I am writing this post and also using my own advice to get my infant to sleep through the night. When she was born, we had a great routine and she only woke once through the night. Now, at seven months old she has decided sleeping is not for her.
As she is not my first child, I understand what is going on and am here to offer advice for you moms who might become frustrated with bedtime.
There is no need to have your house turned upside down and you exhausted because your baby won't sleep. With simple but consistent ideas and routines you, your hubby, and most importantantly, your baby will sleep through the night.
Reasons why my baby won't sleep?
There are multiple reasons why your baby won't sleep or won't stay asleep.
From an early age on, your baby may need to feed, They may want a more consistent bedtime and routine. It could be a comfort issue where they feel a little anxiety from separation, now that they're aware. When teething starts they may feel discomfort enough to pull them out of deep sleep. Sickness also comes into play as your baby may not be able to breathe or they have a fever.Comfortable clothes can cause discomfort.Last, their diaper may need a change.
Understanding your baby's needs before you change or try something new is crucial. Each baby and age are needing different things at different times. Parents also have different schedules, so rarely is this a one size fits all concept.
During the first 2 months, your newborn's need to eat overrules her need to sleep. She may feed almost every 2 hours if you're breastfeeding, and possibly a little less often if you bottle-feed.Your baby may sleep from 10 to 18 hours a day, sometimes for 3 to 4 hours at a time. But babies don’t know the difference between day and night. So they sleep with no regard for what time it is. That means your baby’s wide-awake time may be from 1 a.m. to 5 a.m.By 3 to 6 months, many babies are able to sleep for a stretch of 6 hours. But just as you think your baby is getting into a nice routine -- usually between 6 and 9 months -- normal developmental stages can throw things off. For instance, when your baby begins to associate bedtime with being left alone, she may start crying just to keep you around.WebMD
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Hunger- Newborns and up to a year, babies are often hungry. As you probably have this figured out early on you may forget. Using my own experience as an example, my baby and I had a great feeding routine at night until one night she just would not stay asleep. As she is seven months old I thought, "what the heck is going on?" Going through the list of are you feeding her, check, is she sick, diaper full, etc. I couldn't figure it out. It wasn't until I talked with my experienced mother did I figure out I wasn't feeding her enough.
I would nurse her during the day and feed her extra food, but it just wasn't enough food. After realizing this, I started feeding her throughout the day and two hours before I would lay her down at night. Bananas, cereal, squash, whatever she wanted, and was healthy for her, and let her eat her fill.
I honestly thought she would get the biggest bellyache of her life the first night I did this, but I let her tell me when she had enough. Signs like turning her head to say, "no," and so on. That night she didn't sleep all through the night, but she slept a lot longer in between and it was more peaceful.
Anxiety- At the start of six months, babies seem to develop a few separation issues. They know when mom and dad aren't there and often cry when they leave the room.