Guys with Feelings

Guys with Feelings

By Jaemin Yi and Gabe RoseSociety & CultureHealth & FitnessReligion & SpiritualitySpirituality
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Guys with Feelings episodes

  • #27 - Starting Your Own Men's Group (w/ Brian Thompson)
    Jaemin and Gabe bring on Brian Thompson (founder of IRL Men) to break down how to start your very own men's group - and why it's such a damn good idea!
    We cover a TON of territory in this episode, including: how men's groups bring greater intimacy to all your relationships, how to get bro's to talk about their feelings, and whether or not you should get your therapist's name tattooed on your arm.
    Learn more about Brian's men's groups at: [IRL Men](https://www.irlmen.com/)
    Check out Brian's therapy radio show/podcast: [Radical Advice](https://www.radicaladviceshow.com/)
    **Mentioned:**
    - [A Circle of Men](https://www.amazon.com/Circle-Men-Original-September-Chapters/dp/0974489085/) by Bill Kauth
    57 min
  • #26 - Ketamine Therapy: A New Hope for Treating Depression? (w/ Sharon Avesar)
    Jaemin and Gabe welcome Sharon Avesar (integrative therapist) to talk about her work using ketamine, a controversial club drug, alongside therapy to quickly and effectively treat severe cases of depression.
    We talk about the surprising breakthroughs Sharon has seen with her clients, why ketamine combined WITH therapy is so damn effective, the future of psychedelics for treating mental health, and also how attachment theory can be a gamechanger for men's romantic lives (as it was for Jaemin).
    Learn more about Sharon's clinic at: ketaminecollective.com
    ### Timestamps
    (7:06) Love Avoidance and Attachment Theory
    (16:35) Ketamine Assisted Psychotherapy
    **Mentioned:**
    - Washington Post article: [Onetime party drug hailed as miracle for treating severe depression](https://www.washingtonpost.com/national/health-science/a-one-time-party-drug-is-helping-people-with-deep-depression/2016/02/01/d3e73862-b490-11e5-a76a-0b5145e8679a_story.html?utm_term=.cd63e237fe9e)
    - Jaemin's post on Attachment Theory: [The Relationship Theory that Melted My Cold Heart](http://www.jaeminyi.com/relationship-theory-that-melted-my-cold-heart/)
    43 min
  • #25 - The Rise of the Asian Hunk
    In this special episode, Jaemin and Alan dive deep on something they've been waiting their ENTIRE lives for: The Rise of the Asian-American Hunk!
    The guys discuss how shittily Asian men have always been portrayed onscreen (silent, serious, and sexless) and how that's finally starting to change. They explore Jaemin's lifelong struggle with his Korean identity, the power of seeing yourself represented on-screen, and why Jet Li never got to kiss Aaliyah.
    ### **Find Us Online**
    [Gabe’s Twitter](https://twitter.com/gaberose)
    [Jaemin’s Twitter](https://twitter.com/jaemin_yi)
    [Alan's Twitter](https://twitter.com/alanai)
    – Jaemin’s latest post: [What Rap and Dirty Talk Have in Common](http://www.jaeminyi.com/rap-and-dirty-talk/)
    Music for the podcast: “As Colorful As Ever” by [Broke For Free](http://brokeforfree.com/).
    35 min
  • #24 - Monogomy Isn't Dead Yet (w/ Connor Moss)
    Jaemin and Gabe bring on Connor Moss (men's coach & therapist) to talk about a word that strikes fear into the hearts of men everywhere: COMMITMENT.
    We dive into the gifts of committed relationship, monogamy as a spiritual growth path, how a lot of guys are misusing polyamory, and why James Bond is a shitty role model.
    ### **Find Us Online**
    Connor Moss - [Men's Coaching](https://www.hconnormoss.com/)
    [Gabe’s Twitter](https://twitter.com/gaberose)
    [Jaemin’s Twitter](https://twitter.com/jaemin_yi)
    – Jaemin’s latest post: [Don't Call It Depression](http://www.jaeminyi.com/dont-call-it-depression/)
    Music for the podcast: “As Colorful As Ever” by [Broke For Free](http://brokeforfree.com/).
    31 min
  • #23 - Ghost Busters
    Today the guys tackle a topic that's afflicting millions of daters in our culture today: ghosting.
    Jaemin, Gabe, and Alan discuss what ghosting is, why it's affecting so many of us, how to STOP ghosting once and for all, and most importantly - what Drake thinks about all this.
    Have any ghosting stories or anti-ghosting maneuvers of your own? Share them with us at [email protected]
    25 min
  • #22 - Getting Mugged in Colombia (Live Story)
    This week we have a special episode for you:
    Jaemin tells a story live, at The Embassy Network, on how getting mugged in Colombia helped him find an authentic life...and Chamillionaire.
    You'll laugh, you'll cry, you'll wonder how you still know the lyrics to "Ridin' Dirty".
    **Mentioned:**
    Jaemin's [blog post](http://www.jaeminyi.com/mugged/) on getting mugged
    20 min
  • #21 - WTF Kanye?
    Kanye's back on a tweeting rampage and you know we had to talk about it!
    Jaemin and Gabe bring back Alan Ai for a deep dive into Kanye's latest string of controversial tweets on Trump, love, and scoopity poop.
    We debate whether Ye's causing damage, wasting everyone's time, or spreading empathy & love across the political divide. Is Yeezy the hero we need right now?
    **Mentioned:**
    [Kanye West's tweets on Trump](https://www.vox.com/culture/2018/4/25/17280922/kanye-west-donald-trump-tweets-kim-kardashian)
    [Ye vs. The People (lyrics)](https://genius.com/Kanye-west-ye-vs-the-people-lyrics)
    [The American Chopper Meme, Explained (Vox)](https://www.vox.com/2018/4/10/17207588/american-chopper-meme)
    39 min
  • #20 - The Power of Men's Work (w/ Enrico Moses)
    Jaemin and Gabe welcome Enrico Moses (entrepreneur, Multicultural Chair of The ManKind Project) to talk about the project and how the men's organization completely changed his life.
    We discuss the power of men's work, letting go of your fear of fucking up, discovering a new approach to parenting, getting in touch with your inner warrior (and lover and king), and more.
    ### **Mentioned:**
    [The Mankind Project](https://mankindproject.org/)
    [The Next Step Program](https://mkpusa.org/next-step/)
    [Woman Within](http://womanwithin.org/)
    [H.E.R. Weekend](https://herweekend.com/community/)
    ### **Find Us Online**
    [Enrico's Instagram](https://www.instagram.com/enricomoses/)
    - [Twitter](https://www.twitter.com/enricomoses)
    - [7 Days Theory blog](http://www.7daystheory.com/)
    [Gabe’s Twitter](https://twitter.com/gaberose)
    [Jaemin’s Twitter](https://twitter.com/jaemin_yi)
    – Jaemin’s latest post: [Karma is Real (Just Not How You Think)](http://www.jaeminyi.com/karma-is-real/)
    Music for the podcast: “As Colorful As Ever” by [Broke For Free](http://brokeforfree.com/).
    54 min
  • #19 - Quick Picks: Matchmaking, Earplugs, and Bojack Horseman (w/ Alan Ai)
    Jaemin and Gabe welcome back their resident culture expert and lawyer, Alan Ai, to do an all Quick Picks focused episode!
    Their recommendations include: matchmaking your friends, concert earplugs, date nights, Esther Perel, board games, and a cartoon about a talking horse.
    Send us thoughts, feedback, and Quick Picks of your own at [email protected]
    **Mentioned:**
    - [Bojack Horseman](https://www.netflix.com/title/70300800) (Netflix)
    - [Mating in Captivity](https://www.amazon.com/Mating-Captivity-Unlocking-Erotic-Intelligence/dp/0060753641/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1524106697&sr=8-1&keywords=mating+in+captivity) by Esther Perel
    - Esther Perel's podcast: [Where Should We Begin?](https://www.estherperel.com/podcast)
    - [Codenames](https://www.amazon.com/Czech-Games-00031CGE-Codenames/dp/B014Q1XX9S/ref=sr_1_2?s=toys-and-games&ie=UTF8&qid=1524106790&sr=1-2&keywords=codenames)
    - [T.I.M.E. Stories](https://www.amazon.com/Asmodee-TS01-TIME-Stories/dp/B013TRQLJO/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&qid=1524106800&sr=8-2&keywords=time+stories)
    - Concert earplugs ([Earasers](https://www.amazon.com/Earasers-HEM001-Musicians-Plugs-Medium/dp/B00E2D9HAA/ref=sr_1_1_a_it?ie=UTF8&qid=1524106630&sr=8-1&keywords=earasers) is the brand Jaemin uses)
    32 min
  • #18 - Roses & Thorns, an Honest Love Story (w/ Sara Rezvanpour Rose)
    Jaemin and Gabe welcome a very special guest - Gabe's wife, Sara Rezvanpour Rose. The two of them open up about their relationship: their strengths, struggles, and everything in-between.
    We discuss the joy of couples therapy, how breaking up saved their relationship, why community is a bedrock of their marriage, the importance of being "emotional detectives", and much more.
    ### **Find Us Online**
    [Sara's Instagram](https://www.instagram.com/sararezrose/)
    > – [The Jungalow (Instagram)](https://www.instagram.com/thejungalow/)
    [Gabe’s Twitter](https://twitter.com/gaberose)
    > – Gabe’s latest post: [We Have to Do This Right](http://www.gaberose.com/blog/how-the-democratic-party-may-be-hurting-the-metoo-movement)
    [Jaemin’s Twitter](https://twitter.com/jaemin_yi)
    > – Jaemin’s latest post: [Cry Like a Man](http://www.jaeminyi.com/cry-like-a-man/)
    Music for the podcast: “As Colorful As Ever” by [Broke For Free](http://brokeforfree.com/).
    1 hr 3 min

About Guys with Feelings

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Jaemin and Gabe are childhood friends whose lives went in radically different directions. Jaemin dove into spirituality, nomadism, and communal living - while Gabe organized political movements, read nerdy history books, and got married. Yet they’ve always been able to meet somewhere in the middle and learn from each other’s journeys.