Grow'd Up

Grow'd Up

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Grow'd Up episodes

  • #52 The Pressure of Having Life Figured Out as an Adult

    In this episode of the Grow’d Up Podcast, I talk about the pressure of feeling like you should have life figured out by a certain age. I share personal reflections from childhood, the comparison we often feel with peers in our twenties, and the moment that made me realize that even people with decades of life experience are still learning.

    This episode also explores ways to shift your perspective:

    • Understanding that nobody truly has everything figured out
    • Focusing on what you want instead of comparing yourself to others
    • Taking proactive steps toward your goals
    • Avoiding assumptions about other people’s success
    • Seeking fresh perspectives from people around you

    If you’ve ever felt like you’re falling behind in life, this conversation might help you see things differently.

    Because adulthood isn’t about having everything figured out — it’s about continuing to learn.

    51 min
  • #51 Why Finding Your Purpose Can Feel Paralyzing

    In this episode of Grow'd Up, I explore the idea of purpose — and why it might not be what we think it is.

    As a child, I dreamed of becoming a pediatric doctor. But after losing my sight, that dream changed, and I was forced to confront the concept of purpose for the first time.

    Now, as an adult, I’ve realized something surprising: chasing purpose can feel paralyzing. Even focusing on duty — being a good mom, wife, and responsible member of society — didn’t necessarily bring fulfillment.

    So what actually does?

    In this episode, I unpack:
    • Why the idea of purpose can overwhelm us
    • Why duty alone may not be enough
    • The three things humans naturally crave: community, shared values, and a worldview
    • How small daily moments of joy can anchor a meaningful life

    If you’ve ever felt lost, stuck, or unsure of your direction, this conversation is for you.

    Growed Up is where we compare childhood dreams to adult reality — and figure out how to grow through the difference.


    If you’d like to get in touch, drop me an email here:

    [email protected]

    About Fernannd’O:

    IG: @justfernanndo

    Produced by:

    Neon Studio

    Keep up with us on social media:

    Instagram: @growdup_podcast

    YouTube: @neonpodcasts

    https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCDBrJIy7cjqPcEGn20yBaXA

    www.neonbloom.co.za

     

    For business contact:

    [email protected]

    1 hr 5 min
  • #50 What @ReesaTeesa Teaches Us About Delusion | Grow’d Up Podcast
    This week we talk about the "Who The F@#$ Dif I Marry" saga by TikTok creator @ReesaTeesa.
    The idea is to dissect what went wrong and how to learn from
    her experience as this is something that many women go through.
    Hope you enjoy the episode!
     
    Watch:
    @AlekcisIwiye
    https://www.youtube.com/@AlekcisIwiye
    Who The F Did I Marry!? 10 important takeaways from this
    viral TikTok insane series
    https://youtu.be/MYWGqWG9NY4?si=ixm3Bm90NY5EJGs7
     
    If you’d like to get in touch, drop me an email here:
    About Fernannd’O:
    IG: @justfernanndo
    Produced by:
    Neon Bloom Productions Podcast Network
    Keep up with us on social media:
    Instagram: @growdup_podcast
    YouTube: @growdup
    https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCDBrJIy7cjqPcEGn20yBaXA
    www.neonbloom.co.za
     
    For business contact:
     
    More Podcasts:
    Grow’d Up w/ Fernannd’O
    https://open.spotify.com/show/7eM0iqiC8ZAKq8u2DvVBZz?si=BloPTnSYRQ6F0zwB8_Z_2g
     
    The Untanglement w/ Miss Franco & Fernannd’O
    https://open.spotify.com/show/1GLXHJnpleo8CA6AVAzO07?si=dFcFgChDQQ2MEs6ntS_Ceg
     
    Black Women Business w/ Thuli Mgwebile
    https://open.spotify.com/show/6JZa115f6Fc2J683QWPOvb
    55 min
  • #49 Life Update and How My Cousin Swindled Me

    I’m back!!!  It’s been

    a while and I missed you all.  In this
    episode I give you a quick update and share some childhood stories to get us
    back in the flow of growing up. 

    Hope you enjoy the episode!

     

    If you’d like to get in touch, drop me an email here:

    About Fernannd’O:

    IG: @justfernanndo

    Produced by:

    Neon Bloom Productions Podcast Network

    Keep up with us on social media:

    Instagram: @growdup_podcast

    YouTube: @growdup

    https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCDBrJIy7cjqPcEGn20yBaXA

    www.neonbloom.co.za

     

    For business contact:

     

    More Podcasts:

    Grow’d Up w/ Fernannd’O

    https://open.spotify.com/show/7eM0iqiC8ZAKq8u2DvVBZz?si=BloPTnSYRQ6F0zwB8_Z_2g

     

    The Untanglement w/ Miss Franco & Fernannd’O

    https://open.spotify.com/show/1GLXHJnpleo8CA6AVAzO07?si=dFcFgChDQQ2MEs6ntS_Ceg

     

    Black Women Business w/ Thuli Mgwebile

    https://open.spotify.com/show/6JZa115f6Fc2J683QWPOvb

    45 min
  • #48 Unleashing Your Focus: Mastering the Art of Concentration and Productivity

    In this captivating episode of [Podcast Name], we delve into

    the fascinating world of focus and concentration. Join us as we explore
    practical strategies and actionable steps to help you unlock your productivity
    and sharpen your ability to stay focused in a world filled with distractions.

    Drawing from personal experiences and real-life anecdotes,

    we discuss the challenges of maintaining focus and share invaluable insights
    gained from overcoming these obstacles. Discover the power of creating your own
    systems and techniques to enhance concentration, boost efficiency, and achieve
    your goals.

    Whether you're a student, professional, or someone looking

    to harness the power of focus in your daily life, this episode offers a
    treasure trove of practical advice and inspiration. Tune in and embrace the
    transformative journey of unleashing your focus, mastering concentration, and
    unleashing your full potential.

    If you’d like to get in touch, drop me an email here:

    About Fernannd’O:

    IG: @justfernanndo

    Produced by:

    Neon Bloom Productions Podcast Network

    Keep up with us on social media:

    Instagram: @growdup_podcast

    YouTube: @growdup

    https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCDBrJIy7cjqPcEGn20yBaXA

    www.neonbloom.co.za

     

    For business contact:

     

    More Podcasts:

    Grow’d Up w/ Fernannd’O

    https://open.spotify.com/show/7eM0iqiC8ZAKq8u2DvVBZz?si=BloPTnSYRQ6F0zwB8_Z_2g

     

    The Untanglement w/ Miss Franco & Fernannd’O

    https://open.spotify.com/show/1GLXHJnpleo8CA6AVAzO07?si=dFcFgChDQQ2MEs6ntS_Ceg

     

    Black Women Business w/ Thuli Mgwebile

    https://open.spotify.com/show/6JZa115f6Fc2J683QWPOvb

    59 min
  • #47 You are STILL Insecure: Confronting and Overcoming YOUR Hidden Insecurities

    In this powerful episode, we delve into the depths of our

    insecurities and uncover the hidden barriers that hold us back. Join us as we
    explore the journey of self-discovery and self-acceptance, shedding light on
    the insecurities we didn't even know we had. From childhood influences to
    unexpected life events, we unravel the layers that shape our perception of
    ourselves and guide us towards a path of healing and growth. Gain valuable
    insights and actionable steps to confront your insecurities head-on, empower
    yourself, and embrace a life of authenticity and self-assurance. Don't miss
    this transformative conversation that will inspire you to break free from the
    chains of self-doubt and step into your true potential.

    If you’d like to get in touch, drop me an email here:

    About Fernannd’O:

    IG: @justfernanndo

    Produced by:

    Neon Bloom Productions Podcast Network

    Keep up with us on social media:

    Instagram: @growdup_podcast

    YouTube: @growdup

    https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCDBrJIy7cjqPcEGn20yBaXA

    www.neonbloom.co.za

     

    For business contact:

     

    More Podcasts:

    Grow’d Up w/ Fernannd’O

    https://open.spotify.com/show/7eM0iqiC8ZAKq8u2DvVBZz?si=BloPTnSYRQ6F0zwB8_Z_2g

     

    The Untanglement w/ Miss Franco & Fernannd’O

    https://open.spotify.com/show/1GLXHJnpleo8CA6AVAzO07?si=dFcFgChDQQ2MEs6ntS_Ceg

     

    Black Women Business w/ Thuli Mgwebile

    https://open.spotify.com/show/6JZa115f6Fc2J683QWPOvb

    51 min
  • #46 Mastering Adversity: Strategies for Overcoming Challenges and Achieving Success

    In life, we often encounter unexpected challenges that can

    derail our plans and shake our confidence. In this empowering episode of the
    Grow'd Up Podcast, we delve deep into the art of overcoming adversity. Join us
    as we explore powerful strategies, inspiring stories, and practical tools that
    can help you navigate through tough times and emerge stronger than ever.
    Discover the mindset shifts, resilience-building techniques, and actionable
    steps to reclaim your power, refocus on your goals, and achieve remarkable
    success. Get ready to conquer obstacles, embrace change, and unleash your full
    potential. Tune in to this transformative episode and learn how to turn
    adversity into an opportunity for growth and triumph.

     

    If you’d like to get in touch, drop me an email here:

    About Fernannd’O:

    IG: @justfernanndo

    Produced by:

    Neon Bloom Productions Podcast Network

     

    Keep up with us on social media:

    Instagram: @growdup_podcast

    YouTube: @growdup

    https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCDBrJIy7cjqPcEGn20yBaXA

    www.neonbloom.co.za

     

    For business contact:

     

    More Podcasts:

    Grow’d Up w/ Fernannd’O

    https://open.spotify.com/show/7eM0iqiC8ZAKq8u2DvVBZz?si=BloPTnSYRQ6F0zwB8_Z_2g

     

    The Untanglement w/ Miss Franco & Fernannd’O

    https://open.spotify.com/show/1GLXHJnpleo8CA6AVAzO07?si=dFcFgChDQQ2MEs6ntS_Ceg

     

    Black Women Business w/ Thuli Mgwebile

    https://open.spotify.com/show/6JZa115f6Fc2J683QWPOvb

    49 min
  • #45 Mid-Year Goal Reset: Strategies and Tools to Achieve Your Yearly Objectives

    In this week’s episode of Grow'd Up, we dive into the art of

    mid-year goal resetting. As we reach the midpoint of the year, it's the perfect
    time to reassess, refocus, and reignite our drive towards achieving the goals
    we set at the beginning of the year. Discover effective strategies, practical
    tips, and powerful tools to help you realign your ambitions and make
    significant progress. Whether you're looking to enhance your personal growth,
    career advancement, or overall well-being, this episode will provide the
    guidance you need to thrive.

    If you’d like to get in touch, drop me an email here:

    About Fernannd’O:

    IG: @justfernanndo

    Produced by:

    Neon Bloom Productions Podcast Network

     

    Keep up with us on social media:

    Instagram: @growdup_podcast

    YouTube: @growdup

    https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCDBrJIy7cjqPcEGn20yBaXA

    www.neonbloom.co.za

     

    For business contact:

     

    More Podcasts:

    Grow’d Up w/ Fernannd’O

    https://open.spotify.com/show/7eM0iqiC8ZAKq8u2DvVBZz?si=BloPTnSYRQ6F0zwB8_Z_2g

     

    The Untanglement w/ Miss Franco & Fernannd’O

    https://open.spotify.com/show/1GLXHJnpleo8CA6AVAzO07?si=dFcFgChDQQ2MEs6ntS_Ceg

     

    Black Women Business w/ Thuli Mgwebile

    https://open.spotify.com/show/6JZa115f6Fc2J683QWPOvb

    43 min
  • #44 Motherhood and Masculinity: Raising Boys in a New Era

    In a world where traditional masculinity is being

    challenged, how can mothers raise their sons to be strong, sensitive, and
    empathetic individuals? Join us in this episode of Grow'd Up as we explore the
    complex landscape of motherhood and parenting a boy in today's society. From
    the pressures of toxic masculinity to the importance of emotional intelligence,
    we'll delve deep into the challenges and opportunities that come with raising
    sons in the current cultural climate. Whether you're a mother, father, or caregiver,
    you won't want to miss this thought-provoking conversation. So, tune in to
    episode #44 of Grow'd Up and let's talk about the future of masculinity!

    If you’d like to get in touch, drop me an email here:

    About Fernannd’O:

    IG: @justfernanndo

    Produced by:

    Neon Bloom Productions Podcast Network

     

    Keep up with us on social media:

    Instagram: @growdup_podcast

    YouTube: @growdup

    https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCDBrJIy7cjqPcEGn20yBaXA

    www.neonbloom.co.za

     

    For business contact:

     

    More Podcasts:

    Grow’d Up w/ Fernannd’O

    https://open.spotify.com/show/7eM0iqiC8ZAKq8u2DvVBZz?si=BloPTnSYRQ6F0zwB8_Z_2g

     

    The Untanglement w/ Miss Franco & Fernannd’O

    https://open.spotify.com/show/1GLXHJnpleo8CA6AVAzO07?si=dFcFgChDQQ2MEs6ntS_Ceg

     

    Black Women Business w/ Thuli Mgwebile

    https://open.spotify.com/show/6JZa115f6Fc2J683QWPOvb

    1 hr
  • #43 Breaking Down Negative Social Perceptions of Blindness: Understanding and Overcoming Harmful Stereotypes

    In this episode, we will explore the negative social

    constructed perceptions of blind people. Despite the progress that has been
    made in raising awareness about disabilities, blind people still face many
    stereotypes and misconceptions. We will discuss how these perceptions are
    formed, the impact they have on the lives of blind people, and how to challenge
    and change them. Our guest will be a blind advocate who has experienced
    firsthand the effects of these negative perceptions and has worked tirelessly
    to change them. Through candid conversations and insights, you'll gain a better
    understanding of how to support and empower blind individuals, and how to break
    down the barriers that prevent them from fully participating in society. Join
    us on this thought-provoking journey as we explore the perceptions of blindness
    and how to create a more inclusive world for all.

     

    If you’d like to get in touch, drop me an email here:

     

    About Fernannd’O:

    IG: @justfernanndo

    Produced by:

    Neon Bloom Productions Podcast Network

     

    Keep up with us on social media:

    Instagram: @growdup_podcast

    YouTube: @growdup

    https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCDBrJIy7cjqPcEGn20yBaXA

    www.neonbloom.co.za

     

    For business contact:

     

    More Podcasts:

    Grow’d Up w/ Fernannd’O

    https://open.spotify.com/show/7eM0iqiC8ZAKq8u2DvVBZz?si=BloPTnSYRQ6F0zwB8_Z_2g

     

    The Untanglement w/ Miss Franco & Fernannd’O

    https://open.spotify.com/show/1GLXHJnpleo8CA6AVAzO07?si=dFcFgChDQQ2MEs6ntS_Ceg

     

    Black Women Business w/ Thuli Mgwebile

    https://open.spotify.com/show/6JZa115f6Fc2J683QWPOvb

    52 min

About Grow'd Up

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Welcome to Grow'd Up with Fernannd'O, a podcast exploring life concepts and comparing them to childhood perceptions. Fernannd'O, a visually impaired host, empowers listeners to focus on…