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You can go from feeling resentment towards your husband to celebrating him and vice versa. I tell you exactly how to make this transformation as a police wife, fire wife, or military wife.

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You’re holding hands with your partner and your kids are holding hands as you’re out enjoying the sun on a Saturday. Your husband spots a perpetrator. It could ruin your whole vibe, but an Empowered Partner doesn’t let it. She can hold the duality of this life. She has the skills to know how to respond. Hear how my client faced this exact moment and knew exactly what to do so you can too.

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You want your husband to help you out as a police wife, fire wife, deputy wife or military wife. You’ve tried talking to him about it, but here’s another option. Welcome to my mini PSY 101 episode where I adapt Skinner’s behavioral theory to a take home message that can transform your relationship. What you celebrate in your relationship grows.

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In this episode, you learn just how much control you have to feel supported, have regular time together with your partner, and leave serious conversations feeling heard.

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My husband brought me a soy chai out of the blue, he took responsibility for our son’s dental needs, and we watched a fun show together. A life you love is 100% possible for you. If you’ve thought of hopping inside my world, now is the time.

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From my husband in the news for working a protest to my mom going to the hospital, it had been a week. But, I still slept soundly. How? Because I’ve embraced mindset, daily routine and communication methods that I teach my clients that calm my nervous system and keep my relationship strong. You can do this too.

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She was dating a cop, but it was stagnant. He hinted about the future but was he monogamous? Listen to today’s podcast if you’re feeling stagnant and learn the techniques my (now) police girlfriend used to communicate and stop making assumptions about her man.

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My military spouse client transformed from feeling like “is anything going on in there” in her military husband, because he shut her out from his feelings TO “I get a front row seat to his feelings. I love it.” Openness is critical to remaining connected among military couples as one is deploying to the Iran War or Middle East.

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No consistent days off? He doesn’t trust therapists or coaches? Always with the kids? Let’s chat about these common barriers to receiving help in your police, fire or military relationship.

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Could you find out your husband had messaged another woman intimately and then go on a 45-minute gratitude rant about him just 2 months later? My Couples Coaching client did. Here’s how they got here.

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