heelsandholster

In today’s episode, you learn why you feel single but married as a police wife, fire wife or military wife and how to kick that feeling to the curb. Oh, and spoiler alert: it’s not because of his job.

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In today’s episode I share two changes you can make today to stop brushing shoulders with your husband in the hall like roommates and feel like partners again as a police wife, fire wife or military wife.

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Here’s how she transformed her marriage from avoiding her “shaken coke” deputy k9 officer husband as she walked through their home not knowing the cause of his blow ups and felt like he chose the job over her as she accepted all optional overtime without talking to her first about time that they could have spent together.

After 3 months in Resilient Ride Along, they gently kiss as they pass in the halls of their home, she knows exactly what to say to her husband when he had a bad day to bring him close to her + open up to her, and she feels like he chooses her over the job as they make overtime decision together and unapologetically take trips to get the heck out of dodge together.

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The question you’ve got to ask yourself to transform from disconnected to On the Same Team when your husband goes to an away training as a police wife, fire wife or military wife. You’ll also learn three skills to get closer to your man even if you’re in different time zones, counties, states or countries.

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You’ll be inspired by my police wife and working mom client’s journey from resentful to feeling like her husband will “step in if she can’t get to something” and in her words “he’s got my back.”

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This is a replay of a live masterclass on a new strategy to try on if you've been either just not talking to your partner much at all, because it doesn't go well when you try OR any serious conversation ends with yelling, tears, or the cold shoulder.

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This is a replay of a live masterclass on what to do when you have experienced resentment. You're regularly checking his location and waitinggg for your partner to be home as a police wife, fire wife, or military wife. This is a sign that your life isn't designed for this specific lifestyle. I'm so excited for you to hear this episode.

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This is a replay of a live masterclass on what to do when you want to be supportive of you partner as a police wife, fire wife, or military wife, but he's told you "I feel like I can't do anything right."

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You’re riding a single paddle board and it’s leaving you crashing into waves. It’s the foundation that is wrong. It’s not him or you. When you have a tandem paddle board (your day to day life is aligned with your lifestyle), you feel supported by your partner.

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You’re afraid he’ll hate you if you ask him to help more with the dishes, cooking, and taking care of the kids. If you’ve ever felt this way, this episode is for you.

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