In this episode, I get brutally honest about why I’ve resisted showing up and selling, and how every fear I had about “failure” was really a fear of rejection.

I break down the psychology behind why high-achieving women self-sabotage: not because they can’t heal, but because they’re terrified that healing will separate them from the people they’re scared to outgrow.

If you’ve ever stayed small to avoid losing relationships, this conversation is going to expose the cost of dimming your own power. And if you’re ready to stop shrinking and finally rise into the woman God keeps showing you in your visions, this episode is your wake-up call.

Come meet me in San Diego on November 28th, 2025 for the Healing Event — if this episode hits you, you’re exactly the woman who needs to be in that room.

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In today’s episode, Doralee pulls back the curtain on the real-life shifts happening behind the scenes—what she’s creating, what she’s releasing, and what rest is teaching her as a woman, healer, and leader.

She breaks down the difference between I-statements and emotional vulnerability statements, and why this simple communication shift can change every conversation, every boundary, and every relationship.

Doralee shares honest updates about what’s bringing her joy, what’s draining her spirit, and how she’s recalibrating her energy to stay aligned with her purpose.

You’ll hear a raw, grounded story from a recent conversation with her husband that reveals exactly how powerful emotional responsibility truly is.

This episode is for high-achieving women who are ready to communicate with clarity, lead with emotional maturity, and finally ask for what they want without guilt or fear.

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What happens when your present, healed self sits down to coach the wounded girl you used to be?

In today’s episode, I revisit the very first blog I wrote five years ago — a raw, unfiltered look at teenage trauma, toxic relationships, domestic violence cycles, and the moment my purpose first revealed itself.

This is a powerful conversation on inner child healing, trauma recovery, self-worth, and what it means to evolve into the woman God always knew you’d become.

If you’ve ever carried childhood wounds into adulthood, ignored red flags, or confused chaos for love… this episode is for you.

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One thing I’ve noticed is how loud the chatter in our heads really is—and how instead of silencing it, we amplify it.

We work, we stay busy, we overdo everything just to avoid sitting with our thoughts. But that busyness? It’s a trauma response.

It’s the ego’s way of protecting us from emotions that once felt unsafe to feel.

In this episode, I break down how the emotional walls built in survival mode keep us disconnected from our softness, our peace, and the people who love us most.

You’ll learn how to:

💭 Recognize the “wall” your ego built to keep you safe

💭 Reconnect with your emotional self without judgment

💭 Communicate your needs clearly instead of defensively

💭 Heal the wall between you and your “safe people”

Because when we refuse to feel our feelings, we block love, intimacy, and even our own peace.

Feeling is not weakness — it’s emotional intelligence in motion.

If you’re ready to stop surviving and start connecting, this episode will help you lower the wall, reclaim your softness, and feel safe in your truth.

Join us for The Healing Tour — a night of inner healing, spiritual connection, and emotional freedom.

Come learn how to release what’s no longer serving you, step into alignment, and experience what peace actually feels like.

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If you’ve ever caught yourself saying, “It’s not my fault,” “I can’t help it,” or “Why does this keep happening to me?” — this episode is for you.

Doralee exposes the three clues the victim mindset always leaves behind and reveals the deeper emotional roots behind blame, justification, and complaining.

This isn’t about judgment — it’s about awareness, accountability, and finally stepping into the level of ownership that changes everything.

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In this powerful episode, Doralee Quintero explores what it really means to stop running from pain and finally open yourself to the possibility of what it looks like to get better. Recorded in a season of deep reflection, she shares how burnout, overgiving, and emotional exhaustion are not signs of failure — they’re signals that you’ve been trying to heal alone.

Doralee breaks down why you can’t see out of the fishbowl of your own life without community, how to refill your cup before it runs dry, and why pouring back into yourself is an act of spiritual maturity. She reminds every high-achieving woman that nervous-system healing, self-regulation, and sacred rest are the foundation for lasting transformation.

If you’ve been living in survival mode, this episode will help you return to peace, rebuild your capacity, and believe again in what’s possible.

Join The Healing Room — Doralee’s private community on Skool — for just $27/month to go deeper into this work, reconnect to your inner safety, and learn how to heal without running on empty.

In this raw and prophetic episode, Doralee opens up about what happens when the healer herself burns out. From leading her healing tour to showing up on live for hours on end, she reveals how her flow was disrupted when she started convincing instead of standing in conviction.

She shares how failing to celebrate her own wins — and continuing to pour from an empty cup — became a spiritual mirror, forcing her to face the truth: the enemy is often the inner me.

This episode is a homecoming to every woman who’s ever led while depleted, helped while hurting, or confused pressure for purpose. You’ll walk away with clarity, compassion, and practical tips to help you:

• Recognize the early signs of burnout

• Stop confusing exhaustion with obedience

• Protect your conviction from convincing energy

• Celebrate your wins without guilt

Because real healing isn’t about doing more — it’s about returning to the rhythm of who you truly are.

I called myself a healer, and that alone was enough to trigger people.

But judgment isn’t new to me. From being a farmworker’s daughter in Idaho, to a counselor dismissed because of how I looked, to an author, teacher, and CEO leading a national healing tour, I’ve been underestimated, doubted, and judged my entire life.

In this raw episode, I share:

• Why the people doing worse than you often have the loudest opinions.

• What Brené Brown’s ‘arena’ quote has taught me about ignoring critics.

• How being the underdog (David vs. Goliath energy) shaped my calling.

• Why healing requires movement — and how to know if you’re ‘her,’ the cycle breaker.

This episode will light a fire under you to stop circling, step into your purpose, and finally break the patterns holding you back.

👉 Applications are open now for my signature 8–12 week transformational healing program (prices increase Jan 1).

👉 Join me live November 6th in San Jose for the Healing Tour.

For a transformative night of healing and connection.

Buckle up, this is going to be a bumpy ride. No sugar coating. Just truth telling.

My rules are simple:

• Never force.

• Never personalize.

• Question anger.

• Let sadness move through.

And that’s only the surface. Tap in to hear the daily laws that keep me unbreakable. 🚀