Heauxly Coitus

Jennifer C. Martin is a writer living in Richmond, VA with her two partners and their two children. She is a polyamorous dirtbag Christian and a proud leftist. In her spare time, she enjoys baking, yoga, gaming, and consuming all kinds of media. You can find her on Twitter or Instagram at @notreallyjcm.

“My body was once a prison. It was something I hated, something that was too much and not enough at once. And now, it’s home.”

~A heaux is a person who is totally comfortable with themselves, whether or not society is comfortable with them.~

Ms. Heauxly Coitus

@heauxlycoitus

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~To be a heaux is to engage in consensual sex, be kind your yourself and partner(s), creative, fully embodied, unapologetic, powerful, and free.~

My name is Mackenzie and I am a deconstructing Christian living in the High Rockies of Colorado. After a lifetime of conservative indoctrination influenced by denominations such as the Church of Christ and Assembly of God, I started an Instagram called "Why I Left the Church" as a personal journal project. I have since amassed more than 800 followers. This online community has brought me great relief in knowing that I'm not alone and a lot to think about in my own spiritual journey.

This month, I celebrate the ninth anniversary of the first time I went to a social dance. Learning how to partner dance was my personal gateway to self-acceptance and building a positive body image.

A heaux is someone who knows what she wants and she takes the time to gather all relevant information in any situation that carries risk. She feels confident in her ability to make decisions. Her decisions are made for *herself* and nobody else. Whether she's choosing what to wear, who to kiss, or how to dance; it's her life!

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Find, follow, support, and send love to Mackenzie on her Instagrams:

@WhyILeftTheChurch

@Dotsontheglobe

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Come share your heaux story. Your voice and journey deserve to be heard. Schedule a convo and be a feature on Heauxly Coitus Podcast!

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Melissa is writing a book! The Glory Whole – a memoir of misogyny, sex, family, secrets and purity culture within the claustrophobic depths of the Seventh-Day Adventist church.

Raised in a severe, cult-like branch of the extreme fundamentalist SDA church, Melissa fled the church at 18 and plunged headlong into the “real world,’ notching an Ivy League degree, a modeling and movie career, jobs working for famous politicians and billionaires, and seeking every excess possible with the sex & celebrity crowd across the US and Europe.

Thoroughly congratulating herself on escaping her upbringing, she sailed smugly into adulthood where, in the middle of two marriages and two children, she learned multiple members of her family had been child molesters and abusers within the SDA church.

This brought on a decades-long discovery process: finding a speaking to the victims, confronting family and church members, reaching out to further victims within the SDA system, and ultimately discovering and addressing her own far-reaching trauma from purity culture, patriarchal domination, family dynamics, fundamentalist mind-fuckery, and more.

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Twitter, Instagram, Facebook, YouTube: @the_glory_whole

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Come share your heaux story on the pod! Be the next guest. Inbox me, Ms. Heauxly Coitus @heauxlycoitus

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To be a heaux is to engage in consensual sex, be kind your yourself and partner(s), creative, fully embodied, unapologetic, powerful, and free.

Ms. HC retells an early encounter in her heaux phase and reflects on some lessons she’s since learned about power, agency, coitus, and expectations men have about women. 💦💦Ready to share your story? Follow, share, and slide into my DMs @heauxlycoitus or drop me a line at [email protected]. Let’s chat and collaborate! 💦💦 Read up on my heaux phase at heauxlycoitus.home.blog where I share my shenanigans after being a super virgin for 31 years.💦💦 Have an orgasm filled week, babe!

Cindy spent her college years and early adulthood in an exceptionally strict evangelical Christian group that took ownership of folks’ agency. Purity culture is hard to be in and hard to get out of, but Cindy found strength to choose herself, take ownership of her own vagina and her body, and free herself to pursue wholeness. In her coitus convo, we talk about her journey and what she’s learned over the years.

💦💦Ready to share your story? Follow, share, and slide into my DMs @heauxlycoitus or drop me a line at [email protected]. Let’s chat and collaborate! 💦💦 Read up on my heaux phase at heauxlycoitus.home.blog where I share my shenanigans after being a super virgin for 31 years.💦💦 Have an orgasm filled week, babe!

Our guest today, Nella, shares her sex story and her work in normalizing sexual pleasure and information for everyone. She has found her home and curiosity satiated in the BDSM community and encourages everyone to think outside the box and truly find their voice and orgasm. From being the go-to person in her high school for sexual education and condoms even though she herself was a virgin, to when she was a nude model in college and saw her body as art, to when she experienced alternative lifestyles and BDSM, she has had a incredible journey that is far from over. 💦💦 Support her work and learn about how to spice up your bedroom and sex life by following and joining her virtual classes for individuals and couples. 💦💦Ready to share your story? Follow, share, and slide into my DMs @heauxlycoitus or drop me a line at [email protected]. Let’s chat and collaborate! 💦💦 Read up on my heaux phase at heauxlycoitus.home.blog where I share my shenanigans after being a super virgin for 31 years.💦💦 Have an orgasm-filled week, babe!

Ms. Heauxly Coitus reminisces on one of her first coital encounters. She now knows why folks say don’t have sexy with your neighbor. Also, 4.5 strokes only? Surely you jest! Truly a pity this one was. Stay tuned. Send this episode to your people. Share your story on the pod. Website: heauxlycoitus.home.blog Follow on Insta: @heauxlycoitus

Hey y’all. It’s me, Ms. Heauxly, and I invite you to join me as I retell stories of my heaux phase. Get to know me, why I’m doing this podcast, and how you too can be a part of the pod. Follow on Instagram @heauxlycoitus and the blog heauxlycoitus.home.blog. Do you have a sex story or shenanigan you need to get off your chest? Come tell it here! Episodes come out weekly. Have a coitus and/or orgasm-filled week, beloved 😘😘