Healthy Wealthy Thoughts

In this podcast episode, we explore effective communication skills for people experiencing trauma. We cover three best practices and provide advice for collaboration between men and women.

Resources:

1. Nationa Center for PTSD- Communicating Effectively

2. Trauma-Informed Communication- Therapeutic Communication for Health Office Administrators

3. Communication Skills for Healthy Relationships-Trauma Journal

4. Communicating with People with Trauma Related Diaorders- Judicial College

5. Tips for Communicating with People with TBI and PTSD

The art of reciprocity is something that can be done amongst individuals who understand the art of mindfulness. When it comes to sharing energy, it is important to have a healthy balance of knowing when to share, how to share and why not to. At times, we develop relationships with others that are unbalanced and find ourselves overwhelmed. You may be overwhelmed because you are burnt out, you may not be getting the same attention back, or you may be used to never hearing no. Not every yes means you are loved nor does every no mean you are hated. Boundaries are there to protect both you and the other person or people in mind. Let's talk about reciprocity, mindfulness, toxic habits of energetic exchanges; and how to set healthy boundaries for yourself and others.

Welcome to healthy wealthy thoughts. This segment will discuss the discomforts we have in life and methods of how to get comfortable with them from goal setting with a cognitive behavioral therapy style. Always be gentle with yourself, breathe and know you are doing better everyday!

If you seek further assistance, please contact your PCP or mental health provider. If it is an emergency, contact your local emergency department (911). For further information on mental health organizations in your state, visit www.nami.org or call 1-800-950-NAMI(6264). Check out my therapeutic swag at www.healthywealthythoughts.com.

Have you grown up believing that work has to be hard? And has it also created an inability for you to actually do things with ease? Has your perception of the term hard work make you develop in disease and therefore, has contributed to you doing things from a hard perspective? Welcome to healthy wealthy thoughts where we will be discussing how to reframe your perception of what hard work is, how you can actually do work at ease, and be okay with that; and what may be hard is changing but with consistency and persistence, you will. Take out your piece of paper, and a writing utensil where we will be identifying early stages that developed your perception of hard work, goal setting, and creating a healthy pathway that is manageable for you.

Hey beautiful people. Not everyone will understand where you are at in life nor should they. What is important is that you are taking the steps to navigate your life. This weeks segment is on managing your emotions especially when you're alone. You might have offended others and others may have offended you. Pull out that piece of paper where we will discuss how to get through this part of your life using the 6 Stages of Change.

What do you do when a loved one is a hoe? How do you manage a relationship that is non judgemental, loving and stress free? We will be discussing the following: what is a hoe, who can be a hoe, and trauma; anxiety, adjustment disorder, how to know if you can be supportive, and strategies on how to support a loved one who is a hoe; a hoe assessment plan to identify the hoe behavior and the 6 Stages of Change to re-direct the inner hoe.

As we develop in life, many people experience trauma and develop fear of it ever happening again. The ways one may protect oneself is through gaining control over what we felt was harmed: our bodies. We may use sex and or intimacy to navigate trauma responses. As we do so, we develop defense mechanisms that enable promiscuity and abandonment of self. The partners we choose must bond with us in these traumatic areas so we can feel safe by relating but what do we do when an orgasm does not stop the pain we feel inside? Lets talk about confronting the trauma we may all have inside. For more information and a quick read, check out my blog at https://www.healthywealthythoughts.com/blogs/news/trauma-bonding-intimacy-healing-your-sexual-body

The areas we seek fulfillment is where we may lack. Fear and love will be our source that fuels our emotions, thoughts and feelings. The places we appraise ourselves is of value but from what perspective? Take hold of your heart and mind by understanding discernment after or during the storm. Having the courage, a plan you can measure and the dedication to get back up again let's you know you got this.

As a Carrgiver, burnout and compassion fatigue is real. It is even more alarming to turn on the news and learn a crime was committed by a caregiver. The care of our caregivers are seldom thought about. This podcast is dedicated to all caregivers. We will discuss how to care for ourselves as we care for others by creating boundaries, having a support system and being content with not being the one giving direct care as we still support others.

Hello wandering soul. Let's dive deeply into why we avoid ourselves. We will be going over what Self Avoidance Disorder is, the characteristics, reasons why we may do this, a few realistic methods to ground self and what challenges may come your way.