The Five Love Languages will be impossible to accomplish if the following principles are not established first.  These principles set the right foundation in order for these love languages to be displayed in your relationships. The following passage will set the remainder of this discussion for us. 

 Therefore, as God’s chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience. – Colossians 3:12

1. Compassion - sympathetic consciousness of others' distress together with a desire to alleviate it
2. Kindness – of a sympathetic or helping nature

3.      Humility - freedom from pride or arrogance

4.      Gentleness - free from harshness, sternness, or violence

5.      Patience - bearing pains or trials calmly or without complaint

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Forgiveness is the most powerful representation we have of Christ living and working through us. It is only through Him that we are able to not only forgive others, but also learn how to love them in the midst of our own pain. 

All Christians have learned that God doesn’t call us to do what we can do in our own strength. He calls us to do what requires his power and strength to do.  And extending forgiveness to those who have hurt us is definitely one of the actions that requires his strength to do. 

On today’s show, I will describe what forgiveness is and what it is not, share some stories of forgiveness, share the pros and more pros of forgiveness, and then a final tip for the week.  

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I have been a Christ-follower for the last 20+ years of my life, and have seen the Lord's grace, strength, and faithfulness through it all. He led me to pursue a degree in higher education and has given me a gift for the field of counseling.

Forgiveness is the most powerful representation we have of Christ living and working through us. It is only through Him that we are able to not only forgive others, but also learn how to love them in the midst of our own pain. 

All Christians have learned that God doesn’t call us to do what we can do in our own strength. He calls us to do what requires his power and strength to do.  And extending forgiveness to those who have hurt us is definitely one of the actions that requires his strength to do. 

On today’s show, I will describe what forgiveness is and what it is not, share some stories of forgiveness, share the pros and more pros of forgiveness, and then a final tip for the week.  

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Mental health... 🎭

...a topic often ignored in Christian circles, but a problem that continues to grow in the church. ⛪️

A couple of factors that I believe are part of the problem are:
1) how we as Christians view mental health, 👀
2) how we view people who seek counseling, 👨‍⚕️
3) how families and cultural backgrounds associate seeking counseling to weakness, 👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 and lastly,
3) how pastors address mental health issues in the church. ⛪️

With the recent news stories surrounding the stigma that Christians may associate with mental health, I felt led to discuss this important topic on my podcast. 🎤

Took me a little longer to prepare for this one, but I think it is going to be one of the more important topics I have covered this season!

Hope you tune in on Tuesday!!🎙🎧🙋‍♂️

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I hope these episodes bring you closer to Christ and encourage you in your walk with Him. Meditating on Scripture, Being committed to prayer, and Seeking Christian community are all essential to helping us learn more of who He is and who He made us to be.

ABOUT ME 👇
I have been a Christ-follower for the last 20+ years of my life, and have seen the Lord's grace, strength, and faithfulness through it all. He led me to pursue a degree in higher education and has given me a gift for the field of counseling.

Mental health... 🎭

...a topic often ignored in Christian circles, but a problem that continues to grow in the church. ⛪️

A couple of factors that I believe are part of the problem are:
1) how we as Christians view mental health, 👀
2) how we view people who seek counseling, 👨‍⚕️
3) how families and cultural backgrounds associate seeking counseling to weakness, 👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 and lastly,
3) how pastors address mental health issues in the church. ⛪️

With the recent news stories surrounding the stigma that Christians may associate with mental health, I felt led to discuss this important topic on my podcast. 🎤

Took me a little longer to prepare for this one, but I think it is going to be one of the more important topics I have covered this season!

Hope you tune in on Tuesday!!🎙🎧🙋‍♂️

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Today's episode will explain who you can be pouring into, who can be pouring into you, and how your inner circle is your primary circle of influence. I will elaborate on how your relationship with God is your primary focus in growing as a Christian, and the three areas you'll need to focus on in order to grow in your relationship with Him. 

I will also discuss the importance of having a mentor in your life, because they are a key connection for your spiritual growth. They have been where you currently are or have seen others where you are. They have learned from their decisions and have the wisdom to help you learn how God can speak to you in your tribulation, but who are also there walking alongside you. 

And lastly, I'll discuss who you need to dedicate time to in your inner core. Your core can be a source of encouragement, truth-speaking, and sharing your weaknesses and vulnerabilities with them. Spending quality time with your inner circle is about
each of you giving and receiving, encouraging one another, and spurring one another
towards love and good deeds. Hope you can tune in! 

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I hope these episodes bring you closer to Christ and encourage you in your walk with Him. Meditating on Scripture, Being committed to prayer, and Seeking Christian community are all essential to helping us learn more of who He is and who He made us to be.

ABOUT ME 👇
I have been a Christ-follower for the last 20+ years of my life, and have seen the Lord's grace, strength, and faithfulness through it all. He led me to pursue a degree in higher education and has given me a gift for the field of counseling.

Today's episode will explain who you can be pouring into, who can be pouring into you, and how your inner circle is your primary circle of influence. I will elaborate on how your relationship with God is your primary focus in growing as a Christian, and the three areas you'll need to focus on in order to grow in your relationship with Him. 

I will also discuss the importance of having a mentor in your life, because they are a key connection for your spiritual growth. They have been where you currently are or have seen others where you are. They have learned from their decisions and have the wisdom to help you learn how God can speak to you in your tribulation, but who are also there walking alongside you. 

And lastly, I'll discuss who you need to dedicate time to in your inner core. Your core can be a source of encouragement, truth-speaking, and sharing your weaknesses and vulnerabilities with them. Spending quality time with your inner circle is about
each of you giving and receiving, encouraging one another, and spurring one another
towards love and good deeds. Hope you can tune in! 

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Today, I will be discussing what we can do when we see our spouse has stopped growing in the Lord. In marriage, we need to be aware of our own walk with Christ to assess where our spouse is in their walk. We must seek to confront and restore our spouse in a loving manner, and then seek to continue in the role God has assigned to each of as husband or wife. As difficult as it may be to see one’s spouse become distant in their relationships to God and them, the key is to be attentive to what God is doing in your own heart. I explain what this looks like in today’s episode. Hope you can tune in!

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I hope these episodes bring you closer to Christ and encourage you in your walk with Him. Meditating on Scripture, Being committed to prayer, and Seeking Christian community are all essential to helping us learn more of who He is and who He made us to be.

ABOUT ME 👇
I have been a Christ-follower for the last 20+ years of my life, and have seen the Lord's grace, strength, and faithfulness through it all. He led me to pursue a degree in higher education and has given me a gift for the field of counseling.

Today, I will be discussing what we can do when we see our spouse has stopped growing in the Lord. In marriage, we need to be aware of our own walk with Christ to assess where our spouse is in their walk. We must seek to confront and restore our spouse in a loving manner, and then seek to continue in the role God has assigned to each of as husband or wife. As difficult as it may be to see one’s spouse become distant in their relationships to God and them, the key is to be attentive to what God is doing in your own heart. I explain what this looks like in today’s episode. Hope you can tune in! 

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Have you often found that we don’t understand ourselves, and because of that, we struggle in being able to understand others?  Even more critical than that is our inability to connect by empathizing with the pain, confusion, and questions others have about life.  But, it is difficult to understand others, if we can’t understand ourselves, and that is where emotional intelligence becomes a critical factor.  I will discuss how we experience, identify, regulate, and express emotions in our communication with the people we meet and love.  I’ll also discuss how it becomes a factor in our relationship with God. 

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I hope these episodes bring you closer to Christ and encourage you in your walk with Him. Meditating on Scripture, Being committed to prayer, and Seeking Christian community are all essential to helping us learn more of who He is and who He made us to be.

ABOUT ME 👇
I have been a Christ-follower for the last 20+ years of my life, and have seen the Lord's grace, strength, and faithfulness through it all. He led me to pursue a degree in higher education and has given me a gift for the field of counseling.