Ever feel like your partner is distant, but he won’t open up to you? You push him to talk, but instead of pulling him closer, you push him away. This skill my client learned she says always has him opening up to her when she uses it.

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My client found that her husband of many years was distant. She felt he was no longer sharing about his shift days with her like he used to. He wasn’t as physically affectionate as he was before he experienced a traumatic incident that pushed him over the edge. He wasn’t struggling emotionally and she was feeling like her needs weren’t met. Instead of drawing him closer, she was pushing him away when he pushed him to talk to her. In just 3 weeks of 1:1 coaching, my client used my 30 Day Gratitude Challenge and Assertive Trauma Informed Communication to feel close to her husband again. She was praying with gratitude to God for having the closeness she craved with her husband again.

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Dating a cop can be different. My client’s friends were telling her she wasn’t seeing him enough. She was questioning things and getting all up in her head. Sure, she didn’t see him as much as other people saw their boyfriends because he worked a ton of overtime, but he was there for her, loving, and kind when they were together. Through group coaching in my Resilient Ride Along program, she was able to use my Assertive Trauma Informed Communication method to ask for her desire to move in with her boyfriend and he met her in his excitement to do the same. Now, they’re looking for homes together.

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Generalized reciprocity is a philosophy necessary when you’re a police wife, firefighter wife or military wife or dating a cop, firefighter or veteran. It will help you be at peace and have more harmony in your relationship or family.

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This easy to adopt strategy will improve your communication with your partner as a police wife, firefighter wife or military wife immediately. I’m so excited for you to feel closer to your partner as a result even on their long shifts or deployments away from home.

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Stop feeling like you’re doing it all alone by embracing generalized reciprocity in your relationship as a police wife, firefighter wife, military wife or girlfriend

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Release the pressure to have more time together or have your partner open up to you more as a police, firefighter, and military wife or girlfriend

30 Day Gratitude Challenge

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Go from feeling like two ships passing in the night and disconnected to feeling like you’re partners and on the same team again.

30 Day Gratitude Challenge

Learn about Assertive Trauma Informed Communication in my Resilient Ride Along, my police wife group coaching program

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As a police wife, firefighter wife and military wife, your partner experiences trauma and it is a part of him when he comes home. I share two stories from my own marriage where we have run into trauma he has experienced at work. I share practical tips on how to navigate trauma in your own relationship and provide reasonable accommodation to the symptoms of trauma that you see.

Shift Happens

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You’re feeling disconnected from your partner as a police wife or girlfriend, firefighter wife or girlfriend or veteran wife or girlfriend because he’s not telling you about his day at work. In this episode you will become more connected by learning to identify ways that your police husband, firefighter husband or military husband is indeed opening up to you and being vulnerable.

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