Have you ever wondered why you and your partner keep having the same fight over and over again?
Maybe it's the kids.
The dishes.
Feeling unappreciated.
Not getting enough time together.
Or one person wanting to talk while the other needs space.
But what if the thing you're fighting about... isn't actually what you're fighting about?
In Episode 53 of High Vibe Moms Club, Shannon sits down with relationship experts Debra Stangl and Richard Kepple, retreat leaders at Sedona Soul Adventures and co-authors of High-Vibe Relationship, for a fascinating conversation about the hidden emotional patterns that shape our relationships.
Before founding Sedona Soul Adventures, Debra spent more than 20 years working inside divorce courtrooms. One pattern she saw repeatedly was people leaving one relationship, only to eventually find themselves experiencing many of the same problems with someone new.
In this episode, Debra and Richard explain why unresolved core wounds, subconscious patterns, emotional triggers, and unmet needs can continue showing up in our relationships until we're willing to look beneath the surface.
We also explore why conflict isn't necessarily proof that your relationship is failing. Sometimes, it can reveal something within ourselves that still needs our attention.
One of my favorite ideas from this conversation is simple:
Your relationship is too important to neglect.
Especially during the years when you're raising kids, managing careers, juggling schedules, and taking care of everyone else, it's incredibly easy for your relationship to slowly move to the bottom of the priority list.
But reconnecting doesn't have to begin with changing your partner.
Sometimes it begins with understanding your own triggers, patterns, needs, and reactions a little more deeply.
Whether you're happily married and simply want to feel more connected, you're navigating the same recurring conflict, or you're working on becoming a healthier version of yourself within your relationship, this episode will give you a completely different way to think about love, conflict, and connection.
Connect with Debra & Richard
Learn more about their work, relationship retreats, and Sedona Soul Adventures:
Sedona Soul Adventures
Connect with Shannon
Come say hi on Instagram: @shannongetzfit
If this episode made you think about your relationship differently, send it to your partner or another woman who needs to hear it. 💕
⚠️ Disclaimer:
The information shared in this episode is for educational and informational purposes only. It reflects our personal experiences and research and is not intended to be medical advice. Please consult with a licensed healthcare provider before making any changes to your health routine, medications, or treatment plans.