Our thoughts on Dr. Meg Jay's "The Defining Decade: Why your twenties matter- and how to make the most of them."

Disclaimer: it's okay to listen whether you have or have not read the book yet! We're sharing our main takeaways from it & what we wish Dr. Jay included.

Huge shoutout to Kristine for our jingle! Plus listen for our songs/TV/movie of the week, the myth of leisure, creative outlets, Nicki Minaj songs that changed our lives, and why you should keep 10% of yourself to yourself.

Please DM us if you have a beef you'd like us to help you squash!

How the second date is the most important date, Kristine is making us a jingle, the theme of this podcast (sex and the city style), the year of realizing things, Harriet's lesson, Ethan's same lesson, self-fulfilling prophecies, being your biggest cheerleader, Oprah's dream board, vision boards, changing the narratives we tell ourselves, noise pollution, how music can be toxic, changing the meaning of songs, Taylor Swift (ATW 10 mins and August), Sue Heck, The Middle, we want to be Brad and Sue, next week's episode on The Defining Decade

Every week we’ll be sharing a lesson we’ve learned with you!

And this week we’ll also ramble about how we met, Mary, calling someone via Instagram, large cockroaches, 3 hour conversations, Rachel Berry, Yale, Glee, hate listeners, love watchers, our fouls, background noise, being ruminators, not letting things go, learning every lesson the hard way, savvy, nonchalant people, chalant people, journals, peaceful senior year, relationship with time, mono, MILF Manor, Vanderpump rules, The View, Joy Behar, Wendy Williams, the green couch, Will Shuester Is Creepy edits, Miles, fear, brand deals, ASMR, which of ours friends’ children our future children are/arent allowed to hang out with, headphones, Karma by Taylor Swift, Karma by Sarah Kinsley, being delusional, the Jewish Kennedys, and we love you for listening <3!