In this heartfelt episode of Heart Healing Conversations, Dawn talks with author Cheri Warcholak Lohrey about living with multiple sclerosis and the grief that can accompany a chronic health diagnosis.
Cheri was living a full, busy life as an educator, wife, mother, fitness enthusiast, and someone who loved a packed calendar and taking care of things on her own. Her MS diagnosis changed the path she had imagined for herself.
But the diagnosis brought more than physical challenges. Cheri describes grieving the loss of her career, independence, familiar routines, and the identity she had built over the years.
For nearly a decade, she kept much of her experience to herself, often responding to questions with, “I’m fine,” while carrying much more beneath the surface. Eventually, she had to confront what was happening and learn to navigate life differently.
In this conversation, Cheri and Dawn explore:
* The grief that can accompany a chronic illness diagnosis
* Losing a career and a sense of identity
* What it means to look fine on the outside while struggling internally
* Learning to slow down and make space for self-care
* The difficulty of asking for help when you’ve always been independent
* Why community and support matter during difficult transitions
* How writing became part of Cheri’s healing journey
* Finding creativity and unexpected joy after a major life change
* Reframing difficult experiences and looking for what they can teach us
Cheri’s message throughout the episode is simple and powerful:
Pause. Breathe. Pivot.
Sometimes life doesn’t follow the plan we created. That doesn’t mean there can’t be meaning, connection, creativity, and joy in the next chapter.
If you’re navigating chronic illness, grief, or a life that looks very different than you expected, this conversation is for you.
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Learn more about Dawn
Dawn Michele Jackson, RN, is an Advanced Grief Recovery Method® Specialist, author, and advocate for emotional healing. After more than 30 years in nursing, Dawn helps individuals release unresolved grief and emotional pain so they can reconnect with themselves, their relationships, and what matters most.
Learn more about Cheri
Cheri Warcholak Lohrey, a type A planner, a fitness enthusiast, and a career woman, a suburban wife, mother, daughter, sister, and friend, was living her life to the fullest when suddenly everything changed. Receiving a tumultuous diagnosis, her life plan was upended. With over 25 years of service as an educator, Cheri’s determination to “Never Give Up” perseveres as she navigates the unexpected challenges of multiple sclerosis progression, illuminating the power of resilience.
Cheri is the international bestselling author of Powered by the Pivot; Secrets Revealed in my journey Manifesting Peace, Love & Gratitude; and the 2026 International Impact Award-winning author of Cleo the Caterpillar CAN Pivot: A Story of Decision-making and “I AM Cleo: A Story of Courage.”
Her picture books are rhythmically told, inspiring growth in the young and the old. Her mission, both in life and through her writing, is raw, real, and relatable, featuring her personal strategy to Pause, Breathe, and Pivot.
Invited on her journey, readers will be inspired to embrace change, feel supported through real-life moments of decision-making, and ease the heaviness of illness. Her messages will strengthen self-confidence, reveal secrets that are often unseen, and empower readers to reframe challenges and consider a perspective shift.
Additionally, I AM Cleo debuts Cheri’s illustrations, depicting an intimate look at her personal and symbolic journey through life’s pivots.
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