Go from feeling like two ships passing in the night and disconnected to feeling like you’re partners and on the same team again.

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As a police wife, firefighter wife and military wife, your partner experiences trauma and it is a part of him when he comes home. I share two stories from my own marriage where we have run into trauma he has experienced at work. I share practical tips on how to navigate trauma in your own relationship and provide reasonable accommodation to the symptoms of trauma that you see.

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You’re feeling disconnected from your partner as a police wife or girlfriend, firefighter wife or girlfriend or veteran wife or girlfriend because he’s not telling you about his day at work. In this episode you will become more connected by learning to identify ways that your police husband, firefighter husband or military husband is indeed opening up to you and being vulnerable.

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Feel like you’re doing it all alone and the responsibilities are weighing you down like a weighted vest? Girl, I got you. In this episode, you will learn exactly how to feel supported and end resentment. You will feel okay about asking for help.

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Ever feel like your conversation doesn’t go anywhere when you ask your police officer, deputy, firefighter veteran partner for help? As a police wife, firefighter wife or veteran wife or girlfriend, it’s so critical that you learn Assertive Trauma Informed Communication to be heard. This communication method will transform your relationship. Ready for your convo so go smooth next time you bring up something you know bugged him in the past? Yep, it’s going to be awesome. I’m sorry excited for you.

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As a police wife, deputy wife, firefighter wife or military wife, you know the shift work, overtime, and last minute shift changes are consistent, but what about consistent time together AND the confidence to embrace your first responder family lifestyle in a way that is unshakeable? That’s what this episode is all about and I know it’s going to be relationship changing for you.

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My client, a K9 deputy wife and mom of a new baby, went FROM her husband feeling like she didn’t support his job because she was used to her teacher schedule with weekends and holidays off TO feeling like she was so lucky and loved her K9 deputy so much.

This story highlights the power you have to shift the dynamic of tension to strong you can feel it to peace in your relationship with a police officer, firefighter or veteran.

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If you’re a police wife, firefighter wife, military wife, first responder wife, veteran wife or girlfriend, and you’ve wondered how to respond when your child asks you about why you can’t go to that restaurant down the road or why their Dad doesn’t like crowds, this podcast episode is for you.

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If you’re a police wife, firefighter wife, or veteran’s wife, you see symptoms of trauma, but you’re only recommending talk therapy, I provide you with two other ideas that will help your first responder or veteran to return from fight or flight to rest and digest so you can release the tension and be laughing together and catching up on the latest episode of Love is Blind in no time together.

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My fave YouTubers to work out to:

MadFit

Sydney Cummings (sister of a veteran)

In this episode, police wife, firefighter wife, and military wife, you will learn how to shift your mindset to gratitude, create independent daily routines to ask for help, and empathize with trauma to rid of resentment and open a life of peace for you and your family.

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Fireproof, the movie

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