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Ever wondered why closure seems elusive when dealing with narcissists in relationships? Well, you're not alone. Join us, Dr. Marla Behler and Dr. Jonathan Behler, as we dive into the perplexing world of narcissism, highlighting why closure remains an uphill task. From lack of empathy to fear of vulnerability and aggressive control and manipulation tactics, we unpack how these tendencies can keep one tethered to a toxic relationship, highlighting the fine line between mild narcissistic traits and a severe narcissistic personality disorder.

Shifting gears, we delve into the transformative power of humility and the importance of knowing one's identity in Christ. Drawing wisdom from 2 Timothy 3 and 1 Peter 5, we shed light on God's disdain for pride and how honor is birthed from humility. We tackle how our inherent sinful nature can birth self-centeredness, especially when dealing with a narcissist, and share helpful tools such as discipline, boundaries, communication, and distance to navigate such relationships. Lastly, we emphasize the necessity of understanding an individual's environment before committing to them. So tune in, and let's together change our perceptions and handle relationships more effectively.

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If you live out of the US or not in Alabama, Virginia, or North Carolina, Dr. Jonathan Behler is an ordained minister and trained in pastoral counseling. If you are seeking pastoral counseling, please reach out as well!

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Are you feeling the weight of anxiety? Ever wondered how it intersects with your Christian faith? We've got you covered. In our enlightening discussion, we touch base on anxiety's prevalence – particularly in the wake of COVID-19. Guess what? Even biblical stalwarts like Moses, Elijah, and Jeremiah experienced anxiety! It's intriguing, but God designed us with the fight or flight mechanism, a brilliant safeguard that, despite its negative perception, proves beneficial in specific scenarios.

But, why does God let us undergo such suffering and anxiety? Here's where it gets interesting: Matthew 6:25-34. It turns out, such experiences can translate to His glory and our good! Join us as we share actionable ways to find Jesus in our anxious moments and the importance of seeking help – be it from a doctor, friends, or a therapist. And yes, we do address the often-shunned topic of anxiety medication, emphasizing that it doesn't render anyone less Christian. So gear up for an enlightening journey through the complexities of anxiety in our Christian life.

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*If you are searching for a clinical counselor and you live in Alabama, Virginia, or North Carolina, Dr. Jonathan Behler would be happy to see you as a client! He does all counseling virtually through a secure portal. He will also work with you on payments - don't let finances keep you from getting counseling!

If you live out of the US or not in Alabama, Virginia, or North Carolina, Dr. Jonathan Behler is an ordained minister and trained in pastoral counseling. If you are seeking pastoral counseling, please reach out as well!

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Join Dr. Jonathan Beeler and  Dr. Marla Behler as we peel back the layers of our personal narrative, a unique love story that began in 1996, tested by the trials of anxiety. Have you ever felt the mental health stigma weighs heavily on your shoulders? We did, but we found strength in each other, learning to navigate these waters with resilience, faith, and love.

Stepping off our honeymoon bliss, we were thrown into the deep end when I had to be rushed to the hospital due to a severe panic attack. This marked the beginning of our journey with mental health, which included a terrifying period of withdrawal when Jonathan had to come off his prescribed medication. It wasn't easy. There were battles we faced, both financial and emotional. But trust us when we say it shaped us, strengthened our marriage, and transformed us in ways we never imagined. Now, we want to share our wisdom and experiences, hoping to shed light and lend a hand to those dealing with similar struggles. Tune in, listen to our story, and see how love and support can help you overcome even the toughest of life's trials.

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*If you are searching for a clinical counselor and you live in Alabama, Virginia, or North Carolina, Dr. Jonathan Behler would be happy to see you as a client! He does all counseling virtually through a secure portal. He will also work with you on payments - don't let finances keep you from getting counseling!

If you live out of the US or not in Alabama, Virginia, or North Carolina, Dr. Jonathan Behler is an ordained minister and trained in pastoral counseling. If you are seeking pastoral counseling, please reach out as well!

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Ever walk through a storm and come out the other side feeling more alive, more connected to something greater than you? That's the power of brokenness we're exploring today. On a journey from the rainy landscapes of Mobile, Alabama to the sun-drenched vistas of Phoenix, Arizona, we're taking a metaphorical road trip through the trials and joys that life throws at us. From fun facts about sloths and dolphins to visiting Galapagos and discussing that surprising wasabi paste, we're sharing stories, laughter, and insights that reveal the beauty and strength in brokenness.

Have you ever felt overwhelmed by grief and loss, only to find a deeper faith and peace on the other side? Through the prism of the biblical story of Job, we gain a fresh perspective on how trials can deepen our relationship with God. We also reflect on the profound story of Horatio Spafford, who, in the face of unimaginable loss, penned a timeless hymn that has comforted generations. His story, like ours, reveals that even in our most broken moments, God can draw us closer to Him, bringing glory and good out of our stories. So, get ready for a deep dive into the divine mystery of brokenness and the peace it can bring.

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*If you are searching for a clinical counselor and you live in Alabama, Virginia, or North Carolina, Dr. Jonathan Behler would be happy to see you as a client! He does all counseling virtually through a secure portal. He will also work with you on payments - don't let finances keep you from getting counseling!

If you live out of the US or not in Alabama, Virginia, or North Carolina, Dr. Jonathan Behler is an ordained minister and trained in pastoral counseling. If you are seeking pastoral counseling, please reach out as well!

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Ever been sunburnt so badly you blacked out? Well, you're not alone. Come along as we share a hilarious tale of a sun-soaked trip to San Diego where a day under the sun left Marla and her sister questioning their whereabouts. We'll also discover some intriguing trivia, like the peculiar physiology of a shrimp and the accidental invention of the ever-refreshing popsicle. Oh, and let's not forget about the surprising science behind why warm showers can stimulate creative thinking. So, stock up on those popsicles, crank up your shower's heat, and prepare for a laughter-filled journey into the realm of fascinating facts and funny anecdotes.

Now, let's take a turn towards the more profound. Have you ever looked at the intricate order of the universe and wondered if it's all just random happenstance or the work of an intelligent Creator? Together, we'll delve into the awe-inspiring details of creation, from the meticulous laws of physics to the intricate complexity of biological systems. We'll marvel at the human body's astounding capabilities, from the nose's ability to detect over a trillion smells to the eye's capacity to discern over 10 million colors. And then, we'll reflect on the symbol of the cross - a stark image of death, now representing ultimate love and sacrifice. So gear up for a thought-provoking conversation about the divine intricacies of our world, the power of love, and the essence of redemption.

You can contact Dr. Jonathan and Dr. Marla Behler:

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*If you are searching for a clinical counselor and you live in Alabama, Virginia, or North Carolina, Dr. Jonathan Behler would be happy to see you as a client! He does all counseling virtually through a secure portal. He will also work with you on payments - don't let finances keep you from getting counseling!

If you live out of the US or not in Alabama, Virginia, or North Carolina, Dr. Jonathan Behler is an ordained minister and trained in pastoral counseling. If you are seeking pastoral counseling, please reach out as well!

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Have you ever wondered how the Eiffel Tower gets taller in summer or why human teeth are the only body part that can't self-heal? Dive into this riveting new episode where we unpack these fascinating trivia and navigate the life of an intriguing biblical character, Samson. We'll explore his unfulfilled potential, his place in the Hall of Faith in Hebrews 11, and the societal pressures around barrenness in his time. Also, get ready for a surprising revelation about the Sesame Street characters, Bert and Ernie.

In the second part of our episode, we delve into the divine messages Manoah and his wife received from an angel. We discuss the significance of the angel's ascension amidst flames, a representation of God's fiery presence. Expect insightful interpretations on Samson's birth and encounters with God, and how they relay powerful messages of hope and transformation amidst despair. Remember, God can turn our mess into a message for His glory and our good. This episode promises a mix of intriguing trivia and profound biblical exploration, so brace yourselves for an enlightening journey.

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*If you are searching for a clinical counselor and you live in Alabama, Virginia, or North Carolina, Dr. Jonathan Behler would be happy to see you as a client! He does all counseling virtually through a secure portal. He will also work with you on payments - don't let finances keep you from getting counseling!

If you live out of the US or not in Alabama, Virginia, or North Carolina, Dr. Jonathan Behler is an ordained minister and trained in pastoral counseling. If you are seeking pastoral counseling, please reach out as well!

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As we navigate the alarming impact of the porn industry, we discover shocking statistics, such as the fact that over 40 million Americans regularly visit porn sites. This industry generates more revenue than the NFL, NBA, and MLB combined, and its effects are felt in nearly half of all families. As we share our personal struggles with technology, we ask for your prayers as we face this spiritual warfare.

Unmasking the spiritual warfare that surrounds us daily, we delve into the devil's schemes and how to arm ourselves with God's protective armor. Our conversation takes a turn into the dark corners of Hollywood, unearthing themes of depravity and immorality. Despite this, we affirm our commitment to loving our students, regardless of their chosen identities. We examine the neuroscience behind porn addiction, revealing how it can transform the body into an enemy.

Finally, we unpack the value of Christian biblical counseling in overcoming porn addiction. The challenge is as formidable as any other addiction, but we stress that seeking help from a Christian counselor is crucial. We reflect on how God can use this addiction to glorify His name, reminding us that temptations will always be present. So grab your headphones (but watch out for bacteria)  and join us on this mind-opening journey.

You can contact Dr. Jonathan and Dr. Marla Behler:

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*If you are searching for a clinical counselor and you live in Alabama, Virginia, or North Carolina, Dr. Jonathan Behler would be happy to see you as a client! He does all counseling virtually through a secure portal. He will also work with you on payments - don't let finances keep you from getting counseling!

If you live out of the US or not in Alabama, Virginia, or North Carolina, Dr. Jonathan Behler is an ordained minister and trained in pastoral counseling. If you are seeking pastoral counseling, please reach out as well!

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Ever wondered why depression is so complex and misunderstood? Why can’t people just snap out of it? Welcome to an enlightening journey led by us, Dr Marla Behler and Dr Jonathan Behler, where we aim to answer these questions and more. We uncover the intricate relationship between biological factors such as brain structure, genetic predisposition, and neurotransmitter imbalances and how these elements can trigger depression. This isn't just another conversation; it's a deep exploration into the science behind one of the most common yet misunderstood mental health conditions.

The tapestry of depression doesn't stop there. We dive deeper into the psychological and environmental influences that can act as catalysts. From self-esteem issues to trauma, major life events, and even the ongoing pandemic, we dissect how these factors can cause or exacerbate depression. We also touch on how faith can be a lifeline in managing depression, emphasizing the importance of being unafraid to express emotions, seeking timely intervention, and leaning on spiritual practices. If you're living with depression, know someone who is, or just want to better grasp this condition, this episode promises to be a valuable and insightful experience.

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*If you are searching for a clinical counselor and you live in Alabama, Virginia, or North Carolina, Dr. Jonathan Behler would be happy to see you as a client! He does all counseling virtually through a secure portal. He will also work with you on payments - don't let finances keep you from getting counseling!

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What if the misfits of society were the ones chosen to lead us? This episode leads us in an enlightening exploration of Jephthah, a biblical underdog whose life and leadership challenge our modern perceptions of power and purpose. We plunge into an in-depth discussion of Jephthah's story, drawing fascinating parallels to our world today — revealing the transformative power of the outcast and the strength found in weakness.

We also unravel Jephthah's extraordinary negotiation skills with the King of the Ammonites, emphasizing the crucial role of education and scripture understanding in leadership. We establish fascinating links between  Jephthah's peacemaking and Jesus, drawing timeless relevance to today's persistent land conflicts. Our conversation also revolves around the rash vow Jephthah made to God, underscoring the importance of aligning ourselves with God's will rather than attempting to manipulate His power.

Finally, we reflect on Jephthah's journey, focusing on his human flaws and how God, nevertheless, used him to fulfill His grand plan. We consider the implications of Leviticus 18 and Deuteronomy 12, highlighting warnings against the worship of false gods and the tradition of young Jewish women commemorating Jephthah's daughter's vow. Join us as we journey through the life of an outcast turned leader, discovering powerful reminders of God's capacity to use anyone, regardless of their imperfections, to execute His greater purpose. Be ready to be challenged, enlightened, and inspired.

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*If you are searching for a clinical counselor and you live in Alabama, Virginia, or North Carolina, Dr. Jonathan Behler would be happy to see you as a client! He does all counseling virtually through a secure portal. He will also work with you on payments - don't let finances keep you from getting counseling!

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Get ready to uncover the profound influence of AI and technology on our society and culture with our guest, Dr. C. Ben Mitchell, esteemed author and professor of ethics. Your understanding of the digital world we inhabit will be deepened as we explore its potential to fulfill the creation mandate and the risks tied with its autonomy.

Questioning the rise of artificial intelligence, we ask, are we being seduced by the tantalizing temptation of efficiency that AI offers? Taking a historical perspective, we explore how technology has shaped societies past and present, from the 18th-century Luddite movement to the tech choices of the Amish community. We also broach the fascinating idea of using AI for tasks like sermon preparation, emphasizing the importance of examining our intentions and the need for checks and balances in our use of technology.

In a riveting finale, we ponder our future in an AI-dominated world. Will our dignity be compromised, or can we retain a clear boundary between human and artificial intelligence? We discuss the prospect of uploading consciousness into a neural network, drawing insights from books like Ray Kurzweil's 'The Singularity' and John Lennox's '2084: AI and the Future of Humanity. This conversation takes us on an exploration of AI, technology, and their correlation with Bible prophecy that you can't afford to miss. Tune in to this insightful episode of Grace and the Shadows.

Click here to learn more about Dr. C. Ben Mitchell.

Check out his books:
How Do We Live in a Digital World (Lexham, 2021)
Ethics and Moral Reasoning (Crossway, 2013)
Christian Bioethics: A Guide for Pastors, Health Care Professionals, and Families (B&H, 2014)

You can contact Dr. Jonathan and Dr. Marla Behler:

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*If you are searching for a clinical counselor and you live in Alabama, Virginia, or North Carolina, Dr. Jonathan Behler would be happy to see you as a client! He does all counseling virtually through a secure portal. He will also work with you on payments - don't let finances keep you from getting counseling!

If you live out of the US or not in Alabama, Virginia, or North Carolina, Dr. Jonathan Behler is an ordained minister and trained in pastoral counseling. If you are seeking pastoral counseling, please reach out as well!

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