Great Date Guy

Great Date Guy

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Great Date Guy episodes

  • 167 - How to go from Scrub to Seductive

    In this episode:

    1. The no. 1 reason you aren't getting better with women.

    2. Why most men get stuck settling for less and how to stop the cycle.

    3. How to know if you're thinking like a boy vs. thinking like a man.

    4. The biggest thing you need to change today if you're still taking rejection personally.

    5. Why self compassion is one of the most, if not THE most important skill you can learn on your dating journey.

    6. Two little habits that will immediately improve your dating results.

    52 min
  • 166 - Blow Her Mind - 5 Rules For Better, Hotter, and MORE Sex

    In this episode...

    • She wants sex! We talk about how to create conversations and environments that help her have sex with YOU.
    • What to do when sex starts to feel like WORK and STRESS
    • Why your fear of rejection is running the show in the bedroom (in the worst possible way) and how to erase it
    • How to create the kind of juicy emotional intimacy that women crave
    • The ONLY mindset that will consistently give way to the kind of juicy sweaty ravishing sex that you both want
    • Why you need to slow down during sex (95% of men get this wrong and women hate it)
    • Sexual tension - what it is, and how to create it
    • And obviously more...

      • If you're looking to connect with Scott for coaching, find him at www.scottpagliaccio.com

      40 min
    • 165 - Ten Commandments For Dating 10s

      You want to date out of your league? This is everything I've learned in the past month about attracting and dating gorgeous women. Once you've listened to this podcast you will understand...

      • The optimal way to structure your profile
      • Absolute dos and don'ts when writing your "about me"
      • The types of women to absolutely avoid when you're swiping online
      • How women assess men for dating and relationship worthiness
      • How to cultivate the REQUIRED mindset to date someone very attractive
      • The trick to stopping when you keep obsessing over a girl
      • How to and why you need to build sexual tension
      • Why ONLY using pro photos for your dating shots is a mistake
      • One huge difference between online dating "game" vs. in-person "game"
      • How to stop being your own worst enemy 
      • And a sh*tton more.

        • This is a solo episode. Scott will be rejoining us next week.

        If you want to connect with us, you hit up www.greatdateguy.com
        If you want to work with Scott, visit www.scottpagliaccio.com

        Don't forget to subscribe and rate us if you got something out of this ep.

        This podcast features profanity, strong opinions, and a male narrative.
        If you don't like it, GTFO.

        40 min
      • 164 - This is why she's crap at texting you back

        Welcome to the horror show that is online dating. Today we cover off on why so many women seem to be so damned skittish and unavailable (there's actually a good reason for that. Surprised? I was, too). And maybe more importantly, what we can do about that. If you're tired of feeling rejected, unattractive, or just plain resigned about your online dating experience, dis one for you.

        27 min
      • 163 - Attractive Leadership - Here's Where Most Men F*ck Up

        By now you've probably had it drilled into your skull that as a man you need to be more dominant in the bedroom, boardroom, and apparently everywhere else you're expected to show up. While dominance is an important thing, most experts never bother explaining that dominance is what naturally happens when someone is an effective leader. People surrender their power to you.

        Now there are MANY ways to take this on, but fair warning, many of them are about just trying to force your will on other people through fear and trickery. Fuck that noise. Not only is it unattractive, it will get you in some deep sh*t in the long run. In this ep, Scott and I walk you through what attractive leadership looks like, the skills it requires, how to train those specific skills, and how it looks like to apply them to dating life, business, and beyond.

        This is not a Buzzfeed article. This is about setting you up to win the long game, not give you a small fistful of "life hacks" / band-aid solutions that will fall apart at the first sign of challenge.

        47 min
      • 162 - A Therapist Teaches Us How To Date Better
        If you've ever wanted to talk to someone absolutely gorgeous only to choke and have the whole thing go down in flames moments later...this is for you. In this episode...
        Mary walks us through how to stop self sabotaging (and why it happens) when the stakes are high...
        A quick, 3 minute exercise to stop approach anxiety and other strong, unpleasant emotions...
        Why you should be paying more attention to your own body, especially when with someone you're interested in...
        Why women don't like being around men who feel "misaligned" (and what that means)
        And a whole lot more
        Who is Mary-Lucinda Palmieri?
        I am a licensed clinical social worker that works in private practice in Buffalo, NY. I am formally trained in evidence based practices: trauma focused cognitive behavioral therapy, aka TF-CBT, Dialectical Behavioral Therapy, also known as DBT, and currently in the process of being trained in Eye movement desensitization reprocessing trauma model, also known as EMDR.
        You can reach her at...
        https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists/mary-lucinda-palmieri-buffalo-ny/878987
        Instagram.com/marylupalmieri
        Instagram.com/free2be_dancecommunity
        43 min
      • 161 - How to Break up Without Living to Regret It

        Today we talk about breaking up with honor. In a world of ghosting and silent resentment, this is how you show up as a goddamn warrior. This is how you break up without living to regret it - AND we'll show you how to do it with the utmost compassion and love for yourself, the other person, and the relationship you shared.

        Inside...

        1. What to do when things get too spicy and you're ready to snap?
        2. How to become emotionally bulletproof and non-reactive.
        3. The 5 minute practice anyone can learn to immediately begin quenching reactivity.
        4. How to fully close the door when you keep coming back and getting hurt again and again.
        5. The blueprint to breaking up with honor and examples of how it's done.

          6. For those of you who want a refresher on the VEVOOM method...

          • VOLUME - how loud are my emotions. 1-10?
          • EMOTION - what emotion am I feeling?
          • VIBRATION - where do I feel this emotion?
          • OKAY TO OBSERVE - can I give myself permission to experience this fully?
          • METHOD - what can I use to recover?
            • 45 min
          • 160 - Conflict Breaker: A 45 Min Guide On Keeping Your Cool

            In this episode, we share the exact step by step method to become a conflict breaker. Someone who can halt big ugly fights and confrontation in their tracks - before they cross the point of no return. This is among one of the most attractive skills you can ever learn as a romantic partner.

            Today we share…

            • 3 skills that will immediately de-escalate conflict
            • The one thing you absolutely need to avoid during conflict if you want to keep your romantic partner
            • Two practices you can start TODAY to become bulletproof when she starts to bring the heat.

              • Scott’s VEVOOM system:

              VOLUME - how loud are my emotions. 1-10?

              EMOTION - what emotion am I feeling?

              VIBRATION - where do I feel this emotion?

              OKAY TO OBSERVE - can I give myself permission to experience this fully?

              METHOD - what can I use to recover?

              47 min
            • 159 - She Doesn't Actually Want a Badboy, Here's Why...

              I think by now, most men have learned that being told they're *nice* is the kiss of death. It's almost worse than being told you aren't tall enough...

              But what does it actually mean to be a "nice guy" and is being a bad boy actually any better? As ye olde adage goes, "women love a**holes"...but is that actually even true?

              In this episode, we talk about the pros and cons of each approach, how to recover from being a nice guy without turning into an insufferable douche, and how to walk the secret third path of the Laughing Warrior to become instinctively and effortlessly attractive to women.

              53 min
            • 158 - Men, when life is intent on putting you down...STOP! Do this.

              This episode is for you if…

              Life feels like Groundhog Day. The problems and challenges won’t stop coming, and worst of all, it feels like they’re on repeat. You keep dating the same horrible people. You keep getting steamrolled or taken advantage of at work. You keep trying to start a business and they just keep on failing.

              By the time you finish, you’ll get…

              • Two foolproof approaches to breaking the cycle of pain
              • The fastest way to go from thinking like a boy to thinking like a man (and why it matters more than you think)
              • The one and only true key to success (80% of people have got it completely wrong...)
              • Why most people fail when they try to change their life circumstances
              • And how to make yourself insanely attractive with the Warrior Mindset

                • If you're interested in connecting more with Scott, you can find him at...

                https://www.scottpagliaccio.com/
                https://www.instagram.com/scottpags/?hl=en

                42 min

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              How to find love even if you're the least social human on earth. Join me in learning how to date out of your league and find success...without needing to be a confident extrovert. Wannabe PUAs and Alpha bros, GTFO. This isn't for you.