Her Redemption Story | Healing Scriptures, Trauma, Toxic Relationships, Soul Ties, Boundaries, Self-Esteem

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  • 32 | FEELING OVERWHELMED & STRESSED? How to Stop Spiraling, Let Go & Trust God
    In this episode, I’m getting really honest about a season of life where I’ve been feeling overwhelmed, stressed, and stretched thin.
     
    Between the podcast, coaching, my Mary Kay business, marriage, family, and everything else God has entrusted me with, I’ve found myself trying to keep up with everything while also putting a lot of pressure on myself to constantly show up.
     
    I also share openly about being diagnosed with PMDD and how the brain fog, anxiety, low energy, and emotional changes have affected the way I’ve been able to show up in my everyday life.
     
    But through all of this, God has been teaching me something really important: I don’t have to control everything.
     
    I’m learning what it actually means to steward what God has given me, choose wisdom instead of letting my feelings lead me, recognize when I’m spiraling, and give myself grace without using grace as an excuse to stop doing what God has called me to do.
     
    I also share a simple reminder that has been helping me recognize when I’m not in the best place to make decisions: HALT — Hungry, Angry, Lonely, Tired — plus PMS for us ladies.
     
    This episode is very real, very personal, and honestly, not perfectly put together.
     
    But that’s the point.
     
    I don’t have everything figured out. I’m still healing, still learning, still growing, and still figuring out how to faithfully steward everything God has placed in my hands.
     
    And if you’ve been feeling overwhelmed, stressed, anxious, exhausted, or like you’re trying to hold everything together, I hope this episode reminds you that you don’t have to do it all alone.
     
    God is still in control.
     

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    26 min
  • 31 | Healthy or Toxic? How to Tell
    Have you ever looked back at a relationship and realized the red flags were there all along?
     
    Maybe you knew something wasn't right. You noticed the dishonesty, manipulation, disrespect, inconsistency, anger, or lack of accountability. You may have even had that gut feeling telling you something was wrong. So why do we stay?
     
    In this episode of Her Redemption Story, we're talking about red flags in relationships, toxic relationship patterns, unhealthy relationships, emotional attachment, soul ties, and biblical discernment.
     
    Sometimes we don't ignore red flags because we're foolish. We ignore them because we desperately want to be loved, chosen, or believe that someone will change. We can become attached to someone's potential instead of accepting their character for what it really is.
     
    And when you're emotionally attached, it can become difficult to see a relationship clearly. You may start making excuses, ignoring warning signs, accepting behavior you once said you would never tolerate, or confusing emotional intensity with love.
     
    But what happens when you stop letting your emotions make the decision?
     
    What does the Bible say about recognizing someone's character? How do you know when God is warning you? And how can you learn to recognize red flags before you're deeply attached?
     
    In this episode, we'll talk about:
     
    • Red flags in relationships you shouldn't ignore
    • Why you keep ignoring red flags
    • Toxic relationship patterns and unhealthy behavior
    • How low self-worth and the desire to be chosen can affect your decisions
    • Soul ties and emotional attachment
    • Why you may be dating someone's potential instead of their character
    • The difference between chemistry and compatibility
    • How to recognize God's warnings and biblical discernment
    • What healthy relationships and green flags actually look like
    • How to trust God when walking away feels difficult
     
    If you've ever asked yourself, “Why do I keep choosing the wrong people?” “Why do I ignore red flags?” “How do I know if a relationship is toxic?” or “How do I know if God is telling me to leave?”, this episode is for you.
     
    Missing the red flags in your past doesn't mean you're doomed to repeat the same mistakes. **God can heal your heart, renew your mind, and teach you to walk in wisdom instead of confusion.
     
    You don't have to be afraid of love.
    You don't have to settle for unhealthy relationships.
    And you don't have to ignore what God is showing you.
     
    Sometimes the red flags weren't hidden. You just weren't ready to see them.

     

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    38 min
  • 30 | I Finally Saw What Addiction Took From Me

    I didn’t realize how much of my life I was missing until I got sober.

     

    For years, addiction had me chasing the next high instead of actually experiencing the life happening right in front of me.

     

    I could be physically present, but mentally somewhere else.

     

    Then something happened that made me realize just how much God had changed me. I went on a family vacation to watch my seven-year-old niece play in the World Series, and for the first time, I experienced a family vacation completely sober.

     

    And it hit me.

     

    I was actually there.

     

    I was enjoying my family.

    I was noticing the little things.

    I was sitting in peace.

    I wasn't looking for something to escape into.

     

    I was finally experiencing my own life, at an unfamiliar and fun place like the beach and with my family!

     

    In this episode, I'm sharing what this moment taught me about addiction recovery, sobriety, being present, finding peace, and allowing God to restore the parts of your life that addiction tried to steal.

     

    We talk about:

    • My first family vacation sober after addiction
    • What addiction taught me about constantly chasing the next high
    • Why being physically present doesn't always mean you're actually present
    • How sobriety has changed the way I experience my life
    • Learning to sit in silence and peace
    • Why peace can feel uncomfortable when you're used to chaos
    • Letting God strip away the things keeping you from experiencing life
    • Finding joy in ordinary moments
    • What I've learned through my recovery journey
    • Encouragement for anyone struggling with addiction or trying to maintain sobriety
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      If you're struggling with addiction recovery, sobriety, sober living, or feeling disconnected from your own life, I hope my story reminds you that you aren't too far gone.

       

      God can restore what addiction tried to take from you.

       

      He can teach you how to slow down.

       

      How to be present.

       

      How to experience peace.

       

      And how to actually see the life He's given you. 🤍

       

      You don't have to spend the rest of your life chasing something that never satisfies you. Including the phone and any other indulgences!

       

      There is a life waiting for you on the other side of addiction.

       

      And sometimes, you don't realize how beautiful it is until you finally become present enough to see it.

       

      If this episode encouraged you, I'd love for you to leave a review and share it with another woman who needs this reminder today.

       

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      I’m currently offering 1:1 coaching for Christian women who feel stuck in healing, relationships, boundaries, identity, or confidence.

       

      Coaching Call: https://calendly.com/herredemptionstory/onehourcall  

       

       

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      19 min
    • 4 | Stop Trying So Hard to Heal: Surrender to God Instead

      If you feel like you’re trying so hard to heal but nothing is actually changing… this episode is for you.

      Maybe you’ve been praying more, reading more, doing all the “right” things…
      but still feel stuck, tired, or frustrated with yourself.
       
      In today’s episode, we talk about what it really looks like to stop striving and start surrendering to God and how healing actually begins when you stop forcing it.
       
      If you’re a Christian woman healing after a toxic relationship, emotional trauma, or heartbreak, this conversation will help you slow down, notice your patterns, release shame, and walk with God instead of trying to fix yourself alone.
       
      Inside this episode, you’ll learn:
      • why “trying harder” keeps you stuck
      • how surrender creates real emotional healing
      • how to notice patterns without judging yourself
      • practical faith-led steps to walk with God daily
      • how to trade pressure for peace
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        If this episode encouraged you, I'd love for you to leave a review and share it with another woman who needs this reminder today.

         

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        I’m currently offering 1:1 coaching for Christian women who feel stuck in healing, relationships, boundaries, identity, or confidence.

         

        Coaching Call: https://calendly.com/herredemptionstory/onehourcall  

         

         

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        13 min
      • 29 | Who Are You Becoming? The Question Every Christian Should Ask

        Have you ever felt like you're trying so hard to change...but somehow you keep ending up in the same place?

         

        In today's episode, I'm sharing two of the biggest things God has used to completely transform my life.

         

        We'll talk about why you don't need to erase every reminder of your past, how God often tells His people to remember His faithfulness, and why keeping the right reminders can strengthen your faith instead of keeping you stuck.

         

        I'm also sharing the importance of intentionally learning from people who are living the kind of life you're praying for. The voices you listen to matter, and who you choose to learn from can either pull you closer to Christ or farther away from Him.

         

        I'll even share one of the most impactful things my husband did that challenged me to become the woman God was calling me to be, along with the yearly questions I use to honestly evaluate my life and stay focused on who I'm becoming.

         

        If you're tired of staying the same and you're ready to grow into the woman God created you to be, this episode is for you.

         

        In this episode, we'll cover:

        • Why remembrance is a biblical practice • How to know what to keep and what to let go of

        • The importance of Godly mentors and voices

        • The exercise that challenged both my husband and me

        • The mid-year reflection questions I use to stay aligned with God

         

        If this episode encouraged you, I'd love for you to subscribe, leave a review, and share it with a friend who needs this reminder today.

        ♡

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        I’m currently offering 1:1 coaching for Christian women who feel stuck in healing, relationships, boundaries, identity, or confidence.

         

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        46 min
      • 28 | How I Became a Different Woman (It's Not What You Think)

        Most women think confidence comes from learning to love themselves.

         

        I used to think that too.

         

        But looking back, I don't believe that was the deepest issue.

         

        My real problem was that I had no clear values, no convictions, and no vision for the woman God was calling me to become.

         

        Because of that, I accepted less than I deserved, compromised my boundaries, and made decisions based on my emotions instead of God's truth.

         

        In this episode, I'm sharing the biblical shift that changed everything.

         

        Together we'll walk through Proverbs 31, talk about what it really means to become a godly woman, and learn how to develop values, convictions, and standards that shape every area of our lives.

         

        We'll also talk about:

        • What the fruit of the Spirit actually means

        • How to pursue purity, even if your past isn't pure

        • What convictions are and why they matter

        • Why feelings make terrible leaders

        • How to become someone you genuinely respect through obedience to God

         

        You don't become a Proverbs 31 woman overnight.

         

        You become her one obedient decision at a time.

         

        Scripture Mentioned:

        • Proverbs 31

        • Galatians 5:22–23

         

        If this episode encouraged you, I'd love for you to leave a review and share it with another woman who needs this reminder today.

         

        🩵Ready for personalized support?

        I’m currently offering 1:1 coaching for Christian women who feel stuck in healing, relationships, boundaries, identity, or confidence.

         

        Coaching Call: https://calendly.com/herredemptionstory/onehourcall  

         

         

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        34 min
      • 27 | The Real Reason You Keep Accepting Less Than You Deserve

        Most women think their biggest problem is the people they're choosing.

         

        The wrong relationships.

        The wrong friendships.

        The wrong situations.

         

        But what if the deeper issue isn't what's happening around you?

         

        What if it's what you believe about yourself?

         

        In this episode, I'm sharing a powerful realization from my own healing journey: my problem wasn't simply that I didn't love myself. The deeper issue was that I had no clear values, standards, boundaries, or vision for the woman God was calling me to become.

         

        When you don't know what you stand for, you'll often accept whatever comes into your life.

         

        We'll talk about:

         

        • Why self-worth isn't selfish

        • How your standards reveal what you truly believe about yourself

        • The connection between identity and boundaries

        • Why healing is about more than learning to "love yourself"

        • How developing values changes your decisions

        • What it means to see yourself the way God sees you

        • Why knowing you're a daughter of God changes everything

         

        If you've ever found yourself settling, over-giving, ignoring your own needs, moving your boundaries, or accepting things that don't align with who you want to become, this episode is for you.

         

        Reflection Questions:

         

        • Do I value myself the way God values me?

        • What am I tolerating that doesn't align with my values?

        • What standards or boundaries do I need to strengthen?

        • Have I been looking to others to define my worth instead of God?

        • What would change if I truly saw myself the way God sees me?

         

        The goal isn't becoming obsessed with yourself.

         

        The goal is seeing yourself through God's eyes.

         

        Because when you know who you are in Christ, your standards change, your boundaries change, your choices change, and ultimately, your life changes.

         

        🩵Ready for personalized support?

        I’m currently offering 1:1 coaching for Christian women who feel stuck in healing, relationships, boundaries, identity, or confidence.

         

        Coaching Call: https://calendly.com/herredemptionstory/onehourcall  

         

         

        Connect With Me

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        55 min
      • 26 | 5 Things Keeping You From Hearing God Clearly
        In today's episode, I'm sharing five lessons God has been teaching me about comparison, envy, social media, self-discipline, and what it truly means to be close to Him.
        For a long time, I thought God was distant. But the more I examined what I was consuming, what I was comparing myself to, and where I was seeking validation, the more I realized there were things competing for my attention and affection.
         
        In this episode we discuss:
        • Comparison and envy
        • Social media and content consumption
        • Self-discipline and spiritual growth
        • Culture versus God's standards
        • Finding your identity in Christ
        • A practical phone challenge to help you reconnect with God
        If you've been feeling spiritually dry, distracted, overwhelmed, or distant from God, this conversation is for you.
         
        💜 Ready for personalized support?

        I’m currently offering 1:1 coaching for Christian women who feel stuck in healing, relationships, boundaries, identity, or confidence.

        Coaching Call: https://calendly.com/herredemptionstory/onehourcall

         
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        37 min
      • 25 | What Healthy Men Are Actually Looking For in a Woman

        Most women can list what they want in a relationship without even thinking about it.

        But what if we flipped the question?

        In this episode, we’re having an honest, heart‑level conversation about what emotionally healthy, grounded, Christ‑centered men are actually looking for, and how that connects to your own growth journey.

        We dig into:

        • Emotional maturity

        • Healthy communication

        • Consistency

        • Boundaries

        • Becoming the woman who can build and sustain a healthy relationship

          This isn’t about perfection. This is about growth, identity, and letting God shape you into the woman who can hold the love she’s praying for.

          If you’re praying for healthy love, this episode is for you. 💜

           
          💜 Ready for personalized support?

          I’m currently offering 1:1 coaching for Christian women who feel stuck in healing, relationships, boundaries, identity, or confidence.

          Coaching Call: https://calendly.com/herredemptionstory/onehourcall

           
          Connect With Me

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          1 hr 7 min
        • 24 | Before God Sends Him, Heal This First

          Everybody talks about finding a Godly man.

          But what if God is working on you first?

           

          In today's episode, we're having an honest conversation about healing, emotional maturity, self-awareness, communication, and the qualities healthy relationships require.

          This isn't about shame. This isn't about perfection. And this isn't about earning love.

           

          It's about becoming the woman God is calling you to be while He prepares you for the future you're praying for.

           

          If you've ever found yourself praying for a healthy relationship, a Godly marriage, or wondering why healthy love feels so different after toxic relationships, this episode is for you.

          We'll talk about:

          💜 Emotional maturity 💜 Communication and consistency 💜 Boundaries and healthy relationships 💜 Self-awareness and personal growth 💜 Healing before your next relationship 💜 Becoming the woman you're praying to become

           

          Remember:

          Healthy relationships aren't built by perfect people.

          They're built by people who are willing to heal, grow, communicate, and let God transform them from the inside out.

          This is for your heart and your healing, not perfection or performance. This is between you and God 🩵

           

          Connect With Me

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          I'm currently offering 1:1 coaching for Christian women who feel stuck in healing, relationships, boundaries, identity, and confidence.

          Coaching Call: https://calendly.com/herredemptionstory/onehourcall 

          Join the community: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/18hWdJBwui/ 

          1 hr 18 min

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