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Are you aware of the negative effects of stress and selfishness in your marital life? This episode brings to light the profound impact of these elements on the sanctity of your relationship, starting from the sin and blame game introduced by Adam and Eve. We explore how these factors have trickled down into our marriages and led to destructive patterns that we often aren't cognizant of. We delve into the unique challenges faced by those in the military or ministry, whose frequent relocations and job changes leave their marriages vulnerable.

The societal pressures piled onto marriages are not to be underestimated, either. We're all guilty of envying what others have, especially now in the age of social media where everyone's life seems perfect. However, we break down the illusion and reveal how this comparison culture can strain marriages. We also tackle the often neglected topic of financial stress, which if not managed effectively, can lead to a breakdown in communication. So, join us as we dive deep into the heart of these issues, uncovering the importance of understanding, communication, and validation to maintain the sanctity of your marriage.

Information is taken from: Marriage Works Curriculum - Light University

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Ready to deepen the intimacy in your marriage?  Dr. Marla and Dr. Jonathan Behler, are poised to guide you on an enlightening journey to enhance your understanding of the divine design for intimacy in marriage. We’ll reveal how we are divinely wired for intimacy with both God and our spouses. We’ll explore the profound significance of the biblical tale of Adam and Eve, the five levels of intimacy, and how damaging effects of shame and judgment can tear asunder the delicate fabric of intimacy. This episode promises a transformative exploration of your partner's emotional world as we strive to help you achieve genuine closeness.

In this episode, we focus on the power of prayer for intimacy and relationship growth. Sharpen your listening skills and learn to set boundaries with the guidance and insights we offer. For those grappling with the absence of intimacy in their relationships, we extend our heartfelt prayers and share our own marital experiences - the highs, the lows, and the triumphs. This episode is a heartfelt call to break free from barriers and build robust, enduring connections. Whether you are aiming to enrich your existing relationships or laying the groundwork for new ones, this episode is a treasure trove of wisdom and guidance. So tune in, and let's journey together towards deeper, more fulfilling relationships.

Dr. Marla and Dr. Jonathan Behler discuss the need for intimacy in marriage.

Information is taken from: Marriage Works Curriculum - Light University

https://bible.org/article/gods-plan-salvation

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Have you ever felt the chill of loneliness creep in despite being surrounded by people or even in a loving marriage? We, Dr. Marla and Dr. Jonathan Behler, dare to peel back the layers of this complex emotion, embarking on a fascinating journey to understand its causes and impacts. We dissect recent data from the Guinness World Records of 2023, revealing the 10 loneliest states in America, and explore how major life changes, like relocating or retiring, can trigger feelings of isolation. With a twist of novelty, we also share some peculiar records from the Guinness World Records – who knew the human tongue could lift such heavy weights or eyeballs could pop so far!

As the discussion unfolds, we delve into loneliness within the sanctity of marriage, highlighting how communication gaps, lack of commonality, and divergent priorities can drive wedges between couples. Drawing inspiration from the Bible, we shed light on how turning to God can provide comfort and solace during lonely times. To fight against this invisible enemy, we suggest practical measures such as joining social clubs, volunteering, or reconnecting with old friends. Finally, we discuss finding a connection with Jesus during periods of loneliness and emphasize the importance of outward focus rather than dwelling on internal turmoil. This deep-dive into loneliness is a treasure trove of insights and advice, especially for those who've ever felt alone in a crowd.


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Fasten your seatbelts as we embark on a journey that's sure to surprise you! We'll reveal how humans have outshined horses in the Olympic Long Jump and uncover the fascinating story behind James Cameron's selling of the Terminator script. You'd be astonished to know it was sold for a mere dollar, with a binding promise that he'd be its director. And if that's not enough, we'll also delve into how pigeon poop, yes you heard it right, pigeon poop, became the property of none other than the esteemed British crown.

As we transition from the fun facts, we plunge into the profound biblical story of Samuel. We all know him as a legendary prophet, but he was also known as the judge during the Israelites' transition from not having a king. We'll explore the significance of having children, seen as a divine blessing during ancient times, and how God uses the unworthy, making them warriors of his cause. As we further traverse the path of Samuel's life, we'll take a look at the powerful prayer of Hannah and its lasting impact on her life. Wake up to the power of early morning worship, and develop a new understanding of anthropomorphic language in the Bible. Ready to have your mind blown? Let's go!

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Have you ever wondered about the intricate world of Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) - how it manifests, its root causes, and the potential roads to recovery? Brace yourself for an enlightening conversation that unravels this complex mental health issue, throwing light on how it can stem from a myriad of experiences - from warfare, and police encounters to pandemics, natural disasters, and different forms of abuse. We reveal the crucial role of genetic factors, brain structure, and neurotransmitter imbalances in the development of PTSD. And while we're at it, let's not forget to discuss some astonishing facts - did you know that medical errors are the third leading cause of death in the U.S.? Or that bees can fly higher than Mount Everest?

Navigating trauma can feel like a lonely journey, especially for those without a support system. Allow us to guide you through the various treatment options like psychotherapy, CBT, EMDR, medications, exposure therapy, and group therapy. We use relatable instances from the Bible to remind anyone battling trauma that they are not alone - King David, Elijah, Job, Jeremiah, Hagar, and even Jesus faced traumatic experiences. But there's hope - God can bring healing and glory out of any mess. We also emphasize why it's crucial to be proactive in providing support to those who are suffering, and we highlight the comforting and healing power of Jesus. If you're grappling with PTSD or know someone who is, this episode could be the guiding light you've been seeking. Tune in to understand, empathize, and recover.

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Ever wondered about the origins of Mormonism? How it all began with Joseph Smith's vision at the tender age of 14, and his tumultuous journey involving everything from arrests over polygamy to an untimely death at 38? We're diving into it all. We're also delving into the influential role of Brigham Young and the four texts that are central to the faith of Latter-day Saints - the Book of Mormon, the Doctrine of Covenants, the Pearl of Great Price, and the King James Bible.

But that's not all. We'll also traverse through the different perspectives on Paul's writings in Galatians and Ephesians, specifically their influences and implications for Latter-day Saints. We'll ponder on the blend of faith and works in glorifying God and improving one's own life. So join us, and get ready for this enlightening exploration of a different faith. As always, we welcome your thoughts and questions - we're all about fostering a conversation here. So sit tight, get comfortable, and prepare for an enlightening journey into Mormonism.

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Ever wondered how scientists know what rats dream about or the unusual origins of everyday inventions like the microwave and glitter? Satisfy your curiosity with us, Dr Marla and Dr Jonathan Behlr, on this intriguing episode of Grace and the Shadows. We traverse through the quirky world of animal dreams and the history of common household items, revealing some astonishing facts that are sure to astonish.

But, hold on, this episode delivers more than just trivia. We embark on a candid exploration of sex within the context of marriage and procreation and its portrayal in various religious and societal lenses. From its purposes, as detailed in the Bible, such as procreation, intimacy, mutual pleasure, and fidelity, we stir up a frank and wide-ranging conversation. Uncover with us the complexities of these subjects, and let's challenge the conventional together in this riveting episode of Grace and the Shadows.

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Have you ever wondered why your friend posts so frequently about their achievements, their looks, or their acquisitions? In this episode, join us, the Behler duo, as we tread into the intriguing world of narcissistic behaviors on social media platforms, detailing the telltale signs of a narcissist and the different stages of narcissism. Beyond the all too familiar landscape of social media narcissism, we'll offer you a glimpse into amusing trivia, such as Theodore Roosevelt's pet hyena, Bill, and the exclusive Starbucks tucked away in the confines of the CIA headquarters.

Shifting gears, we venture into a heartfelt reflection on the Christian ethos of prioritizing the glorification of Jesus over self-glorification on social media. We believe our struggles can be transformed into a testament of His glory. We'll also share our thoughts on how social media platforms can inadvertently feed into narcissistic tendencies, making everyone seem a smidge more self-absorbed. Tune in to our riveting dialogue on faith, narcissism, and the pervasive influence of the digital world. Let's together navigate these complex issues, reshaping our understanding and perspective.

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Ever wondered about the origins of the word Xmas? How about the curious history of movie trailers? We've got something fascinating for you! Join us as we journey into these fun facts and immerse ourselves in the intense tale of the Biblical character Samson and his father Manoa. We traverse his life, discussing the Nazarite vow, his fame and power, and, more importantly, the consequences of his unwise decisions.

Delve into the dynamics of Samson and Delilah's relationship and witness how love led him astray, causing the loss of his extraordinary strength. But that's not the end. We also reflect on Samson's final act of faith, his ultimate redemption, and victory over the Philistines. It's a powerful testament to God's grace - how He can transform our mess into a message. As we wrap up, gear up for our upcoming exploration of the life of Samuel, another influential Biblical figure. For an in-depth understanding, we encourage you to read the book of Judges. This episode promises an engrossing journey of faith, power, downfall, and redemption.

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What if the Messiah you've been waiting for has already arrived, but he is not what you expected? This episode takes you on an enlightening journey, asking you to reconsider your preconceptions. We delve into the fascinating crux of divergence between Judaism and Christianity, exploring why Jews rejected Jesus 2000 years ago and why this continues to persist. Unravel the complex scenario surrounding the choice of Barabbas, the counterfeit Messiah, over Jesus, and the prophecy that paints a picture of Jews initially mistaking the anti-Christ for the Messiah during the seven-year tribulation.

We then turn our focus to the transformative power of Jesus, emphasizing the need to study him from a fresh perspective. Through an exploration of his lineage and genealogy, as outlined in the Bible, we unearth possible misunderstandings that may have led to his rejection. We underscore how God's ability to transform our chaos into a conduit for His glory and our good is borne out in Jesus. It's an impassioned plea to our Jewish listeners, Bezianic Jews included, to reassess their beliefs about Jesus and consider him as their Lord and Savior. Be prepared for a thought-provoking discussion that may change your beliefs forever.

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