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When is the last time you looked inward? You actually have a record of how well you are communicating right in your phone. In this podcast, I share you with a marriage saving audit that you make you so self aware and know exactly what to do to improve your communication as a police wife, firefighter wife or military wife.

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In just 6 months, you feel like such a baddie. Showing up to a holiday party rocking the cutest Winter sweater and boots with a homemade appetizer in hand and your adorable kiddos trailing you behind? Your aunt asks, “your husband working again? Wish he could take a day off for you!” That snarky comment rolls right over your shoulders. You don’t even acknowledge it with a verbal response. You smile and nod as you talk to your cousin that always makes you laugh.

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He’s there for you. He’s unloaded the dishwasher during the day after he slept after night shift. He picked up the kids from school. He got called to overtime when he was supposed to pick you up from the airport, but he arranged for your bestie to pick you up. He works hard so you and your kids are provided for. You see it, celebrate it, and just love him deeper than ever. This is who you become in 6 months of Individual or Couples coaching.

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Feeling disconnected, resentful or frustrated? Like you’re two ships passing in the night? Imagine just 3 months from now, your husband says “I didn’t realize just how much you loved me.” He surprises you with flowers and chocolates out of the blue. You feel deeply connected and secure in your relationship.

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Feeling disconnected from your boyfriend or husband as a police wife, deputy wife, firefighter wife or military wife?

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A deputy wife came to me struggling with a hypervigilant and overstimulated deputy K9 husband who had seen far too many dead bodies to count as one of the other search and rescue sheriffs in their small town. She felt like he was a ticking time bomb. She felt uncomfortable in her own home.

But after 5 months of coaching, their lives transformed. She stopped after to guess if he had a bad day, because he told her directly. He began taking better care of himself and she got her chill husband back who loved barbecuing for her while she lied on the couch with their K9 babies.

How did this transformation happen? The communication and daily routine shift she made inside my group coaching program, Resilient Ride Along.

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My client inside my Empowered Partner course transformed from lonely and resentful to so empowered as a police wife, military wife and new mom with a husband deployed that she has begun helping others locally. I know her story will inspire you.

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My Resilient Ride Along client’s boyfriend told her, “I want to see you more.” Is there anything better than this as a first responder or military spouse? Deputy wife, you know what I’m talking about. Time with your partner is precious and sometimes hard to come by in this life. Here’s how to get more time with your partner.

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I’m responding to a couple questions I’ve received about being a strong woman and being married to a police officer. This one got me on a gratitude rant, but also I wanted to show you how I am a working mom with a police husband who supports me and my dreams too. You can have it all. Cheers to being “already there” with me. You’ll understand more after you listen.

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