Happily Whatever After - Tips & Tales for Relationships With Karan And Shokhi

Do you have little love rituals with your partner? They can be something as simple as morning coffee /tea together. Greeting your partner with a kiss at the end of the day? Morning cuddles before you get out of bed? A comfort show that you binge together while being a couch potato! Every couple has their own versions of rituals. These kinds of small gestures will help you in many ways-

1. Building trust that comes from following a regular routine

2. Make your bond stronger and deepen your connection

3. Turn towards each other for help in every way

In this episode we share our little rituals, feel free to make your own list or even copy our love bible and use it to come together again and again! These rituals made us bounce back from our bad days and helped us find our way back to each other. There were a lot of times we completely forgot about such rituals but we are here to tell you our mistakes so that you can learn from them.

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What happens when a couple has more bad days than happy days even before they complete 1st year of marriage? What happens when you know there are no personality issues in your spouse but still the fights happen because of external problems? Even though you have your own space, those external issues still manage to creep into your relationship and become bigger and bigger day by day. How do you find hope when all you can see are triggers in your spouse? In this episode we talk about some of our triggers and patterns in the relationship which got amplified once we started living together! We had our own home our own safe space but the inner demons still came back to haunt us and how they made us reach a breaking point! Find out how we reached this breaking point of Divorce and what happened after!

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Be Careful with your words, once they are said, they can only be forgiven never forgotten. There were certain things spoken to both of us, spoken between us which remain with us permanently like an old wound. Please never talk in anger because once words are spoken, they can't be taken back. Also, a person will always remember how you make them feel. Guilt is the worst enemy of any relationship, when guilt becomes the basis of a relationship, it no longer has any meaning, it just becomes a burden for the people in the relationship. And the most important think before you speak so that words dont damage your relationships permanently.

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Your Parent's marriage is your first benchmark of love and how a relationship should be. But when a child comes from a broken household, it affects his psyche because when he gets into a relationship in his adult life, he has never seen what a happy healthy relationship looks like. He can either choose to create a broken relationship just like his parents or choose to create a better life for himself. But how does he differentiate between right and wrong? Who explains to him about healthy and unhealthy relationship dynamics?

First, we were affected by generational trauma that played out in the home. We were about to start a new life and yet we were not together, not happy and not communicating our problems to each other. He was hurting and going into his shell and She was constantly thinking of the worst-case scenarios. Find out how we create a home for ourselves while having a metaphorical wall between us.

P.S. - Indian Mother-in-laws can be amazing dialogue writers!

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Indian Parents don't realize how they are controlling their children and their marital relationships. They think they are doing it for the better of their children but they don't see how it's just their own patterns and trauma turning them into controlling human beings. They project their own problems onto their kids and think that by controlling them, they will be able to feel better or fix what was done wrong to them. This doesn't help anyone at the end of the day. Parents end up alienating their own children and as a result, the children distance themselves from their parents. In this episode, we reveal how this dynamic played out in our life and almost broke our marriage in the first 6 months.

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In this Episode of HWA we will explore the profound ripple effects of generational trauma on family dynamics. We talk about what happened with us right after marriage and how this cycle of trauma started playing out on us. The blockbuster movie Rocky aur Rani ki Prem Kahani talks about this generational trauma beautifully. This movie was eerily close to our love story so we decided to delve deep into the heart of the matter - how generational trauma in parents can shape and, at times, strain the marital relationships of their children.

Generational trauma, passed down through generations like an invisible heirloom, often goes unnoticed. It silently influences our behaviors, beliefs, and choices. In this eye-opening discussion, we'll navigate the intricate web of how unaddressed trauma from the past can infiltrate the present, affecting not only the individuals but also the bonds they share with their partners.

How do our Parents transfer the effects of their trauma or hurt onto us and try to control or change our relationships, especially with our spouse? We unravel the connections between the past and the present, shedding light on the generational trauma that quietly influenced our lives and tested our relationship within the first 6 months of our marriage!

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Welcome to an exclusive interview with my HUSBAND about how life changes for Men after marriage! PART 2

Soon after you get married, your life becomes all about CHANGE, not only for women but for MEN as well. When a man becomes a husband, he shoulders the responsibility of one more person in his household, the most important person in life. His wife! We all know how all females go through a major transformation after marriage, But do we ever think about what a man goes through after marriage?

Let's find out unfiltered unspoken truths about what happens to a Man once he becomes a husband. How does life take a turn for better or for worse? Why is this a societal norm that men are to only provide for their family and forget about their feelings? Why are they always stuck between their wife and their mothers? Should a man not expect some kind of support when his life has also changed after marriage? Find out what MEN go through after marriage in this episode.

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Welcome to an exclusive interview with my HUSBAND about how life changes for Men after marriage!

Soon after you get married, your life becomes all about CHANGE, not only for women but for MEN as well. When a man becomes a husband, he shoulders the responsibility of one more person in his household, the most important person for life. His wife! We all know how all females go through a major transformation after marriage, But do we ever think what a man goes through after marriage?

Let's find out unfiltered unspoken truths about what happens to a Man once he becomes a husband. How does life take a turn for better or for worse? Why is this a societal norm that men are to only provide for their family and forget about their feelings? Why are they always stuck between their wife and their mothers? Should a man not expect some kind of support when his life has also changed after marriage? Find out what MEN go through after marriage in this episode.

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