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  • 43. Misunderstanding: The Great Friendship Divider

    Have you ever had a misunderstanding in a friendship that caused a tiff, a rift, a blow up or a meltdown? No? Ok, us either, but let's talk about it anyway for fun's sake, shall we? 

    Misunderstanding probably gets us all everyday, multiple times a day! No shame here, friend; it happens to the best of us. But, instead of playing the blame game over how she was so wrong and we were so right, how about we better understand where misunderstanding comes from, how to communicate better to avoid it, and what to do if you're stuck in the middle of it now?   

    We might have a TINY (with capital letters) bit of experience in this area, so listen in for help and, as usual, a few ridiculous stories of our flawed ways and God's remarkable grace that continues to show us ways to do Friendship better than we could without Him or each other.

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    Tabatha Haines & Stacey March

    -The Friendship Coaches


    46 min
  • Friendship Friday 02 | Take Courage Var! Creativity is on the Way
    Today on the Podcast, Tabatha shares her take on how we are just one Spirit-Filled Friend away from tapping into our creative potential  when we are courageous enough to allow them to encourage, elevate, and pull our creativity to the surface.
    Tune in every "Friendship Friday", as we share a thought, tip, or highlight, from our Podcast Topic of the Week.
    Don't forget to SHARE and LEAVE A REVIEW, to help us "MAKE FRIENDSHIP FAMOUS."
    Tabatha Haines and Stacey March,
    -The Friendship Coaches
    8 min
  • 42. Letting Creativity Out of the Friendship Box

    Studies show that the Creativity factor is the number one recognized attribute in successful leaders; that creativity is a revenue generator; and that every person alive (that means you!) is born creative. Basically, we have to learn how NOT to be creative, and we’re sure doing a bang-up job at that (thank you western culture, technology, and the anxiety of hustle)!   

    So, I bet you can guess we’re going against that in this episode to unleash some Creativity, both in our personal lives and in our Friendships! We’ll talk about how to get Creativity flowing if you feel stuck, why it’s important that you create, and how to do it together so that you build something that lasts.   

    We hope this episode leaves you inspired and ready to become the Creative Genius you are so that your personal expression lives loud on the earth today!   

    For more, check out the book Big Little Breakthroughs, How Small, Everyday Innovations Drive Oversized Results by Josh Linkner.

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    47 min
  • Friendship Friday 01 | Cover Her

    Join us, Every Friday, as we check in on the Podcast of the Week by sharing a few special points, to give you something to think about over the weekend and work on in your very own Friendships. 

    On today's Friendship Friday Episode, Stacey talks about the importance of Covering your Friend in Grace and Love.

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    Tabatha and Stacey,

    The Friendship Coaches

    9 min
  • 41. Cheerleaders VS Champions: We are the Champions, Our Friends
    This week we’re moving from cheerleading to championing! Now listen, there’s not one thing wrong with having or being a cheerleader to someone. We all need and love our cheerleaders! But every week we try to pay attention to where God is leading us, not just give commentary on where we’re currently parked. And that means this week we feel God moving us from bench warming to getting inside the game with our friend. There IS a difference! We spent 8 years thinking we were one way, when in reality we were the other. 
    You can be on the outside looking in or live with her from the inside out. Guess which one we’re going for?! THE CHAMPION on the inside! If you want to be one too, join us on this podcast. This is the difference between encouraging her in her calling and defending it right along with her. She has enough cheerleaders. What she needs is a Champion.
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    40 min
  • 40. Be the Change
    “Everybody wants change. But nobody wants to change.”  
    Change is happening all around us. We can’t deny it. We can’t stop it. What we CAN do is engage with the kind of change God is calling us to make, and usually that involves changing something in ourselves first. Sound scary? It can be! Unless you have a Friend.
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    Are We Friends Yet?! If not, find us on the Socials and say "Hey!"
    IG https://www.instagram.com/theflawsoffriendship/?hl=en
    FB https://www.facebook.com/theflawsoffriendship
    37 min
  • 39. A Close Call: How Friendship Releases Purpose

    Have you ever asked yourself why you are here on the earth and how do you accomplish what you’ve been put here to DO?!  

    We never do this. Except every other day. We’re not entirely sure we have the answers, obviously, but we think walking fully in our Callings might have something to do with who we bind ourselves to in life. These people (if they’re the right people!) help us achieve what we never could alone. Even though it’s a big word that feels about as attainable as walking on water—come on, Friend, let’s see if we can make some sense of it!


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    52 min
  • 38. Living with Arms Wide Open: Casual Vs Committed Friendship

    To move from casual connection to committed affection requires trust, obedience and, above all, a giving and receiving of love, as someone else's hopes, dreams, and destiny fill your arms with Life.

    People are begging for a place to truly be themselves: accepted, loved, and not left behind. A place to truly belong, to stretch and grow with honest and loving accountability. But these places can seem like a fable, just out of reach.

    But maybe, just maybe, we were made to experience something more: closeness to someone that makes us feel seen, heard, and known.

    Look into the eyes of the friend God has placed in front of you. Her commitment is calling to you and daring you to test its breadth. And my dear friend, I can tell you right now, it's wide enough for you to step into. The arms of covenantal love that Won't. Let. Go.

    And if you accept it, its power will heal, strengthen, and catapult you into deeper places of intimacy and calling that you have longed for but could never achieve... Alone.

    Join us on Podcast Episode #38, as we discuss:

    What  Covenantal Friendship is and What Is It Not

    How to Know If You’re Called to One

    Why It Might Be Hard to Make One

    How Covenant Leads to Calling

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    Blog of the Week Excerpt:

    So, I’m making a covenant with you.”

    Perhaps the breakdown was in my delivery, but honestly, I expected something a little more grateful or weepingly ecstatic because of what I had just offered her—my undying commitment until my last earthly breath. Instead, she sounded somewhat alarmed as she asked what that meant and if she was supposed to make one back, sort of with the reflection in her voice that said she had just eaten one of her allergic foods that was triggering her gag reflex. I said I wasn’t really sure. She accepted my covenant, thanked me, and we hung up, my car rolling a little lopsided on the wheels of a one-way commitment.

    Read More Here: https://www.flawsoffriendship.com/post/friendship-living-with-arms-wide-open

    36 min
  • 37. The Courage to Connect (Even When You Don't Want To!)
    Where do you rank on the Friendship Courage Scale?! Do you think you’re a Beginner, Intermediate, or Expert? How to tell may surprise you!    
    No matter where you are, come with us as we explore how to be Courageous enough to risk being open and honest with what we need in order to keep healthy, ongoing connection in the face of our differences. As usual this lesson came to us the hard way, but it was good and worth it in the end. Stacey achieved Repentant Status while Tabatha catapulted up a Level.   
    Check out the blog “The Courage to Connect (Even When You Don’t Want To!)” here:
    https://www.flawsoffriendship.com/post/the-courage-to-connect-even-when-you-don-t-want-to
    Don't forget to Subscribe, Share, and Leave a Review to Join us on the Journey to Making Friendship Famous.
    39 min
  • 36. Girl, It's Time to Blaze a Trail: The Law of Pioneering

    Maybe we should stop focusing on what we can’t do, and start focusing on what God has called us to do! And sometimes those things He calls us to are blazing trails so that others can move forward in the paths we leave behind.   

    Are you one of those called to Blaze a Trail?! If so, this week on the Podcast we take a look at 3 Trailblazers in the Bible who show us that Intimacy with God, Risk in the face of losing everything, and Influence in the high places are vital to fulfilling our callings in this world.


    Read the Blog Here: https://www.flawsoffriendship.com/post/girl-it-s-time-to-blaze-a-trail-the-law-of-pioneering

    27 min

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