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You’re “shoulding” on your marriage or relationship as a police wife, deputy wife, fire wife, or veteran wife and it’s hurting your marriage. Open your eyes to a redefined relationship where you see yourself holding a special role in society. This is where a strong, safe relationship lies.

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So you hear that police are arrogant? I’m so excited to share this episode with you. It’s a mic drop situation and I know it’ll shift your perspective about police.

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You’ve been told marriage advice like “don’t go to bed angry,” but as a first responder or military wife, that would mean not going to sleep til 3am after your police husband gets home from night shift or never sleeping while your firefighter spouse or military spouse is deployed. Or, it might mean that you text your husband your deepest, darkest angry feelings while he’s on duty at a dead body call as a deputy wife. Your husband isn’t biologically available to actively listen to you. You need a new method. I share how my Assertive Trauma Informed Communication method has helped me as a police wife and my client to feel heard and supported.

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This is one of the hardest moment to deal with. It’s one thing for us to work through our own emotions as a police wife, firefighter wife, or military wife, but it’s another to console your child who misses their Dad. I share three practical takeaways you can apply in those moments in this episode.

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I share two stories that will inspire you as a police wife, firefighter wife, or military wife or girlfriend. One is all about how use curiosity instead of assumption to get to know your partner and become the person your partner can trust. The second is a relatable, funny story you’re going to love.

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You think that your resentment is because you feel like your partner is never home or you can’t seem to find time together. In reality, what I’ve seen in coaching over 50 police wives, deputy wives, firefighter wives, and/or military wives this year alone, is that there is a root to uncover that is causing your resentment. Once you address the root cause, the resentment drifts away. I’m so excited for you to get to the root of the issue and welcome in peace.

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We just got back from a two week vacation to Cape Charles, Virginia. Early on in our police marriage, never did I imagine my husband would ever take this much time off. How did we get here and how can you use these two strategies to have more time with your partner as a police wife, firefighter wife, deputy wife, paramedic wife, or military wife or girlfriend? I got you.

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As a police wife, firefighter wife, or military wife, being the default parent and solo parenting is often a major part of your role. After listening to this episode, I hope you feel empowered to advocate for your own self care and protect your peace.

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I share my police wife client’s story where she went from feeling like she had one foot in and one foot out of this life. I share what she did to fully embrace this life and feel like she and her husband could face whatever comes their way.

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This is what’s keeping you lonely- isolated and distant from your police, firefighter, military husband or boyfriend. And, I provide a clear way to improve your connection to your partner.

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