If I choose to submit that seems like I am giving up all of my rights. Is that true? For example, does submitting mean that I can't explain what I am thinking about the issue? Unfortunately, the discussion and definitions of submission are abused and misused. It's time to see what God says about submission.

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When you follow God's example and do relationships His way, you irritate your sin nature and your "ME"! When you decide to serve others, your sin nature asks, "What about ME?" Don't assume that when you do things God's way that your "ME" will like it! God's ways are not about selfishness and self-absorbed thinking. Serving others is the best way to get your needs met, because you trust your PERFECT God.

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You have no room for God, so you can't see God at work. All people and circumstances are in your life for your best no matter how you feel or think about them. Every good thing, every bad thing are in your life for a perfect reason. BUT, you cannot and do not see life that way, because "ME" fills everything you see. All of the space in your eyes, mind and heart prevent you from seeing God's perfect work unfolding right in front of you.

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Relationships suffer most from the PROBLEM - making everything about ME. And, one classic way the PROBLEM displays itself is through the "Victim" mistake where you "keep the past in the present". A "Victim" keeps the past in the present even though the past is OVER! This mistake deceives you into thinking that the past is powerful, but it isn't - IT IS OVER! You have other better choices to make.

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We adopted this phrase from Robert Fritz - "Reality is an acquired taste." Reality is our friend, because it doesn't play games. When you live in reality, you live in truth. In fact, you can interchange reality and truth, because they are synonyms. Too often, we live in fantasy - how it feels, not in reality and objectivity - how it is, and that creates major problems, because fantasy can be twisted into anything.

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