There are several reason people leave relationships. Some are trivial while some are extreme. While we agree that relationship has to be built on tolerance, there are some lines which when crossed would change the entire dynamics of a relationship. In this episode, we discuss ours. We would love for you to share yours with us on instagram @heartsnspades. Enjoy!

Just like the old bible saying: Be your brother’s keeper. You have a responsibility to those you are with. You should have their backs come what may. You should be there for each other and be accountable to each other. In this episode, Thomas and James talk about some of their life experiences that are actually very close to heart. Trust me in this episode, there are a lot of laughs. We hope you enjoy it.

We have often heard the claim that we need to sleep less to be successful. Some people even go as far as depriving themselves of sleep  when they should do is the exact opposite, sleep more so that you can get more done. In this episode, we establish that it is what you do when you are awake that matters the most. Making the most with your awake time is important.Sleep is very important because you have to be refereshed to operate on a very high level. Invest in your sleep, sleep well and do more. Enjoy the episode. Cheers.

With no doubt, schools are no longer delivering the aim they were created for. Schools were created to harness the God given abilities and talents of whom ever was enrolled but in recent times, it has evolved to be more of a business ploy than a service to community.In this episode, we agree that going to School and getting educated are not the same thing. Some of us have infact settled on the fact that we are going to home school our kids because of the things we see. Whether that is visible and attainable is another conversation. We hope you listen and share your thoughts with us. 

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Due to our uniqueness as humans, the way we react to things differ. Our introduction to different things erupts different reactions. This episode of heartsnspades rather looks at the future ahead rather than the current situation because that is what we are about. How do we get better but then we cannot get better without acknowledging the present. In episode 13, we talk about porn, the first time we saw adult contents as it is popularly called, its effects and how to necessarily get over porn addiction if it exists. Honourable shoutout to our guest OG for coming through with so much insight. We definitely want you back in the podcast. Enjoy

Finding your better half is no childsplay. This is one activity that could take a life time. Choosing the right one is a phase people ponder on greatly as it could determines and shapes ones future. There are so many things that go into choosing the right one, for one, both of you have  some very great learning to do, tolerating eachother as pointed out by our guest takes commitment and patience. We do hope you enjy this episode and let us know what you think on our social media @heartsnspades. 

In a world that is plagued by virtue signally and identity politics, there has been a better time to remind people about being original and authentic especially to themselves. We just feel the need to conform to the statusquo sometime out of fear or just to play along. In this episode, we examine aspects of our lives that we have changed and asked ourselves if we really needed to make those changes or we were just heading to the pressures of life. Enjoy.

Colonization has had its numerous impact in Africa and the world at large. Our focus in this conversation is largely centred around Africa and Nigeria. For Nigeria, It has been 62 years of independence yet, we still blame our colonial masters for our current situation. We personally believe that it is time to take responsibility for ourselves and find a solution for ourselves.In this episode we discuss the issues surrounding Nigeria and Africa as a whole, we also focus extensively in possible solutions for Nigeria. We hope you enjoy the episode. We would love for you to be part our conversation by following us on instagram @heartsnspades. Cheers!

Getting scammed is no joke. You almost feel foolish if not foolish for falling for such deceit. The feeling of getting scammed more than once is even worse. Particularly, in this episode. we look at the reasons people get scammed, we share our experience in getting scammed. We speak about some particular scam stories we are aware of and finally, we discuss how to avoid scams. We would love for you to be a part of this conversation by sharing with us your story or the story of anyone you knew that got scammed and ways to prevent other for falling victim. Follow us on IG @heartsnSpades. Enjoy. 

Moving abroad, especially when it is by yourself can be a big change. It comes with loneliness in the early months, especially when you do not have anyone there. The question is how do you deal with?In this spectacular episode, we discuss how things were when we moved here, how are fared with the situation of things and how others can create a community over their own. We would also love for you to be part of this conversation on social @heartsnspades on instagram. Enjoy Friends