Girls Chase Podcast

Ruwando talks sexual magnetism, instinct, and the power of unfiltered emotion in bedding lots and lots of women.

Highlights include:

• Dangers and inefficiencies of mechanical pickup artistry (05:13)

• Thoughts on erectile dysfunction being common among millennials (10:15)

• Tapping into your instinctual, animal, mating self (11:53)

• How to make subconscious, intuitive reads on girls (17:49)

• Why people shut down empathy and stop listening to instinct (28:31)

• Why women are acting like men in the modern world (30:47)

• People sync to the most emotionally dominant person (33:31)

• Becoming extremely attractive by ridding yourself of sexual shame (37:05)

• Being free with your emotions and removing the filter (38:38)

• The point where a lot of guys lose in difficult situations with girlfriends (43:22)

• Viewing women’s tests as a fun game (45:36)

• Stress, cortisol, and the root cause of younger men’s erectile dysfunction issues (47:34)

• On perfectionism - there is no “perfect” (50:27)

• 3 tools to use to beat erectile dysfunction (52:15)

• How to test your intuition and make it really good (57:07)

• Details on Ruwando's 3-hour master class on sexual magnetism (64:09)

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One of the seduction community’s most prolific seducers, nightlife pro and admitted sex addict Pablo Garcia discusses his approach to getting lots of hookups with very hot girls. His biggest tools: sexual touch, sexual conversation, and strategic venue changes.

Highlights include:

• How Pablo started to use nonverbal escalation to sleep with lots of girls (6:08)

• What is game? The “Stop Light” paradigm (10:35)

• The key to loving girls (11:54)

• The problem of talking about game with the uninitiated (14:30)

• What kind of venues does Pablo like most for night game? (18:01)

• How to use venue changes to increase comfort with girls you meet at night (18:39)

• The approach in a bar vs. the approach in a club (19:42)

• What Pablo does during his introduction to a new girl (22:21)

• The importance of fundamental (you can’t skip these!) (22:46)

• Guys who are used to seeing women as either pure or whores (26:05)

• How to achieve a genuine “don’t give a fuck” mentality (very attractive to women) (29:30)

• Is it a challenge to start a new conversation with a girl? (32:38)

• Should you make sure a girl sees you looking at her? (33:46)

• How Pablo spots his targets (34:28)

• What makes a girl a good target? (35:21)

• How the approach differs for introverts vs. extraverts (36:40)

• How to attract women with your eyes (37:28)

• Verbal approaches vs. nonverbal approaches (39:07)

• Being a sex addict with a high sex drive, and how this impacts results (40:36)

• The signs a girl is a “freak” who loves to have sex (41:54)

• How Pablo brings out the “freak” in a girl who is a freak (45:12)

• Why talking about sex serves as a freeway to the bedroom (49:16)

• The waist-grab, the neck-feel, and other ways to escalate physically (51:33)

• “The Bold Move” - how to tell her exactly what you want to do with her (54:01)

• Making her feel small, dominated, taken care of, and surrendered (55:06)

• How Pablo makes women feel these emotions (56:36)

• What signs tell you you can sexualize the courtship (57:51)

• What to do if she tries to deny she likes sex (58:55)

• Ways to touch her that sexualize the courtship (60:15)

• When to extract a girl to another venue, or to your or her place (61:49)

• The importance of making sure she’s a “green light” before the invite home (63:30)

• How to get a girl alone in the venue with you to talk to her (65:22)

• How to get a girl’s friends on your side in the group (66:04)

• What Pablo’s end game is to pull girls home (68:39)

Listen online: www.girlschase.com/content/touch-girl-and-take-her-home-podcast-pablo-garcia

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Alek details a number of explosive, powerful techniques for turning girls on in nightclubs. In addition, he talks about how to overcome “wild cards” that pop up at random while you talk to girls… Plus how to deal with friends and other men who decide to intervene. Also covered: pulling girls to the bathroom, and how to get her so excited about you she crosses the “Point of No Return.”

• Alek describes a seduction from the weekend before the podcast (03:55)

• Alek’s “We’ve become too scientific about sex” bit (08:00)

• The critical decision of “which girl do you go for?” (12:36)

• How do you time and pace an interaction with a girl? (15:29)

• “Social Touch” and strategic touching: when and how to use touch (18:25)

• How to maintain control of the interaction and stay in the lead (21:03)

• Chopin’s “Universal Answer” to women’s tests (22:33)

• Why would anyone bother with the complexity of night game? (23:03)

• 3 mindsets to have in mind when you go out at night (27:44)

• The “Party Vibe” and why to avoid this like EBOLA (28:27)

• How to calibrate your energy from the open to the close (29:36)

• How to deal with “Wild Card” scenarios that pop up in seductions (32:17)

• What to do when guys try to steal your girl away (34:56)

• The logistical “Wild Card” and how to deal with bad logistics (37:43)

• The “Point of No Return” - this is how you pull girls to bathrooms or alleys (39:52)

• How to escalate physically to the “Point of No Return” (41:27)

• Wild Cards there’s just no way to deal with (45:21)

• Wild Card decision making: is she worth your time? (47:00)

• Do only extraverts excel at night game? (50:14)

• How some introverted guys pick up on the dance floor (without dancing) (52:40)

• Is it important for people to not see girls reject you? (53:36)

• What guys should do when it’s too loud to talk to girls (56:42)

• How to pull a girl home with you (59:03)

• This week’s homework assignment (65:07)

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Dr. David Tian shows you how to unlock powerful inner game using the Dao state and his new program Invincible. Channel charisma, sexiness, and complete unshakeable confidence.

* How David got into the dating and social sciences (02:30)

* What causes women to lose respect for you in a relationship (15:03)

* Which should you focus on first: mindsets or tactics? (16:25)

* Things men do that stop them from being their most natural/attractive selves (17:14)

* Can any guy reach this natural, attractive state? (20:40)

* How men used to pick up girls historically (23:21)

* What is the Dao State? (24:48)

* The Dao State of Power: how to enable yourself to do well socially (28:38)

* A few things that all girls everywhere want in a man (30:58)

* A word that starts with “P” that levels your game up dramatically (32:17)

* “Leading through emotions”, a principle you can use to make girls chase after you (38:10)

* An example of leading for introverts David learned from a weird nerdy guy he watched attract the hottest girls (40:57)

* The problem of trying to always get hotter and hotter girls (44:10)

* The problem of getting sucked into a pickup artist identity (46:24)

* If a guy wants to enjoy a life of abundance with women, do these methods work for him too? (48:59)

* How the Dao State increases charisma as well as attraction (51:36)

* Unconscious beliefs men have that sabotage them with women (53:41)

* What a typical client experience looks like with Invincible (57:35)

* How you can make girls trust and depend on you (61:55)

* How big an effect does a man’s upbringing have on his ability to succeed with women? (64:30)

* What happens if you think she’s out of your league? (66:19)

* What an alumni of Invincible looks like after he’s completed the course (69:08)

* A few tools from the Dao State of Escalation to project your sexual vibe (71:11)

* Exactly what you will get inside David’s Invincible course (75:18)

* A preview of what the first free video from David is about (77:24)

* David’s homework assignment for listeners of the podcast this week (78:09)

Listen online:

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Alek Rolstad details his process for meeting girls in nightclubs and lounges. Included is one detailed seduction, and a lot of juicy tech.

* An example of how Alek picks up a girl at night (03:50)

* How Alek tied repression to desire with girls (09:06)

* The good sex vs. “McDonald’s hookups” contrast (14:16)

* Getting a kiss from a girl who resists the first kiss (15:38)

* Example of pulling a girl home for sex (17:00)

* An easy tool to build her anticipation up before sex (18:30)

* How is night game different from other ways to meet girls? (21:19)

* What does Alek think is the most important aspect of night game? (24:23)

* Do a lot of guys get night game all wrong? (27:12)

* How to create a social vibe (29:11)

* Why less (or not) masturbation makes you so much sexier (30:51)

* More tips to how to get yourself in a good place to meet girls (32:16)

* What venues to choose to go out to at night (33:25)

* The difference between chaotic vs. intimate venues (37:05)

* How to open girls in night game and trigger approach invitations (41:12)

* How Alek decides which girls to approach and which not to (43:26)

* An easy way to ping girls to see who’s interested (46:01)

* Rejection avoidance: what to do to not get rejected (47:19)

* How to hook in and attract a girl once you’re talking to her (48:47)

* The 2 things Alek likes to do right after he meets a girl (50:20)

* What the difference is between social and sexual value in clubs (53:45)

* This week’s homework assignment (58:54)

Listen online: www.girlschase.com/content/night-game-process-podcast-alek-rolstad

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Glenn Pearce gives the listener tons of tools on how to overcome approach anxiety for good. Plus, a sneak peek of his 12-week course.

Selected topics of conversation...

* How to find great women just about anywhere (01:42)

* Was Glenn scared to talk to girls when he started? (04:09)

* How Glenn got over his own approach anxiety (05:30)

* Why the fear of approaching is different from other fears (08:36)

* Visualization as a technique for beating approach anxiety (10:47)

* Does self-esteem have an impact on approach anxiety? (15:28)

* Conditioning oneself to not approach women… and why men do this (19:43)

* Glenn’s “Hot Girl in the Room” Effect: what it is and how it works (21:07)

* Illusory value: why her value before you approach is an illusion (24:30)

* The “Safety Straightjacket”, and how playing it safe leads to rejection (26:23)

* Some of the most common ways guys play things too safe (30:40)

* How long does it take for a guy to stop “holding himself back”? (32:07)

* Thinking about dating progress in terms of the Master’s Wheel (34:20)

* Speed of progression: how long does it take to make progress? (37:12)

* Case study: what life’s like for a student of Glenn’s (39:00)

* The first thing Glenn recommends you do to get more results with girls (42:10)

* How long does it take to go from “scared” to “successful”? (43:47)

* How to use habits to program yourself into the “Good Direction Trap” (45:18)

* When in Glenn’s 12-week program the “Good Direction Trap” kicks in (47:26)

* What kinds of excuses do guys use to not approach new girls? (49:01)

* How Glenn gets guys to stop using excuses (51:35)

* How to use “Instant Attraction Generators” to telegraph attractive traits (53:53)

* What’s the success rate for students of Glenn’s to beat approach anxiety? (55:41)

* How long training with Glenn lasts (58:17)

* How to get a free 10-minute call with Glenn (59:34)

* A brief summary of what Glenn covers in his 12-week course (60:14)

Listen online: http://www.girlschase.com/content/girls-chase-podcast-interviews-ep-13-glenn-pearce

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In Part 2 of a two-part series on relationships, Chase Amante talks monogamy (and all the wrinkles that go along with it) with host Varoon Rajah.

Selected topics of conversation…

* Is monogamy the natural setting for a relationship? (1:20)

* Whether society programs us for monogamy or it is an intrinsic drive (3:47)

* How media supports or invalidates feelings about monogamy (5:07)

* Have the sex roles become less clear in modern society? (6:42)

* The value of clearly delineated roles within a relationship (7:20)

* Some of the differences of monogamy in other cultures (8:00)

* Why it’s important for a man to know what he wants in a partner (9:55)

* How power subtly shifts inside relationships (11:14)

* How to resist a girl’s efforts to escalate a relationship (12:31)

* How can you determine what a girl wants with you early on? (14:26)

* Do women actually know what they want with you? (16:41)

* Why to look for what makes her UN-happy around you (17:46)

* If she isn’t happy or doesn’t want what you do, should you end it? (18:27)

* Why it’s bad for a woman to settle for you (22:20)

* Why it’s critical to have a purpose for your relationship (23:21)

* How supplication creates more problems instead of solving them (24:21)

* Why it’s so important to have firm boundaries (26:44)

* The crux of a healthy relationship: involving her without yielding to her (31:11)

* What does dominance-submission looks like in a relationship? (34:09)

* How dominance factors into the role of provider (35:35)

* Does every woman have the capacity to submit? (39:05)

* What shared purposes are there for relationships? (43:28)

* How to create a mutual purpose in a relationship (46:11)

* Examples of strained relationships without mutual purpose (48:45)

* Do men and women sometimes put on early faces that change later? (51:03)

* How to handle the “false face” problem (52:55)

* Other emotions or lack of emotions that emerge in relationships (55:29)

... plus 30 more minutes of podcast interview.

Listen online: www.girlschase.com/content/girls-chase-podcast-interviews-ep-12-chase-amante

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Chase Amante discusses relationship set up with host Varoon Raja. Namely, how to convert a girl from recent sexual conquest to recurring romantic partner, what kind of expectations to set, and how to prevent yourself from being too needy or acting too aloof.

Selected topics of conversation…

• What women are looking for in their lives and relationships (1:25)

• The importance of repeated gratification in long-term relationships (3:15)

• Does a woman know what relationship she wants prior to sex? (5:56)

• Are women open to any relationship if the courtship is good enough? (7:40)

• The different kinds of men girls look for in different cycles/phases (8:47)

• Why knowing what you want is so important to relationships (11:59)

• What happens when you fall into a relationship (13:24)

• How to know what kind of a relationship you want (13:58)

• The key differences between the lover and provider frames (15:20)

• What qualities to highlight from the very first impression (17:14)

• The problem with being the hardcore lover (19:23)

• How the pace from meet-to-sex impacts your relationship potential (20:13)

• How set the pace you proceed with her following sex (23:01)

• Why it’s okay for the first few ‘sex dates’ to happen quickly (25:42)

• Game-playing after sex and why you don’t want to do it (29:08)

• How does the environment you meet her in impact the relationship? (30:40)

• What should men do if they start feeling needy toward a recent lay? (34:58)

• Why some men lose interest in women after sleeping with them (37:40)

• What does her behavior after sex tell you? (40:59)

• How to proceed if she acts aloof after sex (43:05)

• What to do after first sex to reassure her you like her (43:55)

• The importance of introducing the element of warmth after sex (46:03)

• How do you set up the second and third meets after first sex? (47:22)

• Nuances to setting up the next meet (49:42)

• Why to create a purpose / end goal for the relationship (50:54)

• How to figure out where a girl fits into your life (52:50)

• How you’d set up a casual sexual relationship (55:50)

• Do women get offended if you don’t let them sleep over? (58:58)

• Why not to assume she can read your mind (60:48)

• How to set up a long-term relationship (62:16)

• Why to not always wait for her to progress the relationship (63:37)

Listen online: www.girlschase.com/content/girls-chase-podcast-interviews-ep-11-chase-amante

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Girls Chase author Alek Rolstad talks sex talk, sexual prizing, and sexual framing (and reframing) with host Varoon Raja. How do you make women you’ve just met start fantasizing right away about sex with you on the back of conversation alone? Alek shares his potent techniques.

Selected topics of conversation…

• The key lessons for Alek early into learning seduction (12:03)

• What Alek learned from a Danish girl about social value (17:15)

• How social value makes it easier for women to accept sexual moves (18:29)

• Alek’s first time using sexual prizing with a girl (20:08)

• A brief definition of sexual prizing (21:14)

• What the proper way to talk about sex looks like (24:14)

• Talking about sex without outright saying “I will do this to you” (27:18)

• How to show her you might be into her, yet give her mixed signals (28:55)

• How to show interest and be attainable as you talk sex (29:54)

• Ways to disqualify women who disapprove of sex talk (31:13)

• Calibrating sex talk to the woman you’re speaking with (33:37)

• How to transition into sex talk (34:42)

• The sexual-to-social fractionation routine (38:58)

• What makes fractionation so useful (41:14)

• Alek’s ‘8 types of orgasm’ routines (42:24)

• A discussion of anti-slut defense, and ‘sexual reframing’ (44:43)

• How to communicate discretion to women and be low-key (47:22)

• Framing yourself as the lover vs. as the provider (48:45)

• “I don’t want sex - I want good sex” (51:44)

• The ‘secret society’: women seek out a few select men for sex (53:03)

• How to create a scenario where you are an insider to a woman’s world (55:46)

• Alek’s ‘secret society routine’ (57:12)

• Alek’s 100% success ‘totally unfair’ routine (1:05:20)

Listen online: www.girlschase.com/content/girls-chase-podcast-interviews-ep-10-alek-rolstad

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Girls Chase author William Gupta talks race and dating with Varoon Raja. Namely, how big a role does race play, what are the stumbling blocks different racial minorities run into, and how can men of minority backgrounds succeed with all types of women?

Selected topics of conversation…

• Interracial dating in places where this is common vs. place where it’s not (3:56)

• William’s thoughts on ‘race as a sticking point’ (5:12)

• William’s own journey improving with women (8:07)

• Did the media or experiences in different cities impact William? (9:21)

• Why online dating is difficult for interracial dating (11:14)

• Men who idealize/fantasize about certain kinds of girls only (12:26)

• Why men use excuses interacting with girls of other races (14:21)

• How does victim mentality show up and what are the ramifications (15:12)

• Race-related self-fulfilling prophecies (16:20)

• Why Indian men so often suck with women (16:50)

• How brown men often put advanced game before fundamentals (18:16)

• Getting caught in hypothetical “I won’t try because I won’t win” (18:59)

• Problems black guys run into with game (19:49)

• Suggestions for how black guys can avoid over-touching (21:49)

• What Asian guys who do well and date out of their race do (22:16)

• How hanging out with other races/cultures helps you date interracially (24:07)

• Why you have to relate to her culture to date her (25:25)

• Adjusting your appearance to blend in with her culture (26:11)

• What changed for William when he shaved his head (27:20)

• What a woman thinks about when a man of another race approaches her (28:59)

• The taboo of dating ‘off-limits’ men (30:16)

• How women backwards rationalize their attraction after the fact (30:52)

• The importance of knowing you are attractive (31:52)

• Being the first guy of a race a girl’s ever been with (32:40)

• How do you commit to getting better and improving with girls (32:59)

• When William realized it was not as easy for white guys as he’d thought (36:01)

• The desire to stay exactly the same yet magically get better results (36:44)

• Learning to be unfazed by rejection (37:29)

• Why to compare yourself with yourself instead of others (41:58)

Listen online: www.girlschase.com/content/girls-chase-podcast-interviews-ep-9-william-gupta

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