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Strap in for a fun-filled ride as we journey across the United States from the comfort of your headphones. We're thrilled to announce Grace in the Shadows' recent expansions in Vermont and New Hampshire and are calling on you, our listeners, to help us build our listener base in Alaska and Rhode Island. As a token of our gratitude, we're giving away a special Grace in the Shadows coffee mug for your efforts. Along today's journey, we'll share some fascinating trivia about blue whales, the original purpose of the tiny pocket in jeans, and how turkeys blush.

Shifting gears, Dr. Marla joins us for an illuminating discussion on the profound wisdom of waiting on God's perfect timing. We take a deep dive into the stories of Abraham, Lot, and the cities of Sodom and Gomorrah, demonstrating how impatience often leads to unfavorable outcomes. We'll underline the significance of listening to God's voice and trusting His power even when the wait feels interminable. In these moments of waiting, it's crucial to stay present and avoid rushing ahead of God’s plan. Remember, even in our messiest moments, God can transform it into a beautiful story for His glory and our good. Join us for this enlightening session that promises to enrich your spiritual walk and daily life.

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If you live out of the US or not in Alabama, Virginia, or North Carolina, Dr. Jonathan Behler is an ordained minister and trained in pastoral counseling. If you are seeking pastoral counseling, please reach out as well!

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Do you ever feel like someone is messing with your mind, making you doubt your own perceptions and feelings? You might be a victim of gaslighting, a manipulative strategy commonly used by malignant narcissists, sociopaths, and psychopaths. In this deep-dive discussion, we, Dr. Marla and Dr Jonathan Behler, get real about the devastating impact of gaslighting on its victims, exploring phrases like 'you're just being paranoid', 'you're overreacting', and 'that never happened', and revealing how these are used to invalidate a person's experiences and feelings. It's a conversation of awareness, understanding, and empathy.

But it's not all serious, we also share some intriguing facts about the unexpected truth behind 'American' apple pie, the allergic relationship between cats and humans, and the enchanting real-life marriage of the voices behind Mickey and Minnie Mouse. As we journey through the shadows of our world, we also give a shoutout to our listeners from beautiful places such as Coeur d'Alene, Idaho. It's an episode that offers both light-hearted trivia and substantial guidance, promising to leave you feeling enlightened and better equipped to face the challenges life throws your way.

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*If you are searching for a clinical counselor and you live in Alabama, Virginia, or North Carolina, Dr. Jonathan Behler would be happy to see you as a client! He does all counseling virtually through a secure portal. He will also work with you on payments - don't let finances keep you from getting counseling!

If you live out of the US or not in Alabama, Virginia, or North Carolina, Dr. Jonathan Behler is an ordained minister and trained in pastoral counseling. If you are seeking pastoral counseling, please reach out as well!

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Ever wondered what heaven would feel like? This enlightening conversation with Dr. Marla and Dr. Jonathan Behler takes us on a journey to understanding heaven as a place of boundless joy and contentment, where every teardrop is wiped away. We discuss the transformation of earthly emotions like sorrow and grief into divine love and how memories, regardless of their nature, will no longer evoke any pain but will be remembered as a part of our journey.

What does acceptance of Jesus as your savior and heaven have in common? A lot more than you might think! Join us as we explore the spiritual aspect of this heavenly realm, where accepting Jesus promises salvation and a life of glory devoid of tears and sorrow. This episode is guaranteed to open your hearts to the eternal love and grace of God, and inspire you to live your life in a way that reflects His glory. Tune in for an enlightening episode that promises to challenge your perception of life and the afterlife.

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If you live out of the US or not in Alabama, Virginia, or North Carolina, Dr. Jonathan Behler is an ordained minister and trained in pastoral counseling. If you are seeking pastoral counseling, please reach out as well!

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Imagine having a handle on your anger, not just controlling it but using it in a way that aligns with the teachings of the Bible. That's precisely what you'll learn in our thoughtful discussion about the profound significance of managing anger from a Biblical perspective. We delve into the powerful verse, "Be angry and sin not," and how it shapes our daily lives. We also unpack the story of Cain and Abel, demonstrating how the first murder in the Bible was an outcome of uncontrolled rage. Then, we touch on the theological aspect of God requiring blood for the remission of sins and how Abel's sacrifice foreshadows the ultimate sacrifice of Jesus Christ.

Our conversation doesn't stop at anger. Our focus shifts to the transformative power of embracing the mind of Christ. We stress the importance of leaning on God during difficult times and the potential for our hardships to evolve into a message of glory for our good. If you're struggling with anger, this episode is mainly for you, and we encourage you to consider seeking Christian therapy if needed. Joining us as Dr. J, a pastoral and clinical counselor, sharing clinical insights about the physical health risks of uncontrolled anger and the benefits of integrating Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) into treatment. This thought-provoking episode is one you shouldn't miss!

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*If you are searching for a clinical counselor and you live in Alabama, Virginia, or North Carolina, Dr. Jonathan Behler would be happy to see you as a client! He does all counseling virtually through a secure portal. He will also work with you on payments - don't let finances keep you from getting counseling!

If you live out of the US or not in Alabama, Virginia, or North Carolina, Dr. Jonathan Behler is an ordained minister and trained in pastoral counseling. If you are seeking pastoral counseling, please reach out as well!

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How much do you really know about love and narcissism? Strap in for an enlightening journey into the world of narcissists and their complex understanding of love. We unfold how they see relationships as ego-boosters, not as a platform for mutual love. You'll be surprised to learn how this skewed viewpoint can lead to many misconceptions about love and its true essence. We'll also touch on unique facts like the busiest day at Ellis Island and Japan's abundant vending machine culture. We delve into the profound effects of this distorted view of love on a child growing up in a family with a narcissistic parent.

Don't lose heart, as the second half of our discussion shines a light on hope for narcissists in relationships. Despite the intricate journey they often encounter, we assure you that miracles do happen, and change is possible. We urge those entangled with narcissists to seek professional assistance, as it can be a game-changer. Listen in as we examine the hurdles narcissists must overcome to understand and experience love truly. From issues with empathy to difficulties in understanding, the road to genuine love and care can be challenging for them. So, settle down with your favorite coffee or tea, get cozy, and let's navigate this thought-stirring conversation together.

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*If you are searching for a clinical counselor and you live in Alabama, Virginia, or North Carolina, Dr. Jonathan Behler would be happy to see you as a client! He does all counseling virtually through a secure portal. He will also work with you on payments - don't let finances keep you from getting counseling!

If you live out of the US or not in Alabama, Virginia, or North Carolina, Dr. Jonathan Behler is an ordained minister and trained in pastoral counseling. If you are seeking pastoral counseling, please reach out as well!

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Are we alone in the universe, or is there a possibility of life in distant galaxies? Prepare to challenge your presumptions as we take an entertaining, mind-bending ride through the enigma of extraterrestrial life. We'll also delve into some intriguing side topics, drawing back the curtain on the captivating life of Wally Amos, the talent behind famous celebrities such as Diana Ross, Sam Cook, and Marvin Gaye. Plus, who knew that the origin of something as commonplace as Spam could be so fascinating or that it would take a mere drop of water three whole months to traverse the mighty Mississippi River?

Ever wondered if the concept of 'aliens' could be parallel to the spiritual realm? Our discussion takes a thought-provoking direction as we contemplate the scriptures in Psalm 19 and Romans 1, investigating the profound relationship between the glory of God, the beauty of creation, and our worship. We'll weigh the cosmic implications of Adam's sin and Jesus’ sacrifice, culminating in a provocative question: If 'green men' exist, is there redemption for them? Brace yourselves for an engrossing and enlightening discussion.

As we wrap up our discussion, we tread into the intriguing world of conspiracy theories and their impact on faith and trust in God. Instead of succumbing to fear, we encourage listeners to focus on the reassuring truth that Jesus is always with us. End times theories of spiritual warfare that often ensnare Christian podcasters and YouTubers - we discuss them all. Tune in for this refreshingly unique conversation as we take you on a journey filled with spiritual insights, intriguing questions, and a pinch of humor. This episode is a must-listen, whether you're a believer, a skeptic, or simply looking for an engaging podcast.


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*If you are searching for a clinical counselor and you live in Alabama, Virginia, or North Carolina, Dr. Jonathan Behler would be happy to see you as a client! He does all counseling virtually through a secure portal. He will also work with you on payments - don't let finances keep you from getting counseling!

If you live out of the US or not in Alabama, Virginia, or North Carolina, Dr. Jonathan Behler is an ordained minister and trained in pastoral counseling. If you are seeking pastoral counseling, please reach out as well!

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Do you ever wonder about the incredible design of the human body or the origins of your favorite chocolate cake? Join us on this enlightening journey through the wonders of the cornea, the hard-hitting movie Sound of Freedom, and the unexpected Texan roots of the German chocolate cake. We even dive into the forgotten world of the first animated feature film L Apostol, crafted in Argentina in 1917.

Could love at first sight lead to more harm than good? Drawing from the Biblical narrative of Samson, we dig deep into his family dynamics and how they paved the way for his narcissistic and psychopathic tendencies. We reflect on the dangers of unequal partnerships, expressing the need for compatibility in maturity and faith when considering marriage. Don't miss this enlightening discussion on love, faith, and the potential pitfalls of unequal yoking.

Ever pondered how God can use our struggles to fulfill His purpose? We dissect Samson's marriage, temptations, and the role that humility and balance play in a successful marriage. Drawing parallels between God and a battlefield medic, we study how God used Samson's weaknesses and sinful desires to achieve His plans. We also delve into the symbolism of the honey in Samson's hands and its connection to the sharing of the gospel. Ending on a high note, we discuss how Samson transformed a mess into a powerful message of glory, emphasizing the importance of humility and balance in the journey towards success. Tune in for these profound discussions and more!

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*If you are searching for a clinical counselor and you live in Alabama, Virginia, or North Carolina, Dr. Jonathan Behler would be happy to see you as a client! He does all counseling virtually through a secure portal. He will also work with you on payments - don't let finances keep you from getting counseling!

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Has the spirit of the Antichrist infiltrated our world and the church? This burning question forms the backdrop of our enlightening conversation, where we decipher how this spirit is manifesting in various shapes and sizes. Alongside such a profound discussion, we'll also share some intriguing trivia - from the true origins of Chicago's 'Windy City' nickname to the surprising bulletproof properties of armadillos. Dive into a deep analysis of John 10:30-33, where Jesus proclaims his unity with the Father, and explore how this declaration fuels our understanding of the Spirit of Antichrist and relativism.

As we uncover the sinister dangers of channeling spiritual entities and the alarming rise of Satanism, expect to be rattled. We'll scrutinize the evolving influence of these dark forces on society and the church, particularly through Christian Yoga and false teachings. But fear not, our discussion isn't all about doom and gloom. We shed light on the power of holiness and the exaltation of Jesus as the ultimate counterforce to these disturbing trends. Recognize the encouraging truth of God's transformative love, which can turn our mess into a powerful message. We wrap up by emphasizing the blessed hope we have in Jesus Christ, encouraging listeners to not fear the signs of the times but to find comfort in the unwavering love of our Savior.

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*If you are searching for a clinical counselor and you live in Alabama, Virginia, or North Carolina, Dr. Jonathan Behler would be happy to see you as a client! He does all counseling virtually through a secure portal. He will also work with you on payments - don't let finances keep you from getting counseling!

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Ever wondered why dealing with narcissists feels like a draining tug-of-war? We're unraveling this complex knot for you, giving you insights into why treating them the way they treat you often escalates the conflict and becomes an emotional drain. We highlight a crucial aspect you need to remember: narcissists thrive on conflict and drama. By responding in kind, you might only be fuelling their ego and giving them a chance to manipulate and gaslight their way to looking good.

But we don't stop at just laying out the problem. We take a leap further and delve into a broader perspective, looking at the surge of narcissism in our self-centered society. However, there's a silver lining in our discussion - faith in Jesus. We emphasize how faith can be a navigation tool to deal with narcissists. Instead of mirroring their behavior and compromising your values, faith can guide you to respond in a way that not only preserves your integrity but also transforms the situation into a message of glory and good. So, come join us in this enlightening discussion and discover how to handle narcissists without losing yourself in the process.

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*If you are searching for a clinical counselor and you live in Alabama, Virginia, or North Carolina, Dr. Jonathan Behler would be happy to see you as a client! He does all counseling virtually through a secure portal. He will also work with you on payments - don't let finances keep you from getting counseling!

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Did you know that in Canada, an apology isn't considered an admission of guilt? Or that a Pizzy Bear is the unique offspring of a Polar Bear and a Grizzly Bear? We bring in these facts as an ice-breaker before discussing more serious issues. Our hearts have been heavy with worry after a car accident involving our daughter, yet this incident has given us more insight into the value of life and the complexity of human interactions. The main focus, however, is a deep dive into the maze of dysfunctional family roles, with an intriguing look at the figure of biblical Eli as an enabler.

As we journey further into the labyrinth of family dynamics, we'll introduce you to an array of personalities that emerge in such environments, from the explorers to the golden child, and from the lost child to the manipulator. We delve into the emotional underpinnings of these roles, lifting the veil off their connection to self-esteem and mental health. You might also find it interesting when we touch upon a rather unique story- a couple who were denied their choice of a name for their baby. Brace yourselves as we dissect the nuances of familial bonds and their profound impact on shaping our lives. A potent mix of psychology, biblical interpretation, and real-life stories awaits you in this episode.

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*If you are searching for a clinical counselor and you live in Alabama, Virginia, or North Carolina, Dr. Jonathan Behler would be happy to see you as a client! He does all counseling virtually through a secure portal. He will also work with you on payments - don't let finances keep you from getting counseling!

If you live out of the US or not in Alabama, Virginia, or North Carolina, Dr. Jonathan Behler is an ordained minister and trained in pastoral counseling. If you are seeking pastoral counseling, please reach out as well!

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