympathetic nervous system mode – which actually inhibits their erections.

45:00 – Men don’t carry over meditation mindsets into their daily life, which contributes to ED.

47:00 – Shari shares her case study of a stressed-out business owner, and how she helped him manage his stress to fix his erectile dysfunction.

48:40 – Common medical practice is to isolate ED, when actually it’s linked to a greater body system.

49:50 – Step #4: Harness Sexual Energy.

51:50 – Women get more energy from orgasms while men lose energy from ejaculations and feel tired.

53:50 – When men have morning wood, everything fixes, or has fixed, itself.

54:40 – Case study of a guy in his 40s in a great marriage who wasn’t getting aroused with his wife.

57:25 – Step #5: Porn-Induced Erectile Dysfunction.

Listen online: https://www.girlschase.com/content/shari-james-treating-erectile-dysfunction-podcast

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Welcome back to another episode of Dating Mechanics! I’m Varoon Rajah, and today we explore a topic that frequently comes up on the Girls Chase boards – the question of dating your dream girl as a minority.

PODCAST HIGHLIGHTS

02:25 – Intro to the podcast with Franco and Amrit

03:20 – Franco talks about how guys complain on the boards about the minority issue, and never take the advice they’re given. The same questions are repeatedly asked, and the same advice is repeatedly given but ignored, reinforcing negativity.

04:30 – Introducing Amrit, and how Franco and Amrit met. Amrit talks about his background in India and San Diego, and how he didn’t have the American cultural experience.

06:15 – Differences in mindsets between America and India, and how it’s important to adapt to a new culture. Most guys that struggle don’t change their mindset. Amrit was able to get his desired girls without joining any social scenes.

07:15 – How Amrit approached, met, and dated his first hot girl in the United States. It turned into a four year relationship.

09:35 – We reiterate cultural adaptation to break through the mold, and we talk about keeping attractive parts of your native culture with attractive parts of the new culture. Amrit talks about how important family is to him, and how girls he dates always appreciate it.

11:10 – A lot of Indian guys see their family background as a negative thing, and resent it. Amrit does not, his family keeps him grounded. Family upbringing translates into excellent fundamentals.

13:30 – How Amrit views interracial dating and dating white American girls, and how he’s embraced both Indian and American cultures to make himself exotic. Your cultural background is your greatest asset and can make you an exotic gem.

15:30 – Guys on the boards imagine that only blond-haired, blue-eyed guys can date hot white girls; however, we share in our example that these same girls say they don’t like these guys.

16:20 – The importance of niching, and realizing the possibility of dating new kinds of women through experience and trial. It’s important to brand and package yourself as an exotic minority. Amrit uses websites as examples.

18:00 – Presenting yourself as a top notch guy in a certain category

19:00 – Amrit’s first cold approach resulted in a four year relationship, which taught him to always approach and take shots. Franco shares how he’s seen some guys who have tried and attained success, shifting their mindset. The guys who fail inevitably keep a negative mindset, whereas Amrit views himself as a prize.

20:55 – The importance of fundamentals and presentation. You have to dress like how you want people to see you. Amrit is always the best dressed Indian guy in the room, making himself the top tier guy not only of his category, but of the room.

22:10 – Indian/brown guys don’t have a lot of competition, which is a great opportunity! Girls love to show off guys to their friends, and minority guys can use their exotic quality to the fullest.

24:30 – Most Indian guys focus on complicated advanced problems rather than simple fixes in fundamentals that would net them the desired results.

25:10 – Accept that there are guys of your race succeeding. Usually the top notch minorities and brown guys are killing it and swimming in pussy.

26:10 – Amrit got his college dream girl ten years later. He never saw her as a real possibility, but he became the prize and got her on the first date. Setting up a process made the difference.

27:45 – Keep trying, failing, and tweaking your system. Use your resources to fill in the gaps of knowledge.

28:45 – Amrit’s Absolute Abundance mentality.

Listen online: https://www.girlschase.com/content/franco-amrit-dating-your-dream-girl-minority-podcast

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Gunwitch has been in the PUA community and a teacher since the days of MASF, The Game, Mystery, and Neil Strauss. His method, dubbed “Gunwitch Method,” is incredibly powerful, centered around the use of body-states to attract and arouse women.

Today, we’re going to cover the basics of Gunwitch’s Seduction MMA – how to use sub-communication with sexual arousal, emotional stimulation, and social frames to make girls work for you and chase after you.

HIGHLIGHTS

0:00 – Introduction to Gunwitch and Seduction MMA, and how he started on MASF.

02:40 – Early Gunwitch method and the importance of projecting a sexual state with women.

04:40 – Why sub-communicating that you’re a cool guy is more effective than verbals in game.

06:20 – How the amygdala is reversed in women, and why this makes women value a man’s behavior more than his looks.

08:00 – How ovulation and biological cycles affect female behavior.

09:20 – The three keys of Seduction MMA post hook: social frame, emotional stimulation, sexual arousal.

11:00 – Verbal and physical ways to project the three keys, and how women behave.

14:30 – Why it’s better to stimulate women, and how women value stimulation.

16:40 – Safety as a social frame for women, and how to project it/use it, including with Lyft and Uber.

18:15 – How Tinder hurts self-esteem.

18:50 – Gunwitch SECT method (Speak slowly and Sexually, Eye contact, Closeness, Touch). Use these to sub-communicate interest and create stimulation and sexual interest.

22:00 – The hook as the hardest part of game and socialization, and why the three keys work.

24:15 – Relationship transitions and dominance methods, and how women work for you (the strongest frame a man can implement).

27:00 – Gambits, and how they help men succeed in the game.

30:00 – “Do you know who you look like?” as an opener, and how it stimulates women… and how men prize themselves through sub-communication.

32:20 – Why it’s important to put oneself into a state rather than just doing things to project something you’re not.

34:20 – Calibration as essential to using the three keys correctly.

I hope you enjoyed this podcast with Gunwitch covering Seduction MMA. Stay tuned for the next episode of Dating Mechanics, where I interview a former stripper turned sexual health coach, and we discuss erectile dysfunction and what to do about it!

Listen online: http://www.girlschase.com/content/gunwitch-basics-seduction-mma-podcast

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I’m pleased to announce Part 2 of my interview with Franco Lombardi on the importance of Discipline. Discipline is more of a mindset approach to dating as opposed to having an uncontrolled environment.

• 00:20 – A quick review of Part 1

• 01:41 – How to strategize what methods to keep and what to stop using, and why the #1 goal of every guy is to find a system that works to get laid, then focus on improving different parts

• 03:12 – If you know A, keep A. Don’t change A if it works, but start solving for other variables until you’re getting laid. Online dating is a great testing ground for variables

• 04:55 – Location as its own variable – how to play with dating apps

• 06:40 – Why beginners and virgins should set small goals to start. Approach and A: open a girl with the Goal of B: a conversation. Then once A is complete, move to B. Then once B is complete, go to C: get her number

• 08:30 – How building a disciplined system is like building a custom ladder where every rung is a specific process

• 09:35 – Common pitfall: how many guys aim to get to the top rung without fully building the base

• 10:45 – We discuss advanced guys who already have working ladders, and how they improve their ladders by improving certain rungs

• 12:50 – Franco discusses how he changes just one variable to adjust the structure of his ladder to get higher performance rates. And how to use another’s success to adapt their game to oneself

• 15:40 – Why proper execution of a new method is critical. When trying new methods, take into account that it might not be executed correctly and will require further testing

• 17:10 – There’s never a 100% success rate in the dating game, but we can aim to get as close as possible. No variable can have a 100% success rate

• 18:55 – The first goal is to have a working ladder, even if not perfect, to have a system for getting laid. When a ladder is working, focus on improving each rung

• 19:45 – We talk about stacks and routines in the PUA community – they give you controlled, solved variables, like preassembled rungs for a ladder

• 21:30 – Typical pitfall points for guys when it comes to discipline, and how Varoon’s introduction of polyamory in his ladder destroyed rungs further up

• 23:10 – Some hard rules in any dating ladders, like avoiding religion, politics, feminism, things that create dissimilarity, and dating habits

• 23:50 – How confirmation biases affect results when guys don’t test new methods fluidly

• 26:20 – Discipline is a long-term goal for dating, and good foresight is key for determining your own rules

• 29:00 – Discipline is the difference between the controlled, civilized man and the beast

• 30:15 – Control and calibration equate to developing yourself as a true social Alpha, whereas the beast is uncontrolled and uncalibrated

• 32:00 – Using control to be the impulsive beast at the correct times. The civilized man knows when to be impulsive and when not to be

• 32:45 – Long-term thinking as a function of Discipline

CHATS WITH CHASE

For this episode’s Chats with Chase, we got a great comment from listener Alexander about what to focus on when improving conversation skills.

• 34:15 – Introduction

• 34:55 – Chase talks about early experiences with conversation and Deep Diving

• 35:45 – Chase shares thread amplification

• 36:30 – A conversation without thread amplification and how it feels superficial, with no relational elements

• 37:30 – How to fix a jumpy conversation using thread amplification, with examples

• 39:20 – Why to begin conversations by relating to girls in general ways, and why to make a girl feel free when she’s talking with you

Listen online: http://www.girlschase.com/content/franco-lombardi-learning-pickup-takes-discipline-part-2-podcast

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Have you ever tried a technique or maybe hit a sticking point in your dating life, then wonder why whatever you’re doing didn’t work? If so, this podcast will help.

Discipline is more of a mindset approach to dating as opposed to having an uncontrolled environment. The idea behind discipline is threefold:

• There are things I know that work; I want to continue to use those things

• I need to stop doing things that don’t work for my dating methods

• I also need to create systems that test what I’m not sure about

Since this is a hefty subject, I’ve broken up the podcast into two segments:

In Part 1:

• Introduction to Franco and discipline (00:45)

• Why Franco believes discipline is important, and the mindset of discipline (01:32)

• Discipline as compared to a scientific method and an equation (03:00)

• Controlled versus tested variables (03:52)

• Varoon’s example of how a single variable changed the outcome of his date (04:07)

• Varoon discusses how he confused the cause of his failure on the date (05:22)

• Franco discusses how he isolated the variable that changed on Varoon’s date (06:26)

• Varoon shares a story from another date where he changed many variables (08:30)

• Why it’s important to turn your dates into a scientific experiment (09:50)

• Franco’s equation comparison and why it’s important to keep variables to just one (10:25)

• How the equation and variable system relates to dating (11:40)

• Why changing just one date variable is critical to learning and creating a working method (12:32)

• How to understand all the different variables at play, and how the most successful men are all highly disciplined (13:27)

• Reducing variables solves equations quicker and makes the dating process much easier (15:28)

• Varoon shares how isolating variables helped him figure out a sticking point in texting (15:55)

• Nothing is ever 100% or absolute with women (how a method works differently for different people) (17:18)

• Varoon shares a more difficult sticking point and how he sorted through several variables to create a solution (19:00)

• Some variables are more difficult to identify than others (21:50)

I’d also like to introduce a new segment called “Chats with Chase,” where I invite Chase to discuss anything reader related on the podcast. This time, Chase covers how to decide when to remove components from your dating method.

• Introduction to “Chats with Chase” (22:55)

• How Chase knows when it’s time to chuck a strategy into the waste bin, and why there are so many variances in results (23:05)

• First reason to throw something out – when you don’t need something anymore (24:54)

• Second reason to throw something out – when something repeatedly doesn’t work (and why to try something twenty times before discarding it) (27:17)

• Third reason to throw something out – when it produces reactions, not results (Chase cites public makeouts as an example, and how he started testing out not making out in public) (28:16)

• Final reason to throw something out – when it just doesn’t fit your personality (and how Chase threw out some cheesy sex banter that didn’t work well) (30:25)

Next time, in Part 2 of my discussion with Franco, we’ll discuss:

• How to experiment with discipline by solving variables and demonstrating what works

• How to use discipline in dating methods if you’re a virgin or a beginner

• How to use discipline more effectively to get better and get laid if you’re already getting results

• Setting correct expectations for the successes you desire

• Pacing reality with known and unknown variables

• Typical pitfall points in how guys screw up discipline

• Why thinking long term is critical to your dating success

Listen online: http://www.girlschase.com/content/franco-lombardi-learning-pickup-takes-discipline-podcast

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Sign up for phone coaching with Hector Castillo! Find out everything Hector teaches to students in this exclusive one-on-one interview.

Topics covered include:

▪ “Girls are girls”, whether you meet them in Europe or America (0:57)

▪ How Hector went from video game nerd to international playboy (2:18)

▪ Befriending naturals and finding mentors: what’s the best way to do this? (6:01)

▪ The 3 College Game Styles: BMOC, Slowburn, and Wildcard (7:01)

▪ How to really ‘own’ one of the 3 College Game Styles (8:24)

▪ Is there a certain College Game Style that works better than the others? (9:42)

▪ Which of the College Game Styles is the easiest to use? (11:02)

▪ How easy (or hard) is it to transition from college to “real world” game? (12:30)

▪ The biggest hangup students have moving from college to “real world” game (14:25)

▪ Between college game, day game, and nightclubs, what does Hector like best? (15:18)

▪ How to project romantic fantasies onto a girl you meet with “Romantic Projection” (16:55)

▪ A powerful way to elicit a woman’s fantasies and show her you embody them (17:28)

▪ How soon Hector moves students to more advanced techniques (19:12)

▪ The “No-Buster”: a powerful way to breeze past the “No”s girls give you (19:38)

▪ How to blow past resistance with the “Sexual Override” (this even gets you past insults/tests) (21:59)

▪ What “Soft Barriers” are, and how they get difficult women to do what you want (23:19)

▪ The 3 standard responses to a “Soft Barrier” (plus: what each response means) (24:40)

▪ Using the Slowburn style to do great with girls: a case study (25:33)

▪ Expose a girl’s natural kinkiness with the BDSM-inspired “Daddying” technique (only do this with girls you want to fall deeply in-love with you) (27:59)

▪ The Meta Frame: what it is, how Hector teaches it, and why it’s so incredibly powerful (both in dating and in socializing) (29:52)

▪ How Meta Frames plug into Hector’s Sexual Direct Style (33:00)

▪ For students who aren’t ready to try the Sexual Direct Style, what does Hector do with them instead? (33:33)

▪ Details on the two coaching packages Hector has to offer: the 12-Week Package, and the Crash Course (34:43)

▪ How to get a free 10-minute phone call with Hector (35:39)

▪ Exactly what to expect when you sign up for a Hector Castillo coaching package (35:54)

▪ How soon to expect a call from Hector once you’ve signed up (38:10)

To sign up for a free 10-minute call with Hector, please visit:

https://www.girlschase.com/coaching/phone/hector

How do you meet girls when you are the quiet, introverted guy?

Well, the good news is, quiet guys have a lot of power to do very well with women, once they can get over that initial 'shyness' hump.

In this podcast, you'll discover how veteran Girls Chase coach Cody Lyans went from quiet guy rejected by girls... to stud seducer who pulls women off dance floors and makes girls hang on his every word and beg to know him better. Along the way, Cody shares some of his powerful girl-getting technology, and gives you a peek at what you can expect to learn if you sign up for his paradigm-shifting 12-week coaching course.

In this podcast you'll learn:

▪ On living places where it's tough to meet girls (01:18)

▪ How quiet of a guy is Cody Lyans? (02:23)

▪ The sexual element of Cody's quiet guy game (03:33)

▪ How Cody got his start in dating (03:47)

▪ Why Cody first started coaching guys on dating (18:40)

▪ What a 'base vibe' is and how this gets you past women's barriers (22:47)

▪ The thing most guys get wrong with their base vibes (23:40)

▪ What the base vibe of guys who are good with women look like (25:48)

▪ How easy (or hard) is it to get guys to drop bad, creepy, or platonic vibes? (27:20)

▪ Female psychology: why it's so important to understand how women think (31:27)

▪ The 'Female Mental Map', a simple way to spot what's going on with her (32:44)

▪ How to avoid landmines and find subtle details with the 'Smooth Guy Spyglass' (36:27)

▪ What makes resistance so hard for most guys to deal with... plus what resistance is (40:38)

▪ The 'head shake', one of the four (4) 'Resistance Milestones' (44:38)

▪ The secret to Resistance Milestones: what they mean and how to use them (50:25)

▪ The 'Interest Dial', a way to turn interest both up AND drop it back... as needed (52:27)

▪ What most guys get wrong about attraction (and why girls suddenly leave) (54:25)

▪ Some of the ways you turn the Interest Dial up and down (56:29)

▪ How much to dial it up with her depending on what you want in a situation (58:13)

▪ The 3 'Seduction States': Sporty, Sexy, and Happy (62:28)

▪ How to use the 3 Seduction States to get hookups, FWBs, and more (64:48)

▪ How to learn faster by not 'stuffing away' your experiences (69:22)

▪ 5 'Sell Lines' (Soft Endearing Loose Lines) that flip women's opinions on you (74:02)

▪ When during the courtship to use a Sell Line (80:01)

▪ Whether Cody gives students canned lines or trains students to make their own (84:24)

▪ The 5 Foundations of Dating Success (plus, Foundation#1: 'Spirit') (85:19)

▪ Why guys get discouraged about dating (and how to get past that) (87:20)

▪ Do you learn the Foundations all at once, or sequentially? (88:15)

▪ Cody shares the stories of a few of the students he's taught (89:44)

▪ What 'Invisible Escalation' is, and how to escalate without others noticing (94:04)

▪ How to sign up for a call with Cody Lyans and what to expect (97:40)

▪ Are there any guys who should not coach with Cody? (100:09)

▪ Exactly what a 12-week coaching course with Cody looks like and what you get (102:06)

▪ At-request tech: dance floor pulls/tactics and 2 no-fail kiss routines (104:38)

▪ For advanced students (10+ lays) only: the 20-minute lay course (105:29)

To sign up for a free 10-minute call with Cody Lyans, please visit:

https://www.girlschase.com/coaching/phone/cody

A few of us Girls Chase authors met up in Stockholm, Sweden this past summer. We met plenty of women, both during the day and night, and had lots of fun observing and adapting many of the different social strategies we teach on Girls Chase.

• Pablo, Alek, and Varoon discuss our third night out, at a large indie rooftop dance venue. (3:24)

• Alek and Pablo discuss their big lesson of the night. (4:15)

• Pablo discusses his “bullshit opener” and why it’s not important what you open with, but HOW you open. (5:45)

• Pablo introduces the traffic light system – how to tell if a girl is receptive to an advance. (6:49)

• Pablo and Alek compare their night game styles – Alek’s verbal game vs. Pablo’s escalation game. (7:27)

• Alek discusses wingman styles and how to synchronize. (8:38)

• Alek and Pablo note how both girls they were talking to separated themselves to be with the boys. (10:40)

• Pablo’s ultimate compliance test. (11:38)

• Alek introduces his Tantric Sex routine and why it’s important to introduce sexual topics in a non-explicit way. (13:13)

• Alek and Pablo describe how they create a physical connection with any woman by discussing Tantric Sex. (14:45)

• We discuss how Alek uses his hair as a prop, and why it’s important to have a girl invest in you when you’re with her. (18:20)

• Varoon describes how he plants many seeds early in the night to be more social and create interest. (19:16)

• Varoon’s escalation style – and why it’s important to escalate properly. (21:00)

• Alek, Varoon, and Pablo discuss the dynamics in night clubs, men, and women in North America vs. Europe. (21:43)

• Alek, Varoon, and Pablo share their experience at a dive bar at the end of the night. (24:58)

• Varoon introduces Hector’s experience with street approaching throughout the weekend and how women light up every time. (28:53)

• Hector shares how he approaches women during the day, how women don’t stop being women whether it’s day or night, and how to react to a woman viscerally. (29:42)

• Hector discusses why fundamentals are so important and how most men ignore them. (31:07)

• Hector discusses why the angle of approach is important on street approaches, and why her friend moving away is a signal of acceptance. (33:15)

• Alek discusses Hector’s confidence in approaching. (35:00)

• Hector discusses getting over approach anxiety. (37:33)

• Alek and Hector discuss how Hector hooks girls in after approaching them, night or day, and how to tell if a girl likes a man instantly. (38:30).

• Varoon and Hector discuss how to use pointing to gain compliance and break tension in an approach. (40:08)

• Hector, Varoon, Pablo, and Alek reveal how they hook women during the daytime and at night. (41:44)

• Kant and Varoon note Hector’s opener is authentic, and how some ballsier approaches are more advanced. (43:42)

• Everyone shares their biggest lesson – the “Red-Yellow-Green” traffic light system. (48:00)

• Pablo and Kant discuss how guys waste too much time with “yellow” girls when they should leave and find a “green” girl. (50:15)

• Everyone shares how “green” girls can be 10s, but you don’t know what they are until you approach them. (53:25)

• Hector discusses day-game approach invitations. (55:03)

• How girls react when a guy is sort of attracted to her vs. REALLY attracted to her. (56:48)

• Kant describes his “automatic” connection with his girl. (58:00)

• The guys discuss how to touch a girl softly and gently to increase desire and sexual tension. (59:25)

• The role of WILDCARDS in night game. (1:00:58)

• Pablo shares his wild, explicit, and totally weird night-game story from a different weekend. (1:01:20)

Listen online: www.girlschase.com/content/podcast-girls-chase-seduction-team-lessons-stockholm

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Daka Guy shows you how to drop the repression of social conditioning and get in touch with your true, authentic sexual and romantic desires.

Highlights include:

• How Daka Guy got his start in sexuality exploration (04:52)

• The new “happily ever after”: beautiful outcomes even with breakups (07:19)

• Was Daka Guy’s harmony with women something he was born with? (11:04)

• The “unraveling process” people go through as they discover themselves (12:30)

• Why is it so hard to facilitate a mind-blowing relationship with a partner? (14:04)

• Total honesty with a partner, and the “I can’t share this with my partner” problem (15:19)

• The difference between an honest, intimate conversation, and trying to impress (18:28)

• Physical vs. spiritual ways to approach sexuality (21:03)

• What you say you want in a mate versus what you actually desire in a mate (24:54)

• On not getting stuck in relationships you’re unhappy with (35:21)

• How tantra fits into identifying your true desire (36:46)

• What does an authentic person look like (37:28)

• How do you find compatible mates? (43:31)

• Every mate you have serves a purpose in your life (44:52)

• The fairy tale: “one day my prince will come” - is this good or bad? (48:50)

• What schools do not teach on communication and sex (51:19)

• How do you develop self-knowledge and skill in relationships (65:54)

• How to get past the fear of being vulnerable (67:34)

• Should you push pass discomfort and what you want to do? (70:32)

• Love at first sight / authentic, powerful, overriding attraction (74:11)

• Desires as something shamed and shut away by social conditions (77:24)

• How can you overcome conditioning and get in touch with your desires? (68:08)

• The fear of missing out, and how to be comfortable in the present moment (80:31)

• If you’re in a happy relationship, but want to try something else, what should you do? (81:10)

• When you form a relationship, you must figure out what the intention is for the relationship (89:47)

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Listen online: www.girlschase.com/content/sexual-authenticity-podcast-daka-guy

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