Uh, yeah, it's there the repeat mode , for say undesired thought habits. Why not use, utilize the selfs existing frequent bubble up and piggy back that into it. My example is , every time I think about my boyfriend thing, I say a phrase. Mine is "I'm a notary" That in itself is a goal category for me, it means I have about 5 things I could do to increase notary assignments, which in turn increases my money. Your mind is a tool and you can program yourself.

Some say, psycho,, obsessive.. I say ill-equipped, uninformed, loveless, helpless, needs self love. Are you feeling vulnerable when another won't return love, energy, turn it around, you can!!

Be your own classic, by Adrian Gurvitz. When you feel a love from the love song toward another, then you're able to turn that dedicating a love song from another to self!!

Moments of obsession toward your boyfriend, girlfriend, love interest, person you admire . You might be wondering what he's doing, she's doing, and most importantly, with who? It hurts it's not you, you are not the choice, you are not the 1st selection. So, what do you do with that energy? Yes, it is an energy and it is an imbalance of focus. The focus should be on self, building self, learning self, holding self, caring for self, consoling swlf, cherishing, loving, seeking to understand and placate self To further go into self and learn the self, very raw, a break up will do that, leave with ONLY self left. A lesson then is there for the self to learn, and that is, she's been a whole, complete person the WHOLE time, he's been a whole complete person the whole time.

Yeah, shew, there comes a time yo draw lines and this one is one that self softly demanded I draw. I have so many times before with my Mr lville, but this time is it and last time. I have enjoyed all about him, I just don't enjoy the uncertainty of another's invisible presence. The who is she questions are just too much now to bear. I'm not going to stand behind any woman, I will be 100 claimed, with no one else in picture or not at all.

How do you keep yourself from overly emotionally investing in others? It's like something in us TAKES over at some point and now you become a spectator to yourself and you don't know to to back track and over give to another individual. I discuss that you should be going to You-university and learning so much about yourself, all the excellent, wonderful positive things that make you up so distinctively. If you are an excellent self study to your own history of triumphs up to this point ,you'll proof protect that part of you, listen as I give my unique knowing on thus subject. 😊

I really missed my children and I'm getting to appreciate their new journey and the souls they are, as they transverse their lives solo! Join me as I process this reality. I look at the layers, me as 18, daughter as 18 present day. How I saw my mother, how I hope she sees me today.

During my chrysalis-mode of my life I meander into my memories of what sexual abuse looked like for me in childhood. It was a soul earthquake, that did lots of damage trhough the decades, but I'm trying to dis-identify with that vulnerability and find a new strength identity in the new creation God is shaping in me here moving forward. Thank you for listening , ❤️ 💙 💜

There's a thing, people use microdosing with psychedelics for purposes of revelation, heal old traumas, what have you. But, what if you used your I'll misfortunes as your pivotal moment to gain from, learn from. You are in a forced vulnerable place, sickness, break up, earth quake, tree fell through you roof. You get the idea, why notlook around and REALLY SEE, What LIFEis trying to show you. Only you can gain from this misfortune, you did not choose, yet, this circumstance is here.

If you go searching for why from imperfect people you will walk away feeling EMPTY, no, don't do that. I explain my reasoning, being 48 I've learned other people are an unknown variable, yet you are a steady constant. Go for the sure bet, yourself!