By Andrea
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The podcast currently has 288 episodes available.
Tim Fletcher is the founder and president of RE/ACT (Recovery Education for Addictions and Complex Trauma). He is a counselor himself, as well as a researcher and pastor. His YouTube channel is a wealth of resources on complex trauma and behavior patterns leading up to addiction with 24+ million views.
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Tim Fletcher is the founder and president of RE/ACT (Recovery Education for Addictions and Complex Trauma). He is a counselor himself, as well as a researcher and pastor. His YouTube channel is a wealth of resources on complex trauma and behavior patterns leading up to addiction with 24+ million views.
⬇️DAMN THE JOIN SHITSHOW - ADULT CHILD HEALING COMMUNITY⬇️
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How I learned I was an Adult Child - The Tale of 2 Brians
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Kristen Carder is the host of the I Have ADHD podcast (7.5 million downloads) and a dually certified coach who has supported thousands of people with ADHD worldwide. Her extensive experience working with ADHDers began in 2012, and she now leads a global community of adults with ADHD in her coaching program, FOCUSED.
Timestamps
8:20 – Coming to terms with your childhood trauma
15:22 - Breaking the fantasy bond that our parents and going no-contact
27:10 - How shame and the Inner Critic heightens ADHD symptoms
34:58 - What does self-trust actually mean and how to build it
41:19 - Procrastination, task management, and time efficiency
56:07: The unique challenges of parenting with ADHD
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A recording a recent Shitshow support group. Adult Children of Dysfunctional Families dive deep into the rollercoaster of emotions, personal growth, and the importance of authentic connections.
Key takeaways:
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Jerry Wise, MA, MS, CLC has been a marriage and family therapist, addictions therapist, ACOA expert, and codependency expert with over 40 years of professional experience. As a self-differentiation and relationship systems coach, he uses his knowledge in family systems theory to help clients get unstuck from family dysfunction and find a true sense of Self.
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Time Stamps
9:10 - How "recycling" old coping mechanisms and relationship relapses can happen even years into recovery
17:32 - The struggle to leave an abusive relationship
37:31 - The impact of family-systems trauma vs big T trau
40:07 - The depth of self-hate and the annihilating influence of narcissistic parents
1:00:57 - How To Navigate Relationships with Aging Narcissistic Parents
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Fellow member of The Shitshow Jesse joins us to discuss the intricate dynamics of trauma responses, dissociation, and the importance of understanding and nurturing the fragmented parts of oneself.
Complex trauma can lead to fragmentation of the self, where a person's identity splits into distinct parts to cope with overwhelming experiences. These parts often include a wounded inner children holding the trauma, protector parts that guards against further harm, and manager parts that strives to maintain normalcy and control. This fragmentation helps the individual survive but can cause long-term psychological challenges.
Connecting with our fragmented parts allows us to understand and integrate the different aspects of our identity shaped by trauma, fostering self-compassion and healing. This process helps to resolve internal conflicts, leading to a more cohesive and resilient self.
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