The "sex talk" should extend past the "birds and the bees". Once your child hits puberty, that is your key to sit them down and have the conversation! Use this opportunity to share your values, morals, beliefs, but also empower your child with knowledge! Teach your pre-teen, teenager, to protect themselves and others. You can start this process early with books that you can leave in your child's room and then encourage them to come to you if they have any questions. Their curiosity will overcome their horror! I used, "The Care and Keeping of You: The Body Book for Young Girls" by American Girl Library for my daughter when she was in 5th grade. For my son, I bought him, "It's Perfectly Normal. Changing Bodies, Growing up, Sex, and Sexual Health". If you are uncomfortable talking to your child about their bodies and sex, these books may help break that ice!