Her Unshakeable Confidence Podcast

In this inspiring episode of Her Unshakeable Confidence, hosts Simone and Olivia Knego sit down with Kayla Fite—mindset mentor, podcast host, and creator behind Habits You Love. Kayla shares her transformative journey of healing, self-discovery, and embracing authenticity after years of chasing external validation.

Through candid conversation, Kayla opens up about shedding perfectionism, overcoming people-pleasing tendencies, and learning to trust her own unique path. Her story is a powerful reminder that true confidence grows when we stop seeking approval and start living aligned with our purpose.

If you've ever struggled with change, feared judgment, or wondered when it’s finally “okay” to put yourself first—this episode is your permission slip.

🚀 Actionable Takeaways

• Authenticity over approval. Living authentically means releasing the need to fit molds created by others—and trusting your own voice.
  
  
• Healing is a rebirth. Personal growth often feels like starting over. Give yourself grace to grow, even if it feels like you’re beginning again.
  
  
• Don't fear the pivot. It’s okay to change directions, evolve your brand, or pursue new passions—your journey is uniquely yours.
  
  
• Focus inward, not outward. Most people are absorbed in their own lives. Fear of judgment often says more about our own insecurities than reality.
  
  
• Grace in growth. Just because you’re older doesn’t mean you should have it all figured out. Growth isn’t linear—and it’s never too late to heal.
• Creativity thrives in authenticity. When you’re true to yourself, your creativity and confidence naturally expand.

📖 Chapters

00:00 – Meet Kayla Fite & Her Journey to Authentic Living
10:15 – Breaking Free from People-Pleasing and Perfectionism
18:40 – Healing, Grace, and Redefining Success
27:05 – Embracing Change Without Fear of Judgment
36:20 – Finding Purpose Through Authenticity
44:25 – The Best Advice: Stay True to Yourself
47:04 – Daily Affirmation & Final Reflections

👩‍💼 About Kayla Fite

I like to share my story of discovering my authenticity because it isn't an automatic life skill you are born with. It has to be developed and practiced. As a kid and teenager, I wasn't encouraged to try things I liked or was interested in, I was told what I was going to do, how I was going to be, and made to fit into a box that I never felt was for me. I suppressed myself for a long time and developed a lot of shame along the way. It wasn't until I was 30 that I had to reparent myself, shed a lot of negative programming and I have to practice daily how to show up authentically and vulnerable.

This generation has a massive problem with vulnerability, individuality, and authenticity because of how easy and accessible it is to just copy and mimic what other people are doing, wearing, being, saying through social media. I want to encourage women to first find themselves and then show up from that place rather than trying to be someone they aren't. That is where true, intrinsic confidence comes from as opposed to fake confidence that isn't sustainable. I can also share my three A's as the process you can use to discover it!

👉 Connect with Kayla Fite
TikTok: @kaylafite | @habitsyoulove
Instagram: @kaylafite | @habitsyoulove
Website: (Coming Soon!) kaylafite.com | habitsyoulove.com

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💡 Episode Summary

In this episode of Her Unshakeable Confidence, Simone and Olivia Knego reflect on the power of persistence, the importance of asking questions, and how confidence builds over time — especially in challenging environments like law school. Olivia opens up about her experience navigating tough first semesters, learning to manage stress, and gaining strength from supportive professors who bring real-world expertise to the classroom.The conversation also explores why curiosity is a strength, not a weakness; how asking questions benefits not just you but those around you; and why building respectful, genuine relationships matters both in school and in life. Simone shares the inspiring story of the 6888th Central Postal Directory Battalion, the only all-Black female battalion during WWII, who proved the importance of standing up, using your voice, and believing in your mission. Together, they offer practical reminders on how to stay resilient and why speaking up helps move everyone forward.

🚀 Actionable Takeaways

📚 Preparation builds confidence — investing time in learning makes the final challenge easier.
🙋 Don’t be afraid to ask questions — your curiosity helps both you and the people around you.
👥 Genuine connections matter — respectful, caring relationships make growth possible.
💪 Persistence pays off — when things feel hard, remember that the only way to go is up.
🎤 Your voice has power — speaking up can create positive change for a whole group.📖 

Chapters

00:00 – Overcoming Self-Doubt and Learning from Experience
08:10 – The Power of Supportive Mentors and Real-World Lessons
15:45 – Asking Questions, Respect, and Building Confidence
25:30 – Speaking Up for Others: Lessons from the 6888th Battalion
33:20 – Confidence Tip of the Week: Curiosity Is a StrengthConnect with Us

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💡 Episode Summary
 In this powerful episode of Her Unshakeable Confidence, hosts Simone and Olivia Knego sit down with Jenny Townsend—author, speaker, and founder of Mikvé Israel. Jenny shares her deeply personal journey of faith, reinvention, and finding purpose through life’s unexpected seasons.
From leaving a successful corporate career to embracing her calling, Jenny’s story is a testament to the power of listening to divine nudges and surrendering to transformation. She opens up about the importance of redefining success, trusting God in the unknown, and navigating the identity shifts that come with motherhood, marriage, and mission.
This episode is for anyone feeling the tension of transition or sensing a shift in their season—it’s an invitation to pause, listen, and trust that the best is still ahead.

🚀 Actionable Takeaways
Reinvention begins with surrender. Sometimes, the most powerful thing you can do is let go of what no longer fits and create space for something new.

Callings evolve over time. Don’t be afraid to embrace new versions of yourself as life shifts and seasons change.

You don’t need all the answers to begin. Trusting your next step—especially when led by faith—is enough to get started.

Motherhood is a mission field. The work done in our homes is just as significant as the work done in the world.

Community brings clarity. Surround yourself with voices that affirm your purpose and stretch your vision.

Purpose is often found in the pause. When God hits the brakes, it's not punishment—it's preparation.

Faith-filled pivots lead to aligned purpose. The more you trust God, the more you step into what you were truly made to do.

📖 Chapters
 00:00 – Meet Jenny Townsend & Her Journey of Faith
 09:22 – Navigating Identity After Success
 14:08 – Trusting God Through Transitions
 19:55 – The Birth of Mikvé Israel and Embracing the Mission
 26:30 – Redefining Purpose as a Wife, Mother, and Leader
 32:10 – The Power of Pause and the Gift of Obedience
 37:55 – Final Encouragement: Trust the Process

👩‍💼 About Jenny Townsend
Jenny Alday Townsend is a keynote speaker, podcaster, Amazon Best Selling author, and thriving businesswoman focused on inspiring individuals to achieve balance in both their professional lives and marriage. Having experienced and triumphed over her own marital challenges, she penned the book StrokeIt is a means of providing support to others facing similar struggles. Jenny is the proud proprietor of Music Compound, a renowned music academy that has garnered accolades such as Best Woman-Owned Business and Small Business of the Year. In recognition of her outstanding achievements, Jenny was honored with the Entrepreneur of the Year award in 2019. Now happily married, Jenny takes pleasure in traveling, savoring delectable cuisine, and cherishing quality time spent with loved ones.

👉 Connect with Jenny Townsend
 Instagram: @itsjennytownsend
Facebook: Jenny Alday Townsend
LinkedIn: Jenny Alday Townsend
Website:jennyaldaytownsend.com

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In this empowering episode of Her Unshakeable Confidence, hosts Simone and Olivia Knego sit down with Whitney Faires to discuss the challenges of guilt, balance, and living with intentionality. Whitney shares her personal journey of navigating a demanding career, motherhood, and societal expectations, while emphasizing the importance of defining balance on your own terms. She provides insightful strategies for reframing adversity, separating emotions from reality, and ensuring that your choices align with your happiness and goals.

Actionable Takeaways

1. Reframe adversity as an opportunity. Take a step back, separate emotions from facts, and approach challenges with a problem-solving mindset.
   
   
2. Balance is personal. There’s no one-size-fits-all approach—what works for one person may not work for another. Define balance based on what makes you feel fulfilled.
   
   
3. Stop comparing yourself to others. Focus on what makes you happy instead of worrying about societal expectations or other people's opinions.
   
   
4. Check in with yourself regularly. Are you making choices out of obligation or because they align with your goals? Intentionality is key to living a fulfilled life.
   
   
5. Surround yourself with the right people. Having mentors, friends, and family members who can help you course-correct when you’re stressed or off-balance is invaluable.
   
   
6. Believe in yourself. Even when no one else does, confidence in your own abilities is what will ultimately drive success.
   
   

📖 Chapters
 00:00 – Introduction & Guest Background
07:15 – Reframing Adversity & Managing Emotions
18:30 – The Myth of Balance & Society’s Unrealistic Expectations
28:45 – How to Check In with Yourself & Avoid Burnout
38:05 – Final Thoughts on Intentionality & Self-Confidence

About Whitney Faires 

Whitney Faires is an internationally recognized executive coach, keynote speaker, and leadership expert. She empowers her clients to overcome obstacles and reach unthinkable performance levels with greater fulfillment. As a former corporate executive, Whitney has developed actionable strategies to help individuals strengthen their mindset, cultivate resilience, and unlock untapped potential.

She is the creator of “The Excellence Equation,” an innovative 8-step framework to take professionals from underestimated to unstoppable. Through her transformative coaching, Whitney empowers high achievers to overcome self-doubt, navigate uncertainty, and break through performance ceilings. Her blend of professional expertise and personal warmth has made her a trusted advisor and a catalyst for meaningful growth in the lives of countless clients.

Outside of her professional pursuits, Whitney is a devoted wife and proud mom. She is often spotted on the sidelines cheering on her kids, working out, baking, or enjoying a lively family game night.
 
Connect with Whitney Faires

Website: WhitneyFaires.com
Instagram: @Whitney_Faires
LinkedIn: Whitney Faires
Facebook: Whitney Faires Coaching 

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In this powerful episode of Her Unshakeable Confidence, co-hosts Simone and Olivia Knego dive deep into the gender-based double standards that still shape our world—from careers and parenting to relationships, aging, and personal autonomy.With raw honesty and thoughtful humor, they discuss the pressures women face to "have it all" and still be likable, the outdated expectations placed on mothers and fathers, and the societal contradictions around appearance, sexuality, and success. This episode is a must-listen for anyone tired of the double binds and ready to challenge the status quo.Whether you're a woman navigating the workplace, a parent raising the next generation, or simply curious about how culture shapes identity, this episode offers insight, empathy, and empowerment.Actionable TakeawaysDouble standards still exist—call them out.

From the workplace to the home, challenge outdated beliefs that put women at a disadvantage.Educate the next generation. Raising kids with awareness and gender equality in mind is key to lasting change.Confidence isn't conditional. You don’t need permission to take up space, speak your truth, or go after what you want.Challenge sexual double standards. Everyone deserves the right to privacy and respect—regardless of gender.Kids mirror what they see. Lead by example—how you treat yourself teaches your children how to treat others.Respect is non-negotiable. Focus on holding people accountable for their actions.

Redefine beauty at every age. Challenge unrealistic standards and embrace the strength and wisdom that come with aging.

📖 Chapters 
00:00 – What It Means to “Have It All”
07:24 – Career Pressure, Politics & Perception
13:08 – Parenting Expectations & Gender Roles
20:45 – Pregnancy, Postpartum & Body Image
26:04 – Sexuality, Shame, and the “Body Count” Narrative
29:01 – Dating Age Gaps & Social Hypocrisy
30:09 – Victim Blaming and the “What Were You Wearing?” Mentality
32:14 – What Real Change Looks Like
34:30 – Raising Kids with Confidence and Equality

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In this episode of Her Unshakeable Confidence, hosts Simone and Olivia Knego chat with Babs of Babs Boards, a charcuterie expert and TV personality, about the art of hosting with confidence. Babs shares expert tips on creating stunning grazing tables, designing seating arrangements that spark engaging conversations, and ensuring a stress-free entertaining experience. She also opens up about her inspiring career pivot from accounting to becoming a sought-after charcuterie artist, proving that it’s never too late to follow your passion and embrace change. Whether you're an experienced host or just starting out, this episode is packed with confidence-boosting hosting hacks and a powerful reminder that you can always pivot and create something amazing.

Actionable Takeaways

✅ Thoughtful seating arrangements enhance dinner party conversations—consider assigning a "Middler" to keep everyone engaged.
✅ A grazing table should be built high and overflowing for maximum visual impact. Fresh flowers and varied heights add beauty.
✅ Hosting with confidence means planning ahead, so you're able to enjoy the party, too.
✅ Confidence isn’t about perfection—it’s about showing up and making the experience enjoyable for everyone.
✅ You can pivot at any stage of life—follow your passions and embrace new opportunities.

Chapters

00:00 – Welcome and Introducing Babs
05:30 – The Art of Hosting: Seating, Energy, and Engagement
12:15 – Charcuterie vs. Grazing Tables: Key Differences
20:40 – Babs’ Journey: From Accounting to Entertaining Expert
30:00 – Dreaming Big: TV, Good Morning America, and Future Goals
38:00 – Final Thoughts: Confidence in Entertaining and LifeAbout Babs

Babs is the founder of Babs Boards, a brand dedicated to creating beautiful, delicious charcuterie boards and grazing tables. A former accountant turned entertaining expert, she has appeared on numerous TV segments, sharing her passion for food, hospitality, and confidence in the kitchen. With a love for bringing people together, Babs inspires others to host with ease and joy.

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🌎 Website: BabsBoards.com
📸 Instagram: @BabsBoards
📘 Facebook: Babs Boards  🔗 LinkedIn: Babs Boards

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In this episode of Her Unshakeable Confidence, hosts Simone and Olivia Knego dive into the dynamics of parent-child relationships, focusing on the role of judgment and how it impacts openness and trust. Olivia reflects on her experiences growing up in a household where she felt safe to share mistakes and challenges without fear of judgment. Together, they contrast this with the experiences of many of her peers, who struggle with fear of parental disappointment.

Simone shares her own childhood experiences, where judgment and societal expectations influenced her interactions with her parents. She highlights how she and her husband intentionally created an environment where their children could come to them with anything—no judgment, just guidance and support. The conversation also explores the balance between being a supportive parent and setting necessary boundaries to help children grow into confident, self-sufficient individuals.

The discussion takes a personal turn as Simone and Olivia reflect on family dynamics, sibling relationships, and how generational shifts in parenting styles impact the way children navigate challenges. Simone also shares her thoughts on aging, confidence, and the wisdom that comes with life experience.

🚀 Actionable Takeaways

🛑 Judgment builds walls, openness builds trust. Create an environment where your children feel safe discussing their mistakes and challenges.
🗣 Conversations over control. Instead of imposing strict rules, instill values and engage in discussions that help children make informed decisions.
👀 Set boundaries, not barriers. Being a supportive parent doesn’t mean saying yes to everything—boundaries help build confidence and independence.
😂 Laugh together, don’t judge apart. Replace criticism with humor and understanding to strengthen your relationship.
💡 Aging brings confidence. With experience comes the realization that failure is just a step in the learning process and that true confidence comes from self-acceptance.

📖 Chapters

00:00 – The Role of Judgment in Parent-Child Relationships
05:30 – Why Open Communication Matters
12:15 – Setting Boundaries Without Breaking Trust
18:45 – Sibling Relationships and Family Dynamics
25:00 – Confidence, Aging, and Life Experience

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Episode Summary

In this episode of Her Unshakeable Confidence, hosts Simone and Olivia Knego sit down with high-performance coach, author, and speaker Kate McKay to dive deep into self-respect, confidence, and resilience. Kate shares her powerful perspective on how self-honor, rather than just self-love, plays a crucial role in building a strong sense of self.They explore the impact of external judgment, the misconceptions around confidence, and the importance of standing firm in your worth—no matter what stage of life you're in. From navigating negative criticism to embracing both discipline and dessert, this conversation is packed with wisdom, humor, and actionable insights for anyone seeking to show up fully as themselves


Actionable Takeaways

Self-Honor Over Self-Love – Respecting yourself is the foundation for confidence and resilience.
Not Everyone Will Like You—And That's Okay – Confidence can trigger others, but it’s not your job to shrink to make them comfortable.

Always Eat Dessert! – Life is meant to be enjoyed. Balance discipline with joy.

Agility is Key – True resilience comes from psychological agility—being able to adapt, stay committed, and move forward despite challenges.

Confidence is a Choice – Show up as your full self and own your journey without apology.

Chapters
00:00 – Introduction to Kate McKay
05:30 – Navigating Judgment & Confidence Misconceptions
12:45 – Self-Respect vs. Self-Love: What Matters More?
20:10 – The Importance of Psychological Agility
27:50 – Why Fortitude is the Key to Unshakable Confidence
38:20 – Self-Honor and Embracing Who You Are at Any Age
45:00 – Closing Reflections & Final Takeaways

📢 Connect with Kate McKay
👉 Website: Kate McKay  
👉 Instagram: @katemckay  
👉 Podcast: Master Your Life

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Episode Summary

In this episode of Her Unshakeable Confidence, hosts Simone and Olivia Knego sit down with Amanda Greaves for a thought-provoking discussion on the importance of listening, coaching, and personal growth. Amanda shares insights from her coaching journey, emphasizing how truly hearing others can transform relationships and leadership. She also reflects on one of the best pieces of advice she’s ever received: How you do anything is how you do everything.

The conversation explores how our patterns of behavior—whether in personal or professional settings—reflect our deeper mindset. They dive into the power of resilience, the significance of showing up fully in every aspect of life, and why moving forward is always the key to overcoming setbacks. The episode ends with a powerful reminder: The only way out is forward.

Actionable Takeaways

Active listening is a game-changer. Instead of focusing on what to say next, truly hear what others are sharing.

How you show up in one area of life reflects how you approach everything—consistency is key.
Coaching isn’t about dictating—it’s about guiding individuals to find their own answers.
Confidence isn’t about perfection—it’s about showing up authentically, even when no one is watching.

The only way out is forward. Don’t dwell on the past; focus on what’s next.

Chapters
00:00 – The Importance of Truly Listening
05:15 – Coaching: Guiding, Not Dictating
12:30 – How You Do Anything Is How You Do Everything
20:45 – Moving Forward Through Setbacks
30:00 – Final Thoughts: Charging Up Your Confidence

About Amanda Greaves
Amanda Greaves is a professional coach, speaker, and entrepreneur with a passion for helping individuals discover their unique strengths. Through her work, she provides tools and strategies to help clients navigate challenges, redefine success, and build confidence. Her approach is rooted in deep listening, self-discovery, and empowering others to take meaningful action in their lives.

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Website: AmandaGreaves.com
Instagram: @Amanda_Greaves

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💡 Episode Summary

In this episode of Her Unshakeable Confidence, hosts Simone and Olivia Knego have a raw and honest conversation about dealing with pressure, imposter syndrome, and the importance of self-care. Olivia opens up about the challenges of law school, the overwhelming workload, and the struggle of comparing herself to others. Together, they unpack how stress can build up when we neglect ourselves and why prioritizing even small moments of self-care can make all the difference.

Simone offers wisdom on shifting focus to what we can control, rather than being consumed by external pressures. They also reflect on the unrealistic expectations placed on high-achievers and the necessity of redefining success on our own terms. The episode ends with key realizations about the power of self-awareness, resilience, and making time for self-care—even in the busiest seasons of life.

🚀 Actionable Takeaways

🧠 Imposter syndrome is normal. Feeling like you don’t belong doesn’t mean you aren’t capable or worthy.

🎯 Focus on what you can control. You can’t change everything, but you can take the next step in front of you.

💡 Redefine success. It’s not about being perfect—it’s about learning, growing, and doing your best.

💖 Make self-care a daily habit. Even 10 minutes a day can help reset your mindset and prevent burnout.

🌱 Comparison steals joy. Your journey is yours alone. Stop measuring yourself against others and trust your own path.

📖 Chapters

00:00 – When Confidence Gets Shaken
05:20 – Law School Pressure and Imposter Syndrome
12:30 – Why Self-Care Can’t Wait Until Burnout
18:00 – Breaking Free from the Comparison Trap
25:15 – Taking Small Steps Toward a Healthier Mindset

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