Grief Heals

Lisa and Eric re-record an episode on forgiveness because of the poor sound quality in the former episode. We discuss what forgiveness is and is not, the difference between forgiveness and reconciliation, and how forgiveness relates to grief.

Lisa and Eric discuss the fifth gate in Francis Weller's Five Gates of Grief, Ancestral Grief. The discussion turns on how unprocessed grief can be inherited both personally and socially.

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Lisa and Eric discuss Gate 4 in Francis Weller's five gates of grief: what we expected but did not receive. In this course of this, they discuss expectations, judgement and shame in light of grief and loss.

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Taking a short diversion, Lisa and Eric forage into their shared evangelical past, as well as Eric's experience in Eastern Orthodoxy, to ask questions about God's transcendence and immanence, apophatic and cataphatic theology, and grief as a gateway to healing. In the course of this, they discuss intellect, Calvinism, and their personal experiences.

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Lisa and Eric discuss the sorrows of the world as the third gate of grief according to Francis Weller. The conversation covers grief as love, a grief-phobic culture in the context of late capitalism, and a few reasons why people might be resistant to grief when suffering loss.

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Lisa and Eric discuss the second Gate of Grief according to Francis Weller, some consequences of neglect in childhood, and the power of attention.

Lisa and Eric discuss the first Gate of Grief, that we inevitably lose all the people and things that we love. In the course of this, Lisa talks about grief as the arbiter of love, as well as a psychopomp, and how people tend to evade or downplay grief in a death-phobic and grief-phobic culture.

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Lisa talks with Eric about ways to define grief in a consumerist society that negates the experience of loss and grief. The Five Gateways of Grief as explicated by Francis Weller is used as a springboard. The two discuss the experience of grief as it relates to capitalism, religion, derealization and how in contrast to these variables grief can be a doorway into authenticity.