Episode 006 - The Time We Went to a Hotel Takeover

We are back after a 5-month hiatus. Kids, family, the holidays, and a sexy trip have occupied our time. After our trip back to Cancun, we are feeling energized and ready to share more about our hot dog and donut journey! We hope you enjoy us!

SHOW NOTES

•         01:40 – We are back! Did you miss us? Let’s get back on the train.

•         05:12 – Johnny’s con-cock-tion: Miami Vice; layered pina colada and strawberry daiquiri. Both have rum.

•         08:45 – What have we been up to? Spreading seasoning or seed. Lifestyle stuff is hard.

•         14:15 – What sound do you make when you cum? NOT “Eureka!!” Sylvester Stallone says, “Wham, Ham, Slam!”

•         16:30 – We went to a hotel takeover with Richard and Lauren of Room 77 and give our review of our time there.

•         42:40 – Measuring by a “cunt hair” Johnny picks DRM by a cunt hair. Julie picks hotel takeover.

•         45:30 – Meatball marriage therapy; how to handle communication in the moment between partners.

•         54:20 – 10 Minutes to Quit. Julie videoed playing with herself using a toy. Johnny is going to law school and made a sex video for another couple.

SHOW LINKS

•   Miami Vice – https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Miami_Vice  

•   Sylvester Stallone saying when he cums - https://www.anorak.co.uk/160814/reviews/bam-ham-slam-thank-you-maam.html

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Episode 005 - The Time We Talked…or Didn't

Our podcast is evolving and becoming more “real”. We are still working out the bugs and finding our voice and want to have a genuine conversation that avoids a script. With this “new” format, we take on the conversation about – conversation. Why do girls talk about everything, and guys talk about nothing? It’s time for everyone to be open and honest about their thoughts and concerns. We are all thinking it. Why not just say it? Enjoy our hotdogs and donuts!

SHOW NOTES

• 02:45 – Johnny’s con-cock-tion: margarita. Rocks, no salt.
• 07:45 – Our show is evolving, and we are still finding our voice. We want to share our raw conversations that we have every day.
• 12:10 – Why is it that women talk about EVERYTHING, and guys talk about NOTHING?
• 17:45 – Are there any men LS groups where guys talk about issues like the women do?
• 19:25 – The lifestyle has opened up many conversations that we likely would not have had if we weren’t in the lifestyle.
• 20:20 – Remember that you are not alone. Many people, especially guys, think they are the only one having an issue.
• 23:25 – Playing with Johnny’s butthole is a slow process.
• 26:00 – Shower versus grower. Johnny is a grower with a “turtle in the shell.”
• 28:45 – Does boob size matter to women?
• 31:10 – Johnny is an assman but loves boobs because of Julie.
• 34:15 – Two great tastes that taste great together. Reese’s commercial and how that applies to the lifestyle.
• 37:15 – Ten minutes to quit. Johnny – rebuilt a motorcycle, and clipping wires on a bomb.
• 42:00 – Julie – watched Johnny finish with another woman.

SHOW LINKS

• Jose Cuervo Margarita Mix - https://cuervo.com/products/jose-cuervo-margarita-mix/
• Reese’s Cup Commercial - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DJLDF6qZUX0
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Episode 004 - The Time We Played with Chemistry

We swear we are not science geeks, but it is so hard to avoid looking at when our brains, emotions, and actions are all tied to the chemicals in our bodies. More than that though, the law of attraction kicks in to make sure we actually like each other and have, you know, chemistry.

In this episode, we talk about attraction and how to handle situations when one person just doesn’t click with another. Johnny shares his big con-“cock”-tion and dabble with some meatball marriage therapy of a woman that isn’t sure if the guy in the other relationship really likes her. The episode ends with someone getting their salad tossed and we aren’t talking about iceberg lettuce.

SHOW NOTES

• 02:30 – Johnny’s “DJ” past and working as in a strip club.
• 05:30 – On a science kick lately, so let’s talk about chemistry and rim jobs.
• 06:50 – Johnny’s con-“cock”-tion: Sex on the Beach, Very Meek Chicks Pray for sex on the beach. Vodka, Midori, Chambord, and Peach Schnapps with orange juice, cranberry, and a splash of pineapple juice.
• 13:25 – What have Julie and Johnny been up to? Kids and sports! Julie went “snow skiing”.
• 19:15 – The meat of the episode. What does chemistry mean to the lifestyle?
• 22:25 – Physical attraction can lend itself to chemistry, but there are many things that people are attracted to.
• 27:00 – Do you take one for the team? Maybe the dynamic in one situation is off one night but on another night.
• 29:00 – Hormones in our body are regulated by our brains and we are not in control or aware of those hormones making our bodies react in a certain way.
• 33:25 – Words can also affect the chemistry between people and how they react to each other.
• 35:00 – How do partners talk to each other?
• 37:40 – Meatball marriage therapy: Female of one couple was interested in the male of another couple. She didn’t feel like he was into her, but they want to play again. What should I do?
• 45:35 – 10 Minutes to Quit: Julie, having her “salad tossed” by Johnny; Johnny, being a spectator while Julie was playing with another guy.

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Episode 003 - The Time We Studied Evolution

Our brains really fuck with us. None more often than when our brain drives our emotions and our interactions in the lifestyle. As humans, we have a primitive part of our brain that controls our lives in ways many do not understand. It all goes back to our “caveman” and “cavewoman” roots and our instinctual need to survive. Our instincts do not give us free reign, but they do make our decision making difficult at times. With a better understanding of our instincts, those considering or already in the lifestyle can have a more free and open dialogue with themselves, their significant other, and sexual partners. Don’t let the science scare you off. Use it to enjoy a life with purpose and some sexy time.

SHOW NOTES

• 02:30 – DJ Johnny coming at you on the 5’s.
• 04:30 – Swinging turtles in the Galapagos Islands.
• 05:55 – Johnny’s con-“cock”-tion: Peach bellini.
• 11:55 – Julie describes “grapefruiting”.
• 13:45 – What have we been up to? Collection of Playboy magazine’s back to the 1960’s.
• 19:10 – Getting into the meat of the episode. Disclaimer: Julie and Johnny are not experts but have some information and talked to experts on how the human brain works.
• 23:50 – Brains are very complex with many components that drive us. Brain stem regulates our survival needs such as eating, drinking, sheltering, and fucking.
• 27:00 – Our desires are very natural and innate, and the same with your partner. Be mindful of the judgement.
• 31:30 – Amygdala kicks in with fight or flight. Our primitive brain from being cavemen and cavewomen.
• 37:00 – Understanding how our brains work normalizes our thoughts and desires.
• 38:50 – Meatball marriage therapy session: a discussion with a vanilla couple that are very religious but have some sexual desires.
• 47:35 – Think through what your beliefs are where your feelings come from.
• 49:30 – 10 Minutes to Quit: choose to do something you are thinking about doing and give it a chance.
• 50:15 – Julie’s: trying a bidet and loving a clean asshole.
• 52:00 – Johnny’s: having the confidence to have sex with a very hot model.

SHOW LINKS

• Face/Off - https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0119094/

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Episode 002 - The Time We Got Drunk

Admit it, we have all gotten tipsy and made decisions we may have regretted in the morning. Getting “lubricated” can make for a fun experience, but not at the cost of poor decisions or decisions we would not make if we maintained our wits.

When alcohol or other mood enhancers are needed to make the evening move forward, there may be a problem. Relaxing yourself is fine. Numbing yourself is something else entirely. Watch for red flags in yourself, your partner, and those you choose to play with.

In this episode, Julie and Johnny dive into a few things to consider when enjoying your evening. They also discuss a couple that invited a unicorn for some "sexy time", but it didn’t go quite as planned.

SHOW NOTES

• 01:35 – Julie loves the big black…microphone.
• 03:35 – Johnny’s con-"cock"-tion: Lemon Martini – 2 oz. lemon vodka, 1 oz. Cointreau, and 2 oz. of a special simple syrup made with water, fresh squeezed lemon juice, and powdered sugar. Shake that with crushed ice.
• 06:35 – Have you ever sneezed cum out of your nose?
• 08:00 – What have Julie and Johnny been up to?
• 12:00 – The lifestyle can lend itself to a party-like atmosphere and typically alcohol is part of it. Vanilla people looking on might think the lifestyle is a drunk fest, which is not true.
• 13:45 – So many people in the lifestyle are more respectful than vanilla people.
• 16:00 – Be honest with yourself, do you know your limits? Does your significant other know your limits?
• 22:25 – Meatball Marriage Therapy: a couple wanted a unicorn and things didn’t go well.
• 32:15 – Do you need alcohol to be part of the lifestyle? If so, that's a bad path to take.
• 37:45 – 10 Minutes to Quit: Julie’s: bought a sex toy. Johnny’s:  separate room play.

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Episode 001 - The Time We Didn't Ask

Words mean something. Words can be fantastic, informative and provide clarity. Problem is…what happens when we forget to use our words? In any situation, disaster can follow and none more so than in the lifestyle.

Communication is key. Honest, forthright direction is vital in lifestyle relationships. Honesty with yourself, with your significant other, and with others fosters a healthy and rewarding experience. Don’t screw it up by assuming. Because we all know what ass-u-me-ing does.

In this episode, Julie and Johnny talk about the time one situation went mildly bad until everyone had a heart-to-heart.

SHOW NOTES

• 02:37 – Johnny’s con-"cock"-tion: Orgasm; Remember how to make it with the acronym BACK – Baileys, Amaretto, Cream, and Kahlua.
• 06:15 – What have Julie and Johnny been up to? Not much. Vanilla life has slowed us down a bit, but we did have one “so-so” experience.
• 12:50 – We will be in Desire Pearl in February 2023. Cum see us.
• 14:00 – Life is ambiguous and does not come with a manual. The lifestyle is viewed by many as a “taboo” topic. What are the rules and guidelines.
• 15:58 – Many “rules” end up being broken because they become flexible in the moment. Most rules are not actual rules. They are guidelines, limits, or boundaries.
• 19:20 – Finger pointing does not work. Stop trying to find fault. Your partner is not trying to hurt you and scenarios that "pop up" are dynamic.
• 23:00 – Meatball Marriage Therapy: a couple that didn’t talk to each other, then a great night turned into a bad day.
• 32:00 – Sometimes things are way worse in your head than they are in reality.
• 35:30 – The lifestyle has opened conversations requiring a completely opened mind with each other.
• 39:35 – 10 Minutes to Quit.
• 40:45 – Julie’s experience: using toys.
• 43:55 – Johnny’s experience: being naked in public.

SHOW LINKS

• Lake Cumberland Poker Run - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MAmm0SVm5hU

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Episode 000 - The Time We Introduced Ourselves

Like every great relationship, hero movie, or porno flick, there's an origin story. (Okay, maybe not so much for porn.) Here is the origin story of two love birds, Julie and Johnny, that can’t keep their hands off of each other or other people.

Julie and Johnny are a married couple in the swinging lifestyle that enjoy playing with others, talking about their experiences, and helping others navigate a world that is as wide as it is deep. (Did you see what we did there?)

We hope you enjoy the journey as we work to bring understanding, help, and hope to a group of like-minded individuals that enjoy expressing themselves while living their best lives.

SHOW NOTES

• 01:30 – Welcome to the show!
• 02:55 – A little about Julie and Johnny.
• 05:50 – Description of Julie.
• 10:20 – Description of Johnny.
• 12:45 – Johnny was a bartender in his past so he will share a con-"cock"-tion in every episode.
• 13:40 – Con-"cock"-tion: Captain Morgan and Pepsi with real cane sugar.
• 16:30 – We love to talk and have become the “go to” in our circles for lifestyle questions. Our professional lives provide a benefit to others in helping communicate about lifestyle-related items.
• 19:20 – “Meatball Marriage Therapists”, we have “almost no credentials” but are still happy to interject our thoughts and opinions.
• 21:15 – Not trying to get everyone in the lifestyle. It is helping people find the path that works for them.
• 24:00 – The podcast is intended to start a raw conversation about various topics in the lifestyle.
• 25:40 – Every episode will end with a segment called “10 Minutes to Quit”. If you're nervous about trying something new, give yourself 10 minutes to try it, then allow yourself to jump out if needed or stay in and enjoy the experience.
• 27:45 – Julie’s 10 Minutes to Quit experience: getting into the lifestyle.
• 30:50 – Johnny’s 10 Minutes to Quit experience: having sex in public.
• 35:10 – Please email us to share your story about something that you were nervous but took the leap of faith and tell us how your experience went?
• 37:00 – How did the conversation go after the experience? Be proud that you tried something new.

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