It was challenging for Cynthia to come up with the title of her book. It was through realizing that parents were looking to be an ally to their children rather than an advisory.
Before you can make a change you have to figure out if you see them as a source of the problem or can you find a solution together and be an ally.
Cynthia has been helping parents for 27 years and has been a speaker for over 600 events, mostly at schools. Communication is important and does a parent know how to connect?
We talk about social media and parents trying to get their teenagers to stop being on their phones, yet the parents are not simulating that. "Everyone has to turn it in".
We share about how we transfer our own frustration about ourselves onto our children and Cynthia speaks to the age of development of children and how we expect them to be adults, yet in reality, they aren't and we need to build compassion. Parents have to look at what they think and do and how it impacts their children.
Cynthia is an educator and helps the parents. And only speaks to parents. And they are the ones that need the change. Our tendency as parents is to think the children need to change. However, the parents need to change. "What do I need to do different?" And "IF" is a threat. It's powerful when your language changes.
This in itself is a powerful episode for parents. A must listen to!!
Here are some important links to how to reach Cynthia and her free gift.
"Enjoy my gift of - 8 Dos and Don’ts of Parenting" -https://ally-parenting.com/8dos
[email protected]
https://www.bridges2understanding.com
Book link: https://bit.ly/Ally-Parenting
https://linkedin.com/in/cynthiajklein/
More about Cynthia:
Family Happiness Expert and Parenting Coach Cynthia Klein’s passion is to create world peace by first creating peace within each family. As the author of Ally Parenting, she has created a unique formula for parents to transform conflict into cooperation. For more than 27 years, she has spoken in person at hundreds of schools and organizations, successfully coached parents of 5- to 25-year-olds, and taught numerous online courses based on her highly effective Ally Parenting approach. She earned a Child Psychology Degree at U.C. Berkeley, taught elementary school, and is certified in adult education and many parenting education programs.
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