In this episode of Help Me, Rhonda!, Dr. Rhonda Karg explains what "getting triggered" means and what triggers tell us about our wounded parts from earlier times in our lives that need attention to heal. These wounded parts will send us into a threat response (Fight, flight, freeze, collapse, or fawn), and if left unchecked, can lead to conflicts, hurt feelings, resentments, infidelity, and relationships ending. So what does it mean to be triggered? In a phrase, it means your reaction doesn’t match the situation. It means that situation that triggered you was emotionally charged for you because it reminded you of another time in your life when you felt afraid, abandoned, hurt, traumatized or unsafe. When our reaction doesn’t match the situation and we’ve over-reacted in some way, that means our wounded PARTS are in charge because we are triggered. In this episode, Dr. Karg outlines how we go about healing these wounded parts and recommends a must-read for the listeners, You Are the One You've Been Waiting For: Bringing Courageous Love to Intimate Relationships, by the theory's developer, Richard C. Schwartz, M.D.