Premature ejaculation or "PE" is one of the most widespread challenges for men and couples that include men. There's no special pill being sold on TV.  And while it's not quite that easy to find good help -- we got you! There ARE solutions that work way better than trying to think about baseball or frantically masturbating before a date. Join me for a fun and important conversation with Caitlin V, fellow sex coach, YouTube sensation and host of Good Sex on MAX and Discovery+. Our conversation focuses on the best paths to overcoming PE, from her experience and mine. There's no shame, just practical solutions that actually work. Use <a href='https://caitlinvneal.samcart.com/referral/y8wqKJuv/nc8aNH4GNsnnoj5f'>this link</a> to access her course "Come When You Want" for men and enter the code LauraListener for 10% off!<a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2303792/open_sms">Send a text</a>Get my free guide: 5 Steps to Start Solving Desire Differences (Without Blame or Shame), A Practical Starting Point for Individuals and Couples, at <a href='https://laurajurgens.com/libido'>https://laurajurgens.com/libido </a> Find out more about my offerings and read the blog: <a href='https://laurajurgens.com/'>https://laurajurgens.com</a>/ Copyright notice: All content in this podcast is copyrighted and copying, scraping, data mining, or using the content to train AI is prohibited.

Premature ejaculation or "PE" is one of the most widespread challenges for men and couples that include men. There's no special pill being sold on TV. And while it's not quite that easy to find good help -- we got you! There ARE solutions that work way better than trying to think about baseball or frantically masturbating before a date. Join me for a fun and important conversation with Caitlin V, fellow sex coach, YouTube sensation and host of Good Sex on MAX and Discovery+. Our conversation focuses on the best paths to overcoming PE, from her experience and mine. There's no shame, just practical solutions that actually work. Use this link to access her course "Come When You Want" for men and enter the code LauraListener for 10% off! Send a text Get my free guide: 5 Steps to Start Solving Desire Differences (Without Blame or Shame), A Practical Starting Point for Individuals and Couples, at https://laurajurgens.com/libido Find out more about my offerings and read the blog: https://laurajurgens.com/ Copyright notice: All content in this podcast is copyrighted and copying, scraping, data mining, or using the content to train AI is prohibited.

Premature ejaculation or "PE" is one of the most widespread challenges for men and couples that include men. There's no special pill being sold on TV.&nbsp; And while it's not quite that easy to find good help -- we got you! There ARE solutions that work way better than trying to think about baseball or frantically masturbating before a date.&nbsp;Join me for a fun and important conversation with Caitlin V, fellow sex coach, YouTube sensation and host of Good Sex on MAX and Discovery+. Our conversation focuses on the best paths to overcoming PE, from her experience and mine. There's no shame, just practical solutions that actually work.&nbsp;Use <a href="https://caitlinvneal.samcart.com/referral/y8wqKJuv/nc8aNH4GNsnnoj5f" rel="noopener noreferrer">this link</a> to access her course "Come When You Want" for men and enter the code LauraListener for 10% off!<a href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2303792/open_sms" rel="noopener noreferrer">Send a text</a>Get my free guide: 5 Steps to Start Solving Desire Differences (Without Blame or Shame), A Practical Starting Point for Individuals and Couples, at <a href="https://laurajurgens.com/libido" rel="noopener noreferrer">https://laurajurgens.com/libido </a> Find out more about my offerings and read the blog: <a href="https://laurajurgens.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer">https://laurajurgens.com</a>/ Copyright notice: All content in this podcast is copyrighted and copying, scraping, data mining, or using the content to train AI is prohibited.

Helping Men Last Longer with Caitlin V

Libido mismatch — when one partner wants more sex and the other doesn't — is one of the most painful and least understood problems in long-term relationships. And most of the advice out there makes desire gaps worse. Dr. Laura Jurgens is a multi-certified intimacy coach, desire and arousal specialist, and former research professor who specializes in exactly this. Every episode delivers the practical, body-based tools that generic relationship advice and most couples therapy miss entirely — because desire discrepancies aren't fixed by talking more. They're fixed by working with your nervous system, your body, and the specific patterns keeping you both stuck.&nbsp; And what no one tells you is that both people have the power to make real change, because both people contribute to the dynamic.&nbsp; No one is at fault — and that thinking is exactly what keeps couples stuck.&nbsp; If you're the higher-desire partner feeling rejected, lonely, or like something is wrong with you for having needs — you're not powerless, but pressuring doesn't help. If you're the lower-desire partner feeling pressured, guilty, or shut down — you're not broken or wrong either, and obligation sex is making it worse. You're both missing the same thing: a real roadmap for this specific problem. This show covers: low libido and what actually helps · the pursue-withdraw cycle · somatic and nervous system approaches to intimacy · how to talk about sex without fighting · midlife and perimenopause changes · why therapy often fails for desire discrepancy · sexual shame and body disconnection · how ADHD affects desire in relationships · how one partner changing shifts the whole relationship. Whether you've tried couples therapy, scheduled sex, or every book on the subject and you're still stuck — this is the podcast that goes where those solutions don't. New episodes weekly. Start wherever you are. Ready to solve this? Visit laurajurgens.com/bridge.Free resources at laurajurgens.com/libido.

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Libido mismatch — when one partner wants more sex and the other doesn't — is one of the most painful and least understood problems in long-term relationships. And most of the advice out there makes desire gaps worse. Dr. Laura Jurgens is a multi-certified intimacy coach, desire and arousal specialist, and former research professor who specializes in exactly this. Every episode delivers the practical, body-based tools that generic relationship advice and most couples therapy miss entirely — because desire discrepancies aren't fixed by talking more. They're fixed by working with your nervous system, your body, and the specific patterns keeping you both stuck.  And what no one tells you is that both people have the power to make real change, because both people contribute to the dynamic.  No one is at fault — and that thinking is exactly what keeps couples stuck.  If you're the higher-desire partner feeling rejected, lonely, or like something is wrong with you for having needs — you're not powerless, but pressuring doesn't help. If you're the lower-desire partner feeling pressured, guilty, or shut down — you're not broken or wrong either, and obligation sex is making it worse. You're both missing the same thing: a real roadmap for this specific problem. This show covers: low libido and what actually helps · the pursue-withdraw cycle · somatic and nervous system approaches to intimacy · how to talk about sex without fighting · midlife and perimenopause changes · why therapy often fails for desire discrepancy · sexual shame and body disconnection · how ADHD affects desire in relationships · how one partner changing shifts the whole relationship. Whether you've tried couples therapy, scheduled sex, or every book on the subject and you're still stuck — this is the podcast that goes where those solutions don't. New episodes weekly. Start wherever you are. Ready to solve this? Visit laurajurgens.com/bridge. Free resources at laurajurgens.com/libido.

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