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My boyfriend

has a really bad habit of wearing the same thing multiple days in a row. He

doesn't think there is anything wrong with this but after 2 or 3 days of

wearing the same thing, it starts to get a bit much. I don't know how they

don't smell worse. He has plenty of clothes too, he just seems to gravitate

towards the same thing. He once admitted to wearing the same pair of jeans

without washing them for 3 weeks. He doesn't see an issue with this as long as

the smell doesn't become noticeable and that I am just too clean. He does do

laundry but it is infrequent. Am I being too clean or should he be switching

things up and doing laundry more. Thanks!

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I'm hoping

you guys and your listeners can help me. I'm getting married in August, and I

just found out something about one of my bridesmaids. This is an incredibly

touchy subject and i'm not really sure how to go about it. Luckily for me, she

lives out of state so I dont have to worry about her hearing this. My

friends mother just informed me that ever since she moved across the country

that she no longer shaves. When her mother asked if she forgot to shave she

just says "I don't shave anymore" and leaves it at that without

reason. My bridesmaids dresses are long, so honestly, I don't care if she

doesn't shave her legs. But how should I go about having her shave her armpits

for my wedding? I don't want to offend her, and since I haven't seen her

personally, there's no way I can just bring it up. I'm lost, and quite frankly,

in utter awh sipmly because I don't know what to do.

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It's the most

classic argument on the face of the earth, but my husband will not put the

toilet seat down. It’s been a major annoyance for as long as we’ve been

together – I ask him to put the toilet seat down, and he doesn’t. Like other

women, I’m sure, this has led to me falling in on more than one occasion.

Lately, he even says he shouldn’t have to put down the seat any more than I

should have to raise it up for him. Should he just be gentleman? Is this an outdated

request of women to make of men that we need to let go of? And finally, and

most importantly, I need ideas for how to get back at him for nearly falling

just the other day. What can I do to get him back? 

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At what

point do you expect your partner to stick up for you? My boyfriend (also the

father of my unborn child) was sending copies of our private text messages to

his mom. We got into a fight yesterday and he sent her stuff and was talking

about it with her. She's saying things like "this girl is crazy", and

"you need to pick your women better.” Now I understand that's her son so

she will be on his side automatically. But it upsets me that he said nothing to

her to defend me or correct her. His mother then will tell his sisters and then

I’m sure all of them will hate me. He has told me that his family didn't like

his ex because "she was crazy.” Now I’m wondering if he made her out to be

that way and that's why they see her that way. Am I wrong for being upset? I

feel like fights should be between him and I only. I know he's a mama's boy,

but how should I confront him about it? Because, here's the thing: I only know

he shared the messages with his mom because I was snooping on his phone last

night and saw the text messages. Any advice is welcome. 

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Hey, so I'm

not sure if this will make me seem jealous or possessive, or if it's totally

normal to feel like this, but I don't want my fiancé to have a bachelor party.

It's not that I don't want him hanging with his friends. I just don't want my

guy seeing, admiring, or being turned on by other naked women, and let's be

honest, that's what happens at a lot of bachelor parties. Can I ask him not to

have one, or do I just have to accept it? 

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I have a great chance to get my dream job. I'm pretty sure I can get it. It'll be a lot more money and great growth potential. It's the job I've always wanted with the company I've always wanted to work for. And openings in management don't come up very often. But, here's the thing. I'm 3 1/2 months pregnant, and I feel bad if I would get the job, then spring it on them that I'm soon going out on pregnancy leave. BUT, I also don't want to tell them because I'm sure they would give someone else MY job. What should I do?

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My wife and I just had our first child. It was a difficult delivery, and she was in labor forever. Finally, the doctor decided to perform a c-section. All worked out well, and we have a beautiful baby. There's just one problem. My job was to video the birth. A couple of my buddies showed up with a flask to help calm me down, and I had a little too much and eventually fell asleep while the Doctor performed the surgery. I woke up before she did, but I missed the video of the birth. Now we're home and happy, but it's just a matter of time before she asks to see the video. I can't believe she hasn't already. I know if I tell her the truth she will blow it out of proportion and I don't want to make her upset. I'm not the kind of guy who lies to his wife, but we all tell little lies sometimes and this feels like a good time. 

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I went on a

first date with a really hot guy I met online. It was going well, but about an

hour into the date, it was clear that he knew a lot about me, even where I

live, where I work and how much money I make. It turns out he works for a

credit company and has access to tons of personal information and he used it to

“study up” on me. I think it’s weird but most of my girlfriends say that if

THEY had access to that kind of info, they’d probably do the same thing. They

did agree with me that it’s somewhat odd but say he most likely was nervous and

just wanted to be prepared going into the date. What do you think? Dealbreaker

no matter what, confront him and talk about it, or just let it go?

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My husband and I have been married for four years and together for six. We have one daughter who's 2 years old. I've always wanted more kids than him, but I thought for sure he at least agreed to at two. I'm ready to have another now but he says that one is plenty and doesn't want any more. We've had multiple fights and I've told him how important it is to me. He. won't. budge. My friends have said to just give it time, and some say they've gone through the same thing, but I just don't see him changing his mind. My question is, and don't judge me, how wrong would it be for me to stop taking my birth control without telling him? And also, especially for the women in the audience, how many would do it anyway, regardless of whether or not they think it's wrong? I know he'd be happy once I was pregnant!

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