God Attachment Healing

Deconstruction has been a word we have been hearing more and more in Christians circles, and it is something that I both am empathetic towards but also very concerned for how common its become. Though a stage of questioning one's faith is expected in the life of a Christian, it seems that it has made many today turn away from their long-held beliefs than helping them grow in their relationship with Christ. 

Tune in today as Josh and I discuss the following:
- What is deconstruction?,
- Who is deconstructing?, 
- Is it good for Christians to deconstruct?, 
- Why are Christians deconstructing?, and 
- How can the church leaders and mature believers help Christians who are in this stage of deconstruction? 

If you have any questions or comments on this topic or would like to share your own story of deconstruction or personal growth, please  email me at [email protected].

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Send Me Questions on Attachment

Emotions. They're difficult to talk about, and even more difficult when you grew up in an environment where you were told to suppress them. Intimacy is even more difficult because in order to develop it, you have to be able to identify and regulate what you feel to communicate with others at a deeper level. This ultimately has an impact on how deep our relationship with God can be.

Tune in to today's episode as Christian Life and Perspective Coach, Mathew Swinson, and I discuss the many facets of growing in intimacy with Christ. On this episode, we discuss:
- What intimacy is,
- How important it is to our relationship with Christ and others, 
- How to overcome the emotional and historical barriers to developing intimacy, and
- Learn how to grow deeper in our relationship with Christ. 

If you'd like to connect with Mat for a free session or are interested in learning more about what coaching can look like, you can access his content here: linktr.ee/MathewSwinson
INSTAGRAM: @sincearlymathew
FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/BigMattLovesJesus 

If you have any questions for me, you can email me at [email protected].

Remember to please LEAVE A REVIEW for the podcast as it helps get the word out to a larger audience, and remember to SUBSCRIBE and/or follow on Itunes, Spotify, Stitcher, GooglePlay, and all other podcast platforms.

If you're on Facebook and/or Instagram, I'd greatly appreciate it if you SHARE this episode! :)

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ABOUT ME 👇

My mission is to provide Christians with content on how to address spiritual and mental health issues within the church. In fact, I often address shame and its effects on relationships within the church. 

I look forward to walking alongside you as we draw closer to Christ!

Support the show

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MY HOPE FOR YOU
I hope these episodes bring you closer to Christ and encourage you in your walk with Him. 

ABOUT ME 👇
I have been a Christ-follower for the last 20+ years of my life, and have seen the Lord's grace, strength, and faithfulness through it all. He led me to pursue a degree in higher education and has given me a gift for the field of counseling. 

Emotions. They're difficult to talk about, and even more difficult when you grew up in an environment where you were told to suppress them. Intimacy is even more difficult because in order to develop it, you have to be able to identify and regulate what you feel to communicate with others at a deeper level. This ultimately has an impact on how deep our relationship with God can be.

Tune in to today's episode as Christian Life and Perspective Coach, Mathew Swinson, and I discuss the many facets of growing in intimacy with Christ. On this episode, we discuss:
- What intimacy is,
- How important it is to our relationship with Christ and others, 
- How to overcome the emotional and historical barriers to developing intimacy, and
- Learn how to grow deeper in our relationship with Christ. 

If you'd like to connect with Mat for a free session or are interested in learning more about what coaching can look like, you can access his content here: linktr.ee/MathewSwinson
INSTAGRAM: @sincearlymathew
FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/BigMattLovesJesus 

If you have any questions for me, you can email me at [email protected].

Remember to please LEAVE A REVIEW for the podcast as it helps get the word out to a larger audience, and remember to SUBSCRIBE and/or follow on Itunes, Spotify, Stitcher, GooglePlay, and all other podcast platforms.

If you're on Facebook and/or Instagram, I'd greatly appreciate it if you SHARE this episode! :)

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https://www.facebook.com/samlanda23/​

ABOUT ME 👇

My mission is to provide Christians with content on how to address spiritual and mental health issues within the church. In fact, I often address shame and its effects on relationships within the church. 

I look forward to walking alongside you as we draw closer to Christ!

Send Me Questions on Attachment

Can your testimony to those around you be an idol in your life? Do you feel like God has been punishing you for past sins? Do you feel like you shouldn't be discipling others because you're not yet "perfect"? Do you feel shame when you have to meet with the person who is discipling you or keeping you accountable? 

Then, this episode is for you! 👍

Tune in today as Elder Buck Romero and I explore the difficulties experienced by Christians who are struggling with shame when discipling others or when being discipled and what to do about it. In this episode, we discuss: 
- Some important aspects of one's testimony,
- Understanding the power and grace of God's love and how to apply it to your life, 
- How to challenge the shame felt from past mistakes, and 
- How to disciple others and find people to be discipled by. 

If you have any questions about discipleship or would like to get in touch with my or Buck, please  email me at [email protected].

Remember to please LEAVE A REVIEW for the podcast as it helps get the word out to a larger audience, and remember to SUBSCRIBE and/or follow on Itunes, Spotify, Stitcher, GooglePlay, and all other podcast platforms.

If you're on Facebook and/or Instagram, I'd greatly appreciate it if you SHARE this episode! :)

FOLLOW ME ON INSTAGRAM:
https://bit.ly/2UyNeLa​

FOLLOW ME ON FACEBOOK:
https://www.facebook.com/samlanda23/​

ABOUT ME 👇

My mission is to provide Christians with content on how to address spiritual and mental health issues within the church. In fact, I often address shame and its effects on relationships within the church. 

I look forward to walking alongside you as we draw closer to Christ!

Support the show

FOLLOW ME ON INSTAGRAM:
@godattachmenthealing

FOLLOW ME ON FACEBOOK:
God Attachment Healing

MY HOPE FOR YOU
I hope these episodes bring you closer to Christ and encourage you in your walk with Him. 

ABOUT ME 👇
I have been a Christ-follower for the last 20+ years of my life, and have seen the Lord's grace, strength, and faithfulness through it all. He led me to pursue a degree in higher education and has given me a gift for the field of counseling. 

Can your testimony to those around you be an idol in your life? Do you feel like God has been punishing you for past sins? Do you feel like you shouldn't be discipling others because you're not yet "perfect"? Do you feel shame when you have to meet with the person who is discipling you or keeping you accountable? 

Then, this episode is for you! 👍

Tune in today as Elder Buck Romero and I explore the difficulties experienced by Christians who are struggling with shame when discipling others or when being discipled and what to do about it. In this episode, we discuss: 
- Some important aspects of one's testimony,
- Understanding the power and grace of God's love and how to apply it to your life, 
- How to challenge the shame felt from past mistakes, and 
- How to disciple others and find people to be discipled by. 

If you have any questions about discipleship or would like to get in touch with my or Buck, please  email me at [email protected].

Remember to please LEAVE A REVIEW for the podcast as it helps get the word out to a larger audience, and remember to SUBSCRIBE and/or follow on Itunes, Spotify, Stitcher, GooglePlay, and all other podcast platforms.

If you're on Facebook and/or Instagram, I'd greatly appreciate it if you SHARE this episode! :)

FOLLOW ME ON INSTAGRAM:
https://bit.ly/2UyNeLa​

FOLLOW ME ON FACEBOOK:
https://www.facebook.com/samlanda23/​

ABOUT ME 👇

My mission is to provide Christians with content on how to address spiritual and mental health issues within the church. In fact, I often address shame and its effects on relationships within the church. 

I look forward to walking alongside you as we draw closer to Christ!

Send Me Questions on Attachment

One of the most difficult discussions to have within the church has to be the issues surrounding spiritual, emotional, mental, and sexual abuse. So much damage and pain has been done by pastors and leaders who have not learned how to exercise godly authority over the flock they are supposed to protect and lead. 

This is part 2 of a series where I am covering different elements and situations on how abusers operate within the church. 

I will continue to focus on helping listeners develop an awareness of the backgrounds of abusers, as well as describe how they relate in relationships, and what situations make them more likely to do so.

Tune in today as I describe what characteristics abusers display. Specifically, I discuss: 
- Some common aspects of their history and upbringing, 
- Behavioral patterns in relationships (relational characteristics), and 
- Situations in which abuse is likely to happen (situational characteristics). 

This was a difficult topic to cover, and I only covered a few points, but if you have any questions or comments at all, please  email me at [email protected].

Remember to please LEAVE A REVIEW for the podcast as it helps get the word out to a larger audience, and remember to SUBSCRIBE and/or follow on Itunes, Spotify, Stitcher, GooglePlay, and all other podcast platforms.

If you're on Facebook and/or Instagram, I'd greatly appreciate it if you SHARE this episode! :)

FOLLOW ME ON INSTAGRAM:
https://bit.ly/2UyNeLa​

FOLLOW ME ON FACEBOOK:
https://www.facebook.com/samlanda23/​

ABOUT ME 👇

My mission is to provide Christians with content on how to address spiritual and mental health issues within the church. In fact, I often address shame and its effects on relationships within the church. 

I look forward to walking alongside you as we draw closer to Christ!

Support the show

FOLLOW ME ON INSTAGRAM:
@godattachmenthealing

FOLLOW ME ON FACEBOOK:
God Attachment Healing

MY HOPE FOR YOU
I hope these episodes bring you closer to Christ and encourage you in your walk with Him. 

ABOUT ME 👇
I have been a Christ-follower for the last 20+ years of my life, and have seen the Lord's grace, strength, and faithfulness through it all. He led me to pursue a degree in higher education and has given me a gift for the field of counseling. 

One of the most difficult discussions to have within the church has to be the issues surrounding spiritual, emotional, mental, and sexual abuse. So much damage and pain has been done by pastors and leaders who have not learned how to exercise godly authority over the flock they are supposed to protect and lead. 

This is part 2 of a series where I am covering different elements and situations on how abusers operate within the church. 

I will continue to focus on helping listeners develop an awareness of the backgrounds of abusers, as well as describe how they relate in relationships, and what situations make them more likely to do so.

Tune in today as I describe what characteristics abusers display. Specifically, I discuss: 
- Some common aspects of their history and upbringing, 
- Behavioral patterns in relationships (relational characteristics), and 
- Situations in which abuse is likely to happen (situational characteristics). 

This was a difficult topic to cover, and I only covered a few points, but if you have any questions or comments at all, please  email me at [email protected].

Remember to please LEAVE A REVIEW for the podcast as it helps get the word out to a larger audience, and remember to SUBSCRIBE and/or follow on Itunes, Spotify, Stitcher, GooglePlay, and all other podcast platforms.

If you're on Facebook and/or Instagram, I'd greatly appreciate it if you SHARE this episode! :)

FOLLOW ME ON INSTAGRAM:
https://bit.ly/2UyNeLa​

FOLLOW ME ON FACEBOOK:
https://www.facebook.com/samlanda23/​

ABOUT ME 👇

My mission is to provide Christians with content on how to address spiritual and mental health issues within the church. In fact, I often address shame and its effects on relationships within the church. 

I look forward to walking alongside you as we draw closer to Christ!

Send Me Questions on Attachment

One of the most difficult discussions to have within the church has to be the issues surrounding spiritual, emotional, and sexual abuse. So much damage and pain has been done by pastors and leaders who have not learned how to exercise godly authority over the flock they are supposed to protect and lead. This is going to be part 1 of a series where I will be covering different aspects of abuse in the church. 

But first, we must develop an awareness of what it looks like to have a foundating that defines what spiritual abuse is and how we can be more aware of what is going on in our churches today. 

Tune in today as I elaborate on and explain the following:
- Defining what spiritual abuse is,
- Providing a biblical worldview of the church, and 
- How to look out for the warning signs of potential abuse. 

This was a difficult topic to cover, and I only covered a few points, but if you have any questions or comments at all, please  email me at [email protected].

Remember to please LEAVE A REVIEW for the podcast as it helps get the word out to a larger audience, and remember to SUBSCRIBE and/or follow on Itunes, Spotify, Stitcher, GooglePlay, and all other podcast platforms.

If you're on Facebook and/or Instagram, I'd greatly appreciate it if you SHARE this episode! :)

FOLLOW ME ON INSTAGRAM:
https://bit.ly/2UyNeLa​

FOLLOW ME ON FACEBOOK:
https://www.facebook.com/samlanda23/​

ABOUT ME 👇

My mission is to provide Christians with content on how to address spiritual and mental health issues within the church. In fact, I often address shame and its effects on relationships within the church. 

I look forward to walking alongside you as we draw closer to Christ!

Support the show

FOLLOW ME ON INSTAGRAM:
@godattachmenthealing

FOLLOW ME ON FACEBOOK:
God Attachment Healing

MY HOPE FOR YOU
I hope these episodes bring you closer to Christ and encourage you in your walk with Him. 

ABOUT ME 👇
I have been a Christ-follower for the last 20+ years of my life, and have seen the Lord's grace, strength, and faithfulness through it all. He led me to pursue a degree in higher education and has given me a gift for the field of counseling. 

One of the most difficult discussions to have within the church has to be the issues surrounding spiritual, emotional, and sexual abuse. So much damage and pain has been done by pastors and leaders who have not learned how to exercise godly authority over the flock they are supposed to protect and lead. This is going to be part 1 of a series where I will be covering different aspects of abuse in the church. 

But first, we must develop an awareness of what it looks like to have a foundating that defines what spiritual abuse is and how we can be more aware of what is going on in our churches today. 

Tune in today as I elaborate on and explain the following:
- Defining what spiritual abuse is,
- Providing a biblical worldview of the church, and 
- How to look out for the warning signs of potential abuse. 

This was a difficult topic to cover, and I only covered a few points, but if you have any questions or comments at all, please  email me at [email protected].

Remember to please LEAVE A REVIEW for the podcast as it helps get the word out to a larger audience, and remember to SUBSCRIBE and/or follow on Itunes, Spotify, Stitcher, GooglePlay, and all other podcast platforms.

If you're on Facebook and/or Instagram, I'd greatly appreciate it if you SHARE this episode! :)

FOLLOW ME ON INSTAGRAM:
https://bit.ly/2UyNeLa​

FOLLOW ME ON FACEBOOK:
https://www.facebook.com/samlanda23/​

ABOUT ME 👇

My mission is to provide Christians with content on how to address spiritual and mental health issues within the church. In fact, I often address shame and its effects on relationships within the church. 

I look forward to walking alongside you as we draw closer to Christ!

Support the show (https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/slandajr)

Send Me Questions on Attachment

To understand the origin of sin is to understand the origin of shame. As we see in the garden of Eden, when Adam and Eve ate of the fruit that they were prohibited from eating, their eyes "were opened, and they knew that they were naked." This led them to "hide" themselves from God's presence when they heard Him walking in the garden." And why did they hide? They experienced shame--knowing what it meant to be fully known but in a sinful state. 

Tune in today as Pastor Mike and I discuss the following difficult questions:
- How does the Bible define shame?,
- How does shame impact our relationship with God and others,
- Can shame be used as a means to draw is closer to Christ?, and
- What advice can be given to cherished who are currently struggling with shame?

Do you have questions? Feel free to email me at [email protected].

Remember to please LEAVE A REVIEW for the podcast as it helps get the word out to a larger audience, and remember to SUBSCRIBE and/or follow on Itunes, Spotify, Stitcher, GooglePlay, and all other podcast platforms.

If you're on Facebook and/or Instagram, I'd greatly appreciate it if you SHARE this episode! :)

FOLLOW ME ON INSTAGRAM:
https://bit.ly/2UyNeLa​

FOLLOW ME ON FACEBOOK:
https://www.facebook.com/samlanda23/​

ABOUT ME 👇

My mission is to provide Christians with content on how to address spiritual and mental health issues within the church. In fact, I often address shame and its effects on relationships within the church. 

I look forward to walking alongside you as we draw closer to Christ!

Support the show

FOLLOW ME ON INSTAGRAM:
@godattachmenthealing

FOLLOW ME ON FACEBOOK:
God Attachment Healing

MY HOPE FOR YOU
I hope these episodes bring you closer to Christ and encourage you in your walk with Him. 

ABOUT ME 👇
I have been a Christ-follower for the last 20+ years of my life, and have seen the Lord's grace, strength, and faithfulness through it all. He led me to pursue a degree in higher education and has given me a gift for the field of counseling.