GRACE 2 CONQUER - Helping Women Find Freedom through Faith, Fitness, and Truth

Do you ever feel like you just need multiple clones of YOU to get ALLL the things done that you do every day?

Do you feel like you are just exhausted from and yet strangely addicted to ALL your daily activities and “extra” things you volunteer for?

Or maybe you are like me with ADHD and have SO many AMAZING ideas that you HAVE to pursue and explore (mine is crafts and businesses)?!

Well this BONUS episode is for YOU!!!

Overload is not the same necessarily as burn out but it can definitely lead to it. Today I am talking about the TWO MAIN AREAS that we have to take a hard and honest look at in our lives if we are feeling OVERLOAD from all the “hats” we wear: mom, wife, worker/business owner, entrepreneur, podcaster, blogger, trainer, coach, meal-preparer, homemaker, Sunday school teacher, nursery worker, babysitter…ALLL of those and more!

Ladies, this is an area I STRUGGLED with most of my adult life and it is okay…it took me YEARS and YEARS to figure these things out and it was p-a-i-n-f-u-l to say the least.

Listen up and take some notes then pray about what I have to say and do some journaling and then pray some more!!!

Don’t forget to come check out my Facebook group where we gather to talk about the things I bring up, motherhood, etc!!

Have you ever thought that if you pay for something, it will motivate you to follow through?

That investment mentality can be a huge problem because….

“How you do one thing is how you do everything.”

So whether you can do something on your own or for free, if you won’t put in the work, will you TRULY put in the work if you are paying for something? Many think so…speaking from experience with my clients.

Today’s episode is talking about that. It’s a short, straight-to-the-point kind of day with a little tough love!

The links talked about in the episodes are as follows:

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www.grace2conquer.com

https://www.facebook.com/groups/220473999028997/

https://www.1stphorm.app/Foote

https://www.facebook.com/G2Ccoaching/

This episode is just a straight up walk while I talk episode with no intro or extras. The quality is not the same because…I’m walking outside, which is where I go to do most of my deep thinking.

So…do you have a question? About fitness, marriage, family, hardships, mom life, nutrition….? Any of it? Send me an email [email protected] or get on my website www.Grace2Conquer.com and I’ll answer that weeks’ questions on my “Walk With Me Wednesday” episode.

Today was the FIRST of these so I am just explaining a little about my walking and rambling on.

Can’t wait to hear from you!!

XoXo

~Cara

Have you ever made that impulse buy as you walk near checkout? What about standing in the pantry snacking on some chips whiles you decide what you want to snack on? Today’s episode is all about immediate gratification and how it plays such an important role in health and fitness. So many companies sell products that will supposedly take the “work” out of weight loss or a program that guarantees quick and easy results, but are disappointed when they don’t see the results. At the same time, when someone hires a coach or personal trainer, they expect to see the sale start dropping immediately and their clothes getting looser and become discouraged quickly if these things don’t happen right away.

I once worked with a company called Xyngular and it promised 8lbs lost in 8 days with their special pack of products and in fact many saw those results (for numerous reasons) but then regained that weight with full force afterwards or after they stopped using their products.

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Our society has become addicted to immediate gratification in our fast-paced world. But it’s always BEST to do the hard work to get real and lasting benefits in any area of life, whether emotional or physical.

I know for myself when I wait to buy something until I have the money, I usually don’t even want that item any more (or not as bad) and can be more realistic if it’s a clothing item about if I’ll truly wear it often enough anyway. And as far as nutrition or fitness, I’ve been a trainer since 2013 and started body building in 2017. It has been a PROCESS to build muscle or to reshape my body composition. It takes years to gain muscle maturity and I enjoy this art of working on my body. I still struggle with an underlying urge to want to “lose weight” but now I can remind myself that the scale is not my judge and I can enjoy life and food without having body dismorphia or any negative food relationship. And you can too…but you have to understand the problems with our thinking when it comes to immediate gratification.

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If you are looking for more info on how to work with me, or gain support in a community of like-minded women, the links are below:

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www.Grace2Conquer.com

https://www.facebook.com/groups/220473999028997/

https://linktr.ee/Grace2Conquer

Have you ever found yourself picking up your cell phone to scroll or text while you are at a red light? No? Just me? I doubt that!!

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We all have our own vices and this is perhaps the thing I struggle with MOST as a mom, especially as a “mompreneur” (mom + entrepreneur). It’s SO easy to be distracted and not BE PRESENT with others in our lives and just because we’re moms, doesn’t make it any easier!

I know my ADHD also plays a huge role for me in that I struggle to focus ESPECIALLY on a rambling play-by-play of every single minute of one of the kids’ day at school. I TRY…SO HARD!!! Am I a bad mom???

As a fitness professional and a life coach, I’m here to tell you that it’s okay if it happens! The first step is recognizing it and then making a plan to change-write it out!! And then DO IT!! Maybe it means putting your phone far away in the car. Or getting an iPod to listen to music at the gym vs your phone. Maybe it will mean deleting a social media app every weekend so you can focus on family.

For me, my goal is to be PRESENT with my husband and kids and to BE INTENTIONAL in everything I do, whether it’s working out or cleaning the house.

I actually took a sabbatical from my apps on my phone about 6 months ago and it was GLORIOUS!!!! I freaked out a little at first…think withdrawals, because I clearly was more addicted to posting on my stories than I thought. But it allowed me the time to focus on my kids and enjoy them so much more. PLUS…my house was more clean and organized and our meals were better planned. It is something that I am better about now, although being in fitness and having several businesses including running a podcast is REALLY hard to do without some level of distraction.

I appreciate the accountability I get with my team in my Facebook group (which you can join in the link below) and from my husband…he’s always checking me when he sees me pick up my phone after dinner when it’s our designated “family time.”

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Facebook group:

https://www.facebook.com/groups/220473999028997/

Do you find yourself eating REALLY healthy during the week but on the weekends you let loose and perhaps even binge a little? (Or a LOT) O…only to find yourself feeling guilty come Monday and you either give up or you try to “exercise it all off”?

That, my sweet friend, is a dieting TRAP and is brought on by the diet culture we live in where we are taught through social media and fad diets that you should only eat these things (insert lean protein and veggie type things here) and not eat any of “those” things (insert any carb, fat, deliciousness here).

NOOOOOO!!! I’m here to HELP retrain how you look at nutrition and find your own sustainable and BALANCED lifestyle without the restriction that these fad diets teach you.

Look, girl…I’ve been there!! I tried allll the workout videos (Beachbody) starting with Taebo when I was a teenager all the way to P90X. I actually really loved Turbo Jam with Chalene Johnson haha!!!! I also tried sooo many diets and companies: Atkin’s, Weight-watchers, Beachbody, 21 Day Fix, Xyngular, isagenix, It Works, Shakeology, Keto, low carb, low fat….seriously….!! I even did a cookie diet!!! (Face-palm!!!)

So take it from me…in my 41 years, I’ve come a LOOOONG ways in figuring out the hard way what nourishing my body looks like and began studying nutrition having been a personal trainer for the past 8 years. I also had at least one eating disorder at a young age (I was bulemic) and didn’t know when I started having stomach pain all the time, that I was Celiac.

I’m so grateful God has given me so much clarity in this area and that I can help other women break free from the dieting culture traps that we know today!

Are you READY???

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Have a great day.!

We all know blending families with kids especially is HARD right?? Today’s episode is a real treat!! I have my friend Zoie on today talking about step-parenting and some worthwhile conversations you can have with your children when you are parenting. Zoie Seay is about to have her first book published in a series for blended families and I am so excited for her! The books will be for kids AND their parents to use as a tool to help them with the transition into their new “blended” family. We also talk about our experiences being in interracial families. Listen along as Zoie talks about her upcoming book and also gives some really great parenting advice, even if you’re not a step-parent! _______________________________________ Please follow Zoie Seay to find out more about her book release of “The Luckiest Child” and follow her social media: ________________________________________ Social Media: www.facebook.com/themooseexpress www.Instagram.com/booksbyzoieseay “The Luckiest Child: Becoming a Blended Family” November 20th **Pre ordering and book cover will be released soon. ** E-Mail: [email protected]

Must be nice to get to be at home all day.

Must be nice to win a trip.

Must be nice to have the time to go to the gym or have the money to buy all those supplements.

These are just SOME of the statements I get when others see the things I’m doing! How judgmental of us to assume that “their” life is easier or better or nicer…when you don’t even know what was in the background.

Today I am talking a little bit about what you don’t see behind what you think is the highlight reel. Because even though I’m honest, real, and anything but fake…all the pictures on social media of me working or being in pain or having inner turmoil or staying up late wouldn’t inspire you…would it?

Let’s just be truthful…we’re attracted to the people who have it “all together” but we are secretly judging them or possibly being envious of them (at least if you say or think “must be nice…”)

This is so prevalent being in the fitness industry! Although I worked with Xyngular, and ItWorks, and Beachbody (people think I’m a BB coach ALL the time)…I’m not! I do not sell anything…I do make a tiny commission off the products I use and promote, which is 1st Phorm…a company like no other. But I won’t try to sell you… if they don’t have a product I like or are lacking in something I find something else. (But they do have a lot.) the company itself is a fitness and supplement company founded by Andy Frisella who was also the creator of “75 Hard” which I talk about in this episode. They lead from the front and expect “coaches” (I’m also a certified personal trainer with NASM and own all my own business…not “just a coach”) to align with their core values which I absolutely do. Most of their following is young athletic type and I’m clearly 41 and a mom of 6 with a super busy lifestyle but I still find benefits and value in learning from Andy and his employees.

Please take a listen and don’t forget, my course on “Creating BALANCE In Your Busy Life” is launching in less that 2 weeks!!!

Have you ever had a difficult time focusing at home?

You never get the things done you intend to because you have distractions at every turn.

What if you could be able to focus and get the things done that you need to?

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As a mom of 6, personal trainer, podcaster, insurance/financial business owner leading a team, wife and so much more, I have been there! I know what it’s like to be torn between focusing on my business and constantly battling clutter.

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This episode is dedicated to helping you understand the “uncluttered home, uncluttered mind” thought process. My secrets as a business owner working from home, even having the kids home during COVID, to how I started getting things decluttered so I could have a healthy mindset and focus.

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Let’s start being intentional about these areas so that we an live our best lives! Let’s create a simple and daily routine so that we can manage our busy household!

This is going to be the best starting point if you are a homeschool momma or a mompreneur working from home.

Make sure you leave a review and rating so that more people can here my podcast and thank you for your loyalty in listening!

XoXo

~Cara