Higher Self Leadership, In between

Fulfillment, Fullness & Wholeness

• We often confuse fullness with fulfillment.

• We try to fill ourselves with food, work, love, money, alcohol, achievements… yet still feel empty.

• Fullness can leave us heavy, stuck, or even more empty.

• Fulfillment is different—it is the feeling of wholeness made alive in us.

• The chase for external fulfillment is rooted in forgetting our true nature: we are already whole.

• When we remember this, we stop compensating with fullness and begin leading, creating, and living from coherence.

• Fulfillment is not a destination or a trophy.

• It is the natural overflow of wholeness already present within us.

• Leadership is not about speaking louder — it’s about listening deeper.

• Discover why true communication begins with silence.

• Learn how deep listening creates trust, safety, and innovation in teams.

• Explore how to become the “ears of heaven” — opening space for clarity, wisdom, and truth to emerge.

• Practical reflections on using silence as strength, not weakness.

Tune in now and practice the art of deep listening in your leadership journey.

Letting go of what we think we know

Today I explored how often we seek confirmation rather than true learning.

Validation feels safer – but it keeps us stagnant.

Real leadership is about intellectual humility: being willing to not know, to refine, to see new perspectives without feeling threatened.

Ask yourself today:

- Where am I seeking certainty instead of expansion?
- Where could I stretch into a new perspective rather than confirm what I already know?

Happy contemplation

n this contemplative episode, Valarie Sandjivy invites us into the sacred space of posing—not as a break or downtime, but as a powerful energetic field between two movements, two phases, two notes.

Far from passive, the pause holds deep intelligence. Valarie shares personal reflections on how silence, stillness, and void have shaped her leadership path—from corporate pivots to entrepreneurial awakenings.

She explores the discomfort that often arises in stillness, the paradox of speaking about silence, and the difference between procrastinating and consciously pausing. This is not a teaching—but a gentle offering, a space for you to meet your own truth.

✨ What if your next evolution is not in the doing, but in your capacity to hold the silence?

Perfect for visionaries navigating change, this episode invites you to reflect on:

• Why silence feels threatening to the ego

• The wisdom that emerges in the void

• How to discern true pause from resistance

• The energetic attunement needed before big creation

📓 Contemplation prompt:
Where are you resisting the pause? What might be trying to birth through your stillness?

In this episode of In Between, the Higher Self Leadership Podcast, Valarie redefines one of the most feared words in leadership: failure. What if failure doesn’t exist and what we’re actually experiencing are iterations?

Valarie shares how this subtle shift in language carries a powerful energetic shift. Instead of shame, guilt, and stuckness, iteration invites learning, movement, and evolution. When we see each challenge as part of a training ground rather than a dead end, we collapse time and reclaim our creative momentum.

Tune in to explore:

• Why the fear of failure blocks action and clarity

• How embracing iterations leads to deeper leadership embodiment

• The true source of our exhaustion (hint: it’s not the experience itself)

• Why every experience is here to refine and expand you

You’re not failing. You’re iterating. And iteration is how we grow, lead, and leap.

Happy contemplation and happy iterations.

In this episode of In Between, the Higher Self Leadership Podcast, we dismantle the word acceptance — a concept often mistaken for passivity, but in truth, a powerful portal into clarity, presence, and energetic alignment. Valarie invites you to explore how real acceptance is not about giving up, but about reclaiming your power, collapsing time, and crossing the bridge between what is and what wants to emerge in your leadership and life. A must-listen for leaders navigating uncertainty, transition, or the quiet call for pause.

In this deeply reflective episode of In-Between: A Higher Self-Leadership Podcast, host Valarie invites us to explore the creative and intentional power of words. What if words are more than sound—what if they are life made form? Through personal stories and profound insights, Valarie delves into the relationship between language, silence, and presence. She reflects on her own childhood discomfort with excessive talking and how this shaped her sensitivity to meaningful communication.

Valarie urges leaders, mentors, and visionaries to consider the intention behind their words. She draws a powerful distinction between “talking” from the mind—often to fill a void—and “speaking” from a place of purpose and presence. In both corporate and personal settings, she advocates for pausing before speaking, listening deeply, and selecting words that align with the energy and meaning we truly want to convey.

This episode is a call to conscious leadership through language—reminding us that the words we choose can shape reality, connection, and impact. If you’re craving a more thoughtful, resonant approach to communication, this episode offers both a challenge and an invitation: to speak less from habit, and more from the heart.

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In this deeply reflective episode, Valarie explores presence as our true source of inner power—not a luxury, but a birthright we often forget. With clarity and warmth, she unpacks why we so often disconnect from the present moment, caught in loops of distraction, worry, and the need for control. Presence, she reminds us, isn’t something we need to achieve—it’s something we are. Through her personal journey with meditation, yoga, and daily life challenges, Valarie shows how presence can be cultivated anywhere—not just in peaceful spaces, but also in busy subways, work meetings, and everyday moments.

She shares how true presence dissolves fear, sharpens clarity, and helps us make aligned decisions. It allows us to embodywhat we know, to magnetize the right people and situations, and to sense what others don’t say. Above all, it reconnects us with our soul, away from the illusions of the mind. This episode invites you not only to listen—but to feel, to slow down, and to gently return to yourself.

Tune in if you're ready to explore the power, clarity, and freedom that come from simply being present—because presence, as Valarie says, is completely free and always within reach.

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In this powerful episode, host Valarie dives into the transformative potential of chaos in leadership. Far from being a destructive force to fear, she reframes chaos as a necessary and creative disruption—a sign that something outdated is ready to be reshaped. Through personal reflections and leadership insights, Valarie explains how chaos breaks down rigid structures, not to ruin us, but to make space for innovation, growth, and authenticity.

She explores how resisting change only deepens discomfort, while embracing chaos as a portal opens the door to new ideas, strategies, and ways of being. Leaders, she says, are not meant to control the chaos, but to remain centered within it—developing inner stability that becomes a compass for their teams and organizations.

Whether you’re navigating a professional pivot, restructuring a business, or facing personal uncertainty, Valarie offers a grounded perspective: the end is never just an end—it’s a gateway. With her signature warmth and clarity, she invites us to ask: Where am I resisting the very transformation that could set me free?

Tune in for a fresh, soulful take on leadership, change, and the power of letting go.

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In this episode of In-Between, A Higher Self-Leadership Podcast, host Valarie Sandjivy redefines acceptance as a powerful activation tool rather than passive resignation. Speaking directly to leaders, she challenges the common misconception that acceptance means giving up or settling. Instead, she offers a transformative view: true acceptance is about holding presence, creating energetic neutrality, and allowing clarity and wisdom to emerge—especially in moments of discomfort.

Valarie shares personal reflections and leadership insights to illustrate how resisting experiences can delay growth, while conscious acceptance can collapse time and unlock quantum leaps. She explains how our ego's need to fix and control often blocks the deeper wisdom embedded in challenging situations. By staying open, present, and nonjudgmental, we access a deeper co-creative power that leads us forward faster and with more purpose.

Whether you’re navigating a failed project, a mismatched hire, or unmet expectations, this episode will shift how you relate to obstacles—and yourself. It's not about surrendering to fate, but stepping into your inner authority and trusting that each experience carries the seed of transformation.

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