Welcome to Day 1 of my Thanksgiving Week Deal of the Day

I’m offering a new Black Friday special deal each day this week. Each offer ends at midnight.

Today’s deal: 4-Course Package for the price of 2

Includes

Calm Amid the Chaos

Shift Happens

Empowered Partner

On the Same Team

Typical price for all four: $158

Black Friday price $79 (50% off)

Snag this deal here or view all my offers for the week that end at midnight daily: https://www.heelsandholster.com/blackfriday

Email me with questions: [email protected]

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A deputy wife came to me struggling with a hypervigilant and overstimulated deputy K9 husband who had seen far too many dead bodies to count as one of the other search and rescue sheriffs in their small town. She felt like he was a ticking time bomb. She felt uncomfortable in her own home.

But after 5 months of coaching, their lives transformed. She stopped after to guess if he had a bad day, because he told her directly. He began taking better care of himself and she got her chill husband back who loved barbecuing for her while she lied on the couch with their K9 babies.

How did this transformation happen? The communication and daily routine shift she made inside my group coaching program, Resilient Ride Along.

Black Friday Deals of the Day next week: https://www.heelsandholster.com/blackfriday

Resilient Ride Along: https://www.heelsandholster.com/resilientridealong

My Books (perfect for Christmas gifts): https://tinyurl.com/KristensBooks

Email me: [email protected]

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My client inside my Empowered Partner course transformed from lonely and resentful to so empowered as a police wife, military wife and new mom with a husband deployed that she has begun helping others locally. I know her story will inspire you.

Empowered Partner: https://www.heelsandholster.com/honu

30-Day Gratitude Challenge: https://www.heelsandholster.com/30daygratitudechallenge

My books: https://tinyurl.com/KristensBooks

My Black Friday Deals: https://www.heelsandholster.com/blackfriday

My Resilient Ride Along client’s boyfriend told her, “I want to see you more.” Is there anything better than this as a first responder or military spouse? Deputy wife, you know what I’m talking about. Time with your partner is precious and sometimes hard to come by in this life. Here’s how to get more time with your partner.

Shift Happens: https://www.heelsandholster.com/shift-happens

On the Same Team: https://www.heelsandholster.com/on-the-same-team

Resilient Ride Along: https://www.heelsandholster.com/resilientridealong

My Black Friday Deals: https://www.heelsandholster.com/blackfriday

My books I know you’ll love read by over 1500 readers who say they feel seen when they read them: https://tinyurl.com/KristensBooks

I’m responding to a couple questions I’ve received about being a strong woman and being married to a police officer. This one got me on a gratitude rant, but also I wanted to show you how I am a working mom with a police husband who supports me and my dreams too. You can have it all. Cheers to being “already there” with me. You’ll understand more after you listen.

My Black Friday deals of the day I mentioned:

https://www.heelsandholster.com/blackfriday

My books: https://tinyurl.com/KristensBooks

In this episode, I take you through a typical day in the life of a metro police officer to gain empathy for why your routines and communication need to look differently than a traditional 9-5 marriage. This episode shouldn’t be listened to with children present.

The Black Friday Offers I mentioned: https://www.heelsandholster.com/blackfriday

Day 1 Deal is a Bundle of my Courses linked below

Empowered Partner: https://www.heelsandholster.com/honu

Shift Happens: https://www.heelsandholster.com/shift-happens

Calm Amid the Chaos: https://www.heelsandholster.com/calmamidchaos

On the Same Team: https://www.heelsandholster.com/on-the-same-team

Other resources I know you’ll love:

Resilient Ride Along: https://www.heelsandholster.com/resilientridealong

My books: https://tinyurl.com/KristensBooks

You’re “shoulding” on your marriage or relationship as a police wife, deputy wife, fire wife, or veteran wife and it’s hurting your marriage. Open your eyes to a redefined relationship where you see yourself holding a special role in society. This is where a strong, safe relationship lies.

On the Same Team: https://www.heelsandholster.com/on-the-same-team

Resilient Ride Along group coaching program: https://www.heelsandholster.com/resilientridealong

My heelsandholster: a police wife devotional book: https://tinyurl.com/KristensBooks

So you hear that police are arrogant? I’m so excited to share this episode with you. It’s a mic drop situation and I know it’ll shift your perspective about police.

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Resilient Ride Along group coaching program: https://www.heelsandholster.com/resilientridealong

My $11 On the Same Team program: https://www.heelsandholster.com/on-the-same-team

Check out my books: https://tinyurl.com/KristensBooks

You’ve been told marriage advice like “don’t go to bed angry,” but as a first responder or military wife, that would mean not going to sleep til 3am after your police husband gets home from night shift or never sleeping while your firefighter spouse or military spouse is deployed. Or, it might mean that you text your husband your deepest, darkest angry feelings while he’s on duty at a dead body call as a deputy wife. Your husband isn’t biologically available to actively listen to you. You need a new method. I share how my Assertive Trauma Informed Communication method has helped me as a police wife and my client to feel heard and supported.

Black Friday 2025 Deals you don’t want to miss: https://www.heelsandholster.com/blackfriday

On the Same Team: https://www.heelsandholster.com/on-the-same-team

My Books (*over 1500 readers): https://tinyurl.com/KristensBooks

No Bull Shoes: https://rstyle.me/+P_IED0C9v_Rb1CscsruJBQ

This is one of the hardest moment to deal with. It’s one thing for us to work through our own emotions as a police wife, firefighter wife, or military wife, but it’s another to console your child who misses their Dad. I share three practical takeaways you can apply in those moments in this episode.

Empowered Partner Course: https://www.heelsandholster.com/honu

My books for first responder and military kids: https://tinyurl.com/KristensBooks

Dry erase calendar we use: https://rstyle.me/+EJSw_iX8XPTd0M8v6opTQQ

Resilient Ride Along group coaching program: https://www.heelsandholster.com/resilientridealong