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  • 53. Hubbies and Havers

    Can you have a husband AND a best friend?! Well, we sure think so! But many women aren't quite sure if or how the two can coexist harmoniously. Prompted by a conversation Stacey had with her husband, we talk about how friendship is not only good for women, but when it's done well can be good for our husbands, too. Every one of us should find joy and fulfillment in both relationships without feeling guilty that BOTH are needed, wanted, and bring us life!  



    31 min
  • 52. Fishers of Friends

    Has God ever told you to “Drop your net" and "Come, follow me!" We remember when this happened to us—both of us in our own boats, doing our own thing, when Jesus said, "Hey, you two, drop what you're doing and come with Me... together!"

    Little did we know all those years ago the sacrifices it would take but how much greater the "Kingdom catch" would be! If you're feeling called by God to new paths and adventures, listen in for encouragement and how Friendship tells "the story of survival, resilience, and beauty borne through perseverance" when you put your nets down and GO. This is Kingdom Friendship in Motion!


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    34 min
  • 51. When You Go, I Stay

    Do you want to know what to do when you get yourself into a friendship pickle?! Well for starters, you can try not listening to this podcast! :) Sometimes it's okay to commit to something simply because your friend asks you to, but we are learning (through much pain and gnashing of teeth) that as God calls us deeper and higher together, no decision should be made lightly, and that sometimes the best thing you can do for your friend is to STAY when God calls her to GO. 

    33 min
  • 50. Happy (Jewish) New Year, Var!

    We are in a remarkable new season where we get to exchange old ways for new, striving for rest, and limitation for freedom from all the things that have held us back. 

    The calendar year has been reset, and with it comes the grace to abide in Jesus and align with others who are on the same mission as us. 

    Friendship has never been so important!

    36 min
  • Friendship Friday 10: Women of Valor

    In moments of chaos and every kind of disorder, God will set apart persons to accomplish a holy work on the earth. If you haven't noticed, we are living in one of those moments now. The times are ripe for mighty women of valor to arise in power, to come forth in purpose, and to carry out holy assignments. It all starts with understanding who we are and what it means to be chosen and set apart.   

    To catch up on this week's main topic, listen to HIGH VOLTAGE Friendship, Episode 49 here. 

    8 min
  • 49. HIGH VOLTAGE Friendship

    Have you ever wondered what makes some friendships stagnant and others a force to be reckoned with?! In this episode, we break down what it means to be set apart to accomplish a good and holy work, and how engaging in that work is like a high voltage electrical current, moving us from one point to the next. Basically, we're Friendship scientists now. 

    Also, Stacey announces a new venture that's been on her heart for a while that is finally launching with the help, of course, from her High Voltage Var. Hey, we can't talk about Friendship moving mountains unless we actually move mountains with it! So plug into the HAVAR (Friendship in motion) power and join us, and after you listen to the episode, we would LOVE it if you would follow the brand new Blink 3x on Facebook & Instagram! 


    26 min
  • Friendship Friday 09: Focus Your Faith in the Midst of Distraction and Confusion

    This Week's Friendship Friday is inspired by Behind the Chair Ministries Weekly Encouragements called "Lifelines."

    Distractions and Confusion often come to hinder and entangle us along our Faith Journey,  but when we learn to focus, we have the opportunity to persevere with guidance from God, the ultimate Path Maker and Lifeline.


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    7 min
  • 48. The Power of Staying in Your Lane with Alena Moore and Carlen Spruell

    We found more Vars, and we couldn't be more excited!!!   This week on the podcast we had the privilege of chatting with Alena Moore and Carlen Spruell from Behind the Chair Ministries. This dynamic pair is the real deal! They've been friends for over 30 years who work, minister, and do life together. Throughout this conversation, they give us a unique perspective on being a team while keeping the work of the Kingdom the most important thing through the challenges and victories of Friendship. We're inspired and happy!   

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    42 min
  • Friendship Friday 08: Broken Dishwashers & Destiny
    Are you mixing what you've heard God say with the faith to actually DO it? On today's episode, Stacey challenges us to step through the window of opportunity, because it won't stay open forever! It is to our benefit to not only hear God but to obey Him, and we must have the wisdom to step into the new before the old completely breaks down.
    6 min

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